In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:I am a middle aged man, married, in good health. My question is, how can I last longer during intercourse? A typical session lasts only a matter of three of four minutes. Are there any exercises or techniques that I can use to gain more self control? I've tried things such as masturbating in advance to lessen the desire, extending masturbation to longer durations to better understand my response and ways to manage it, as well as doing Kegels. It’s something I’ve struggled with all my life.I keep reading about toys and condoms getting lost inside people. Is this true? It makes me nervous! What do you do if this happens?A very good friend of mine, who is married, confessed recently that she’s having an affair. It’s put me in a very awkward situation because my husband and I often hang out with her and her husband. I don’t approve but don’t know if it’s my place to tell her that? I’m terrified to tell my husband – who I tell everything – in case he slips up or decides we have to tell her husband. He’s aware I’m keeping a secret and that’s not helping either. What’s the right thing to do here? I get the impression it’s more a sex affair than love affair. And offers her sex tip of the week!To have Tracey answer YOUR secret sex question, enter it anonymously on zibbyowens.com/sex.Want a copy of Tracey’s book, Great Sex Starts at 50? Enter code GREATSEX on ChronicleBooks.com for 30% off! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.