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166. Fantasy bonding - is it love or delusion?
166. Fantasy bonding - is it love or delusion?
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Length:
36 minutes
Released:
Feb 2, 2024
Format:
Podcast episode
Description
Sometimes we become more attached to the idea of someone and their potential, than the reality of who they actually are. We begin to project our wants and desires on to them and ignore the red flags, the disappointments, the truth. This is what we call fantasy bonding and it prevents us from seeing someone for who they truly are, causes us to be lead along and invest in the wrong people. In this episode, we break down the psychology of fantasy bonding, including:
The origins of fantasy bonding in childhood
How a fantasy bond emerges
Relationship intensity and attachment
Why our fear of loneliness drives us into the wrong relationships
The idealisation of our partners
What happens when the fantasy fades
How to avoid a fantasy bond
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The origins of fantasy bonding in childhood
How a fantasy bond emerges
Relationship intensity and attachment
Why our fear of loneliness drives us into the wrong relationships
The idealisation of our partners
What happens when the fantasy fades
How to avoid a fantasy bond
Listen now.
Follow us on Instagram: @thatpsychologypodcast
Follow Jemma on Instagram: @jemmasbeg
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Released:
Feb 2, 2024
Format:
Podcast episode
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