10 min listen
Control: The Anti-Fun
ratings:
Length:
21 minutes
Released:
Dec 20, 2021
Format:
Podcast episode
Description
Control is not a measure of confidence, it's a measure of fear. Fear of not meeting expectations, or getting the desired outcome. Fear of failure. In this episode, we'll explore how having more fun can unlock creative potential and leave us all with a whole lot less stress.
Giving up control allows us to see other possibilities than what we thought we wanted. In the flow of the present moment, we can pivot to receive all that is available for the situation.
Trying to control outcomes and prove yourself is negative energy and others will respond negatively to you as a result.
Try looking for ways to have fun in any situation- especially ones that are fraught with conflict or tension. Notice how your focus on having a positive experience (not a positive outcome) shifts everything.
Time Builder is now available in paperback! Get it here
Get help if you need it- check out two of my entry level coaching sessions here that will help you get some perspective and clarity: http://architectingpodcast.com/index.php/coaching-programs-angela-mazzi/ DM me on Instagram with topics, questions or show ideas!
Stay Inspired,
Angela
Join the architecting community:
Facebook Group
Instagram
LinkedIn
Clubhouse
2:00 PM EST 3rd Sundays- Critical Conversations- A raw look at the state of our profession
9:00 AM EST Mondays- Architects as Healers: Buildings as Medicine
Learn more and connect architectingpodcast.com
Interested in sponsoring a show or having me as a guest on your podcast or community? Stop here to get information.
Into/outro music Alive by Richard Wasson Copyright 2019
Giving up control allows us to see other possibilities than what we thought we wanted. In the flow of the present moment, we can pivot to receive all that is available for the situation.
Trying to control outcomes and prove yourself is negative energy and others will respond negatively to you as a result.
Try looking for ways to have fun in any situation- especially ones that are fraught with conflict or tension. Notice how your focus on having a positive experience (not a positive outcome) shifts everything.
Time Builder is now available in paperback! Get it here
Get help if you need it- check out two of my entry level coaching sessions here that will help you get some perspective and clarity: http://architectingpodcast.com/index.php/coaching-programs-angela-mazzi/ DM me on Instagram with topics, questions or show ideas!
Stay Inspired,
Angela
Join the architecting community:
Facebook Group
Clubhouse
2:00 PM EST 3rd Sundays- Critical Conversations- A raw look at the state of our profession
9:00 AM EST Mondays- Architects as Healers: Buildings as Medicine
Learn more and connect architectingpodcast.com
Interested in sponsoring a show or having me as a guest on your podcast or community? Stop here to get information.
Into/outro music Alive by Richard Wasson Copyright 2019
Released:
Dec 20, 2021
Format:
Podcast episode
Titles in the series (100)
Networking 101: Networking got you stymied? Learn my introvert-proven success tips on making meaningful connections. When I tried to just force myself to chat people up, I was in networking hell. There is a better way- one that gets you results and helps you make m... by ARCHITECTING Podcast - Career + Lifestyle Mentoring for Architects looking to move beyond overwhelm and make a difference through design