Taking an adult gap year and caring for an abusive parent

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Taking an adult gap year and caring for an abusive parent

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Rachael Coopes explains why she left behind her stable life and her soul mate to study for a year with the French master clown Philippe Gaulier. And what happens when a woman who moved countries to escape her parents learns that her father has dementia and has been left in her care?

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Jun 8, 2023

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