When a brave couple enters my office, after pleasantries, often the first thing that I ask is: 
“How do you folks feel about being here?” 
 A common response I get is: “I can’t believe we are here..” 
There is a sense of shame and failure - “what’s wrong with us??” 
And I totally get it. 
But the truth is: Nothing is wrong with you, in fact, it’s to be expected.
In this episdoe we begin to learn why.