Today we’re tackling the question of how to share kink resources with vanilla people you encounter in your dating travels, strategies for protecting your energy as you do so, and how to hold out hope that you're going to convert seemingly vanilla folks into new kinksters. How To Turn Your Vanilla Partner Into Your Dom | My free writing on kink| Book recs | Thich Nhat Hanh in context Join our Deep Dive interview with Luna Matatas all about Diversity in Kink To support the pod and engage in our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month!  Free & Public Friday Q&As here Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to podcast@askasub.com How To Record A Voice Memo Subscribe to the subby substack & read More on my breakup with Instagram Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0 CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by Kayleigh Denner Music by Dan Molad