Dealing with shame and an upselling hairdresser

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Dealing with shame and an upselling hairdresser

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Exploring strategies to help you overcome shame or embarrassment. And how do you handle the pressure when you're at the salon and your hairdresser suggests extra products and treatments while you're in the chair?

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Mar 22, 2024

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The age of retirement: The age to access the age pension has increased to 67 years old, with some reports suggesting it will eventually need to rise to 70. Should age be the only thing that defines our access to the age pension, or do we need to think about other factors, like occupation and means testing? by Life Matters - Full program podcast
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