In this episode, Tracey answers these three questions and offers a signature sex tip:1. I used to love sex but I’m finding, as I’m getting older, that my confidence is falling. I haven’t felt sexy since I had children and put on weight. I’ve also got lots of stretch marks. My husband tells me I look great but I think he’s just saying that to be nice. What can I do to get my confidence back?2. I have most of my orgasms with my vibrator on my own. Sometimes I worry that this is ruining me for sex with my partner. Is it possible to get addicted to my vibrator? Is it bad for you to have most of your orgasms that way?3. My new partner wants me to watch porn with him. I’ve never done it before and worried I’m going to make a fool of myself. What do you do while you’re watching it? Do you watch it and then go off and have sex? Or do you do it while you’re watching?To have Tracey answer YOUR secret sex question, enter it anonymously on zibbyowens.com/sex.Want a copy of Tracey’s book, Great Sex Starts at 50? Enter code GREATSEX on ChronicleBooks.com for 30% off!See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.