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New weekly episodes of ask a sub coming 2/17. Send your voice memo questions, comments, prompts, anecdotes and success stories to podcast@askasub.com <3

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Ask a Sub is an advice podcast for the kink-curious to take themselves from dreaming to doing. Our host Lina Dune is bringing wellness kink to the masses, and equipping every would-be kinkster with the tools to become their own BDSM BFF.

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10. Kinkily Ever After: In our season finale, we wade into the waters of respect, romance, and all things mushy gushy. First, hear Lina’s thoughts on training collars and creating contracts – how to set up expectations, needs, and all the rice-kneeling moments in... by ask a sub
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DEEP DIVE: Creative Scene Planning with Cory Bush and Adam Rei Siegel: It's official! Once we hit 2K subscribers on Patreon the Ask A Sub podcast is coming back full force! In the meantime I want to share a teaser of a series I'm doing for Patreon members called DEEP DIVE. Deep Dive is a monthy series where I'll... by ask a sub
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6. Opening Up, People Pleasing and Kink Shame: This week on the table of sub wisdom is something a lot of subs historically have a past with – people pleasing. There is no magic solution, but Lina does her best to unpack it like the classic algebra problems that we definitely don’t miss from... by ask a sub
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3. Fake Doms, Real Doms, And How Can Submission Be Feminist?: On this week’s episode, Lina tackles the foundational questions of who are Dom(me)s? What do they get out of D/s, and how does trauma play into everything? What about Fake Doms? What are they and how does one *not* be a Fake Dom–especially on... by ask a sub
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1. My Submission Journey, Orgasm Control, And Advice For Single Thirds: Ready to demystify kink and head out into the world? In this episode, Lina talks about her own history with submission and how she decided 24/7 lifestyle D/s was for her. What do you do if you know you're kinky but not sure what comes next? What... by ask a sub
39 min listen
2. Aftercare, Mindful Bratting, & The Vanilla Misery Fetish: In today’s episode Lina goes in deep on what aftercare is and how to incorporate it with all kinds of people and all kinds of sex. She also covers some ways to build and structure a dynamic from scratch – in particular punishment, funishment, and... by ask a sub
20 min listen
7. CNC, Empowered Collaring, and Protocol For Open Relationships: CW for the Episode: CNC–please skip to 13:50 to go straight to question 2. This week, Lina breaks down Consensual Non-Consent – what it is, where the fantasy comes from, and how to safely proceed in play while still feeling seen and taken care of.... by ask a sub
38 min listen
Brat Motivations with Lola Jean: On this month's Deep Dive interview, Brat Whisperer Lola Jean joins me to talk all about what makes brat tick, and more importantly how to find your inner brat and negotiate the conditions that will allow (controlled, joyful) chaos to reign. You are a... by ask a sub
17 min listen
DEEP DIVE: Venus Cuffs on Kink Parties & Being A Bossy B*tch by ask a sub
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4. Sub Frenzy, Safe Words, And The Myth Of The Top Shortage: This week, Lina goes straight into what it feels like to find a new Dom(me)–what it means to navigate the feels of frenzy and swooning, and is it possible to balance leaning in and not overextending yourself? (Spoiler alert: it is!) She also covers... by ask a sub
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8. Survivors, Loneliness, and a Cucking Treat by ask a sub
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DEEP DIVE: Wholesomeness Is Perverted with Dia Dynasty and @tiemetightly: It's official! Once we receive 2K subscribers on Patreon the Ask A Sub podcast is coming back full force! In the meantime I want to share a teaser of a series I'm doing for Patreon members called DEEP DIVE. Deep Dive is a monthy series where... by ask a sub
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5. Social Stigmas, Sub Drop, and D/s with Roommates: This week, Lina takes on Society at Large! Hear her thoughts on how to navigate the social stigma around BDSM culture – especially turning those “oh, that’s not normal” comments into something more expansive and inclusive. Lina then digs into... by ask a sub
27 min listen
The Sexual Is Political: Today we’re reclaiming our erotic power and studying a holy trinity of queer feminist writers: Adrienne Rich, Audre Lorde, and Gloria Anzaldúa. Join our free & public community discussion . To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub... by ask a sub
17 min listen
2 Doms 1 Sub: A Dom calls in wondering how to navigate his sub’s dynamic with another Dom, and Lina talks about primary partner veto, as well as the ins and outs of navigating side-by-side dynamics. (Our deepest apologies for the title of this episode, we... by ask a sub
22 min listen
DEEP DIVE: Leigh Cowart Wrote The Book On Masochism: It's official! Once we hit 2K subscribers on the Ask A Sub podcast is coming back full force! In the meantime I want to share a teaser of a series I'm doing for Patreon members called DEEP DIVE. is a monthy series where I'll bring you deep... by ask a sub
