In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:1. How can I get my partner to get more kinky? I've tried suggesting things, I've changed positions and he always reverts back to missionary style. I’d love to do it on the table, against the wall. Nothing works for him except in bed, the same way. This is boring! I even told him I have sex toys – he’s not even interested in that. I have a very old-fashioned guy.2. I can’t stop thinking about the sex my partner had with his ex. I met her recently and she was sexy, confident, and flirtatious. I’ve had a video of the two of them at it whirling around in my head ever since. I don’t want to talk to him about it unless he confirms my worst fears: that I’m not half as sexy/good in bed as she is.3. My previous boyfriend used to constantly make fun of the face I make when I orgasm. It’s made me really self-conscious and I’m now dreading having sex with any future boyfriends. How can I get past it?And offers her sex tip of the week!To have Tracey answer YOUR secret sex question, enter it anonymously on zibbyowens.com/sex.Want a copy of Tracey’s book, Great Sex Starts at 50? Enter code GREATSEX on ChronicleBooks.com for 30% off!See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.