On this month's Deep Dive interview, Brat Whisperer Lola Jean joins me to talk all about what makes brat tick, and more importantly how to find your inner brat and negotiate the conditions that will allow (controlled, joyful) chaos to reign. You are a cute puzzle!  Going patreon at $11/month to get the full hour-long interview here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/brat-motivations-79112905  Or join at $5/month to join us live for our next Deep Dive interview with @safeslut all about STI’s, safer sex, and her life as an HSV+ queen!  https://www.patreon.com/askasub  Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to podcast@askasub.com More on my breakup with Instagram: https://askasub.substack.com/p/my-last-abusive-relationship Subscribe to the subby substack for free short form content: https://askasub.substack.com  Free & Public Friday Q&As: https://discord.gg/AvkZ9f6BtY  Follow Lola: Instagram | Twitter | Her Website