In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My husband has been watching porn of women ‘squirting’ on men. He’s incredibly turned on by the idea of it all and wants me to squirt on him. Are these videos even real? Is female ejaculation possible; and, if so, how could I make myself do it?2) I’ve just separated from my husband and have been ostracized by my friends because I had an affair. We are the first in our group of friends to divorce and I think it’s made everyone nervous. Of course, I’m the bad person because I had the affair, but my husband and I hadn’t had sex for four years. I tried over and over to talk to him and let him know I wasn’t happy but he wouldn’t listen. We’re young (I’m late 30s, he’s early 40s) and I don’t want to live a life without sex. I don’t want to tell our friends the real story because it would embarrass him but I’m also sick and tired of being blamed for the whole thing. What should I do?3) I want to buy something for my wife for her birthday that will improve our sex life, but not cause her to feel awkward. She’s quite conservative sexually, though was up for anything at the start. It’s hard for men to know what’s welcome and what’s going to offend. With lingerie, for instance, do you buy her true size or a size smaller if she thinks she’s fat (and she can change it later?)To have Tracey and Kelsey discuss YOUR secret sex question, enter it anonymously at https://bit.ly/3C4AelUWant a copy of Tracey’s book, Great Sex Starts at 50? Enter code GREATSEX on ChronicleBooks.com for 30% off! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.