In today’s episode Lina goes in deep on what aftercare is and how to incorporate it with all kinds of people and all kinds of sex. She also covers some ways to build and structure a dynamic from scratch – in particular punishment, funishment, and the glory of being a Brat. Finally, Lina discusses the spectrum between vanilla and kink relationships and how to adapt and grow within those rainbow shades of intimacy ?   Let's be the part of society that tells you your kinks are okay, your wants are valid and they can be so, so much fun!   Have a question about BDSM, sex, dating, relationships, Dom/sub dynamics, and anything else you’d like to ask Lina? Submit yours over at www.askasub.com/podcast - there is no question too bizarre or too basic!   Still thirsty for community? Join us on the Ask a Sub Patreon and have access to the most wholesome and kinky discord community! Check it out over at www.patreon.com/askasub   You can follow Lina over at @askasub on both Instagram and Twitter!    Make sure to subscribe, drop us a 5-star rating, and tell all your filthy friends about the show!   Host, Producer - Lina Dune | Producer, Editor - Stella Hartmann  | Producer, Research - Caroline Stephens | Music - Dan Molad