The quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives. And yet, it’s an area many of us have regular struggles with. We think the problem is sex, money, how to discipline the children… it’s not. In this episode world-renowned, Oprah-endorsed, relationship expert with over 40 years of experience Gay Hendricks pulls back the curtain on this one. He reveals what is REALLY keeping you from the peaceful, harmonious & joyful relationship you are seeking. The answer may well surprise you, just like it did me!  You’ll also learn: 01:12 The reasons why relationships are so hard08:50 Sex, money & the kids is NOT the real problem, this is… 13:15 Asking executives in a boardroom: What are you afraid of?15:14 The 4 types reactions that really harm a relationship16:57 Your body holds the clues... are you listening?18:55 When & When NOT to try and resolve a conflict...22:31 Gay & Katie Hendricks have a 40+ year marriage: here are the 3 things he says have made that happen24:38 The unexpected relationship killer (I've never heard this one before!)  41:02 Finding your genius zone to thrive in relationships & in life51:58 3 easy ways to improve your relationship with your partner If you’ve been a long standing listener of the show and would like to express your gratitude and support the continuation of high-quality weekly content, please pledge your support on Patreon. Lastly, come and say hello on socials! I love hearing from you. InstagramTikTokYouTubeWebsiteResources for Gay Hendricks:Instagram: @hendricks.gayFacebook: Gay HendricksYouTube: hendricksinstituteWebsite: hendricks.com Foundation: foundationforconsciousliving.orgRead: The Big Leap, Five Wishes, Conscious Loving, Conscious Loving Ever After & moreMus