In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:I find sex at best uncomfortable, at worst outright painful. How do I make it more enjoyable? I have seen my doctor and he doesn’t seem to think there’s anything obviously wrong.We used to kiss all the time but just two years in, it’s all gone. I really miss it. How do I get it back again? We don’t even kiss during sex anymore. Do other long-term couples still kiss using their tongues?My partner takes Viagra ‘just for fun’. He doesn’t need it – he’s only 32 and doesn’t have erection problems – but I think he likes the feeling of being really hard. I worry it’s not good for him and that he will become reliant. He says he’s been using it on and off for years. And offers her sex tip of the week!To have Tracey answer YOUR secret sex question, enter it anonymously on zibbyowens.com/sex.Want a copy of Tracey’s book, Great Sex Starts at 50? Enter code GREATSEX on ChronicleBooks.com for 30% off! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.