In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:My husband of 13 years is suddenly wanting to try lots of new things in bed. Even more suspicious, he’s quite good at things I know he’s never done with me. I accused him of having an affair and he says he isn’t but what else could it be? He says he just wants to have more adventurous sex. But why now after all these years of quite boring sex?I’m really good at oral sex – it’s the thing I do best that really works on guys. So I was totally deflated to discover my new partner doesn’t enjoy receiving oral sex. He says he’s never really enjoyed it and only likes it when I use my hand. Now what?I recently found out my first and only real true love who I was with for seven years has now come out as gay. It was 20 years ago that we were together and I’m married now but it’s really thrown me. Does it mean he didn’t ever love me? Was it my fault? I am reasonably happy in my marriage but have always secretly hoped we’d end up back together. I don’t know how to deal with this.And offers her sex tip of the week!To have Tracey answer YOUR secret sex question, enter it anonymously on zibbyowens.com/sex.Want a copy of Tracey’s book, Great Sex Starts at 50? Enter code GREATSEX on ChronicleBooks.com for 30% off! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.