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    You Have More Influence Than You Think With Vanessa Bohns

    You Have More Influence Than You Think With Vanessa Bohns

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    You Have More Influence Than You Think With Vanessa Bohns

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    36 minutes
    Released:
    Nov 25, 2023
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    If you’ve ever felt ineffective, invisible, or inarticulate, chances are you weren’t actually any of those things. Those feelings may instead have been the result of a lack of awareness we all seem to have for how our words, actions, and even our mere presence affect other people.
    In You Have More Influence Than You Think social psychologist Vanessa Bohns draws from her original research to illustrate why we fail to recognize the influence we have, and how that lack of awareness can lead us to miss opportunities or accidentally misuse our power.
    Weaving together compelling stories with cutting-edge science, Bohns answers the questions we all want to know (but may be afraid to ask): How much did she take to heart what I said earlier? Do they know they can push back on my suggestions? Did he notice whether I was there today? Will they agree to help me if I ask?
    Whether attending a meeting, sharing a post online, or mustering the nerve to ask for a favor, we often assume our actions, input, and requests will be overlooked or rejected. Bohns and her work demonstrate that people see us, listen to us, and agree to do things for us much more than we realize―for better, and worse.
    You Have More Influence Than You Think offers science-based strategies for observing the effect we have on others, reconsidering our fear of rejection, and even, sometimes, pulling back to use our influence less. It is a call to stop searching for ways to gain the influence you don’t have and to start recognizing the influence you don’t realize you already have.

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    Released:
    Nov 25, 2023
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    This is the top ranked negotiation podcast in the world. You’ll discover how to make difficult conversations easier while getting more of what you want in the process. You'll hear interviews from successful business professionals and thought leaders and discover how they use these skills to advance their businesses and careers. In our sparring sessions, I go head-to-head with our guests in a mock negotiation to give the audience an example of how these techniques can be implemented when dealing with difficult people. We don't just talk about what works, we talk about why it works by uncovering the psychological principles that undergird these techniques. The podcast is as fun as it is informative. Our goal is to increase the competence and confidence of our listeners to empower them to get what they want and deserve out of life, both personally and professionally. (Formerly Negotiation for Entrepreneurs) Keywords: negotiation, negotiate, persuasion, influence, leadership, psychology, sales, compassionate curiosity, mindful, mindfulness, emotions, self awareness, emotional intelligence, career, interviews, informational interviews, job search, job readiness, networking, discounts, conflict, difficult people, psychology, emotion, emotions, argue, argument, debate, negotiation, negotiate, influence, persuasion, leadership, entrepreneurship, small business, salary, sales, law, lawyer, law school, mba, human resources, HR, employee, employees, procurement, procure, procured, procures, supply chain, law, lawyer, lawyers, attorney, real estate, realtor, realtors, real estate agent, contract manager, contract negotiation, contracts, mediation, dispute resolution, arbitration, legal, corporate, deal, deals, deal making, dealmaking.