13 min listen
1970s Leather Culture: "A Very Happy Place To Be": Cue up some disco and put on your finest assless chaps, we’re taking a walking tour through the heart of leather culture in the 1970’s - San Francisco’s South of Market neighborhood (home of Folsom Street) and the many bars, clubs, and... by ask a sub
13 min listen
Don’t Fear The Fluidity: Lina comforts a listener who’s seeking insight into the parallels between bi+ and non-monogamous identities. Lina also takes a second to address the difference between “unicorn hunters” and bi+ people looking to have a nice time. To support the... by ask a sub
26 min listen
Season Two Coming Soon: New weekly episodes of ask a sub coming 2/17. Send your voice memo questions, comments, prompts, anecdotes and success stories to <3 by ask a sub
2 min listen
9. Dating Apps, Meeting IRL, and Seeking Compatibility: This week, we cover all the basics of dating and finding kinky people to play with. First, Lina covers the FAQs of dating app profiles – what to do if you’re looking for your ideal Dom(me), how to signal to people that you’re kinky without... by ask a sub
31 min listen
DEEP DIVE: Finding A Sex-Positive Therapist with Rachel Wright: Every wondered how to find a good therapist? And actually get your needs met by said therapist? What about sleeping arrangements for your 4 person polycule? Non-Monogamous therapist Rachel Wright has your back in this lovely interview. Join Patreon ,... by ask a sub
14 min listen
Body Love & Healing Your Gaze: Join me and Luna Matatas for a discussion all about cultivating body confidence in a messed up world! Get the rest of my interview with Luna . Find Luna online . at $11/month to get the complete interview , as well as access to the... by ask a sub
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The Polyamory Cool Kids Table: A new sub wants to know how to manage jealousy when you're monogamous and your partner isn't. Aka, where is your place in the kink community if not at the so-called "cool kid's table?" Well, it's right here next to me. Get instructions for submitting... by ask a sub
26 min listen
All About Us: Hear all about the varied kink lives of our ask a sub community! From single folks to people married with kids, kink is a living, breathing practice that meets us where we are and infuses our lives with choice, meaning, and joy. at $11/month to... by ask a sub
23 min listen
Bisexual It Girl Vita Sackville-West: A bi-for-bi open marriage, crossdressing, and a series of passionate artistic love affairs — no, it’s not 2023, it’s 1923! On this month’s pride minisode I’m bringing you the story of bisexual it girl Vita Sackville-West, and the letters... by ask a sub
11 min listen
Gender Is Fake, Aftercare Is Real: A sub wants to know how to bring forward feminine energy and suppress the masculine during aftercare. Lina’s response? Gender is fake, privilege is real, and pegging your Dom is a submissive act. How did we get there? Guess you’ll have to listen.... by ask a sub
20 min listen
Keeping Your Polyam Foot On The Floor: Thoughts on respecting all the connections in your polyamorous ecosystem when the sub swoons come calling. Our next Deep Dive is on 9/12 at 3pm with pelvic floor physical therapist Dr. Rachel McCarthy-Moya! To support the pod and join our thriving... by ask a sub
21 min listen
Herpes Hope & Hotness with Safe Slut: joined me to tell me all about her dating life as an HSV+ queen, shared her thoughts on disclosure, and gave us some insight into her first date rituals. Spoiler alert: an HSV diagnosis isn't going to end your sex life! In fact... it might make it... by ask a sub
17 min listen
We Are Always Evolving (And So Are Our Needs): A sub wants to know how to communicate their changing needs in a longterm relationship, and Lina equips them with proactive, active, and reactive tools for sharing feedback and keeping the D/s container safe (but also spicy). To support the pod and... by ask a sub
26 min listen
Your Shiny Orb Of Subby Selfness: Lina ponificates on curating kinky community beyond the algorithm, then stands at the crossroads with a listener who wants to go from book learning to street smarts. And finally, some thoughts on overthinking, and the perfectly nice orgasms it chases... by ask a sub
36 min listen

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64. Committed And Kinky: A listener calls in after someone told her saying she’s kinky means she’s probably not looking for anything serious. Obviously this is not true, but Lina also had some thoughts on the relationship escalator, community care, and how to see people... by ask a sub
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62. Accessible Glory Holes with Andrew Gurza: Disability advocate, sex toy creator, and host of Disability After Dark Andrew Gurza joins us to talk all about non-binary identity, dating while disabled, and how we can improve accessibility in kinky and queer spaces. To get this full episode, go to... by ask a sub
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305. The 24/7 D/s Buffet: So you've got somebody to do 24/7 with - great! Now how the hell do you narrow down all the options and create a bespoke practice just for you? Lina walks a listener through the buffet of options, and helps guide the process of assembling a satisfying... by ask a sub
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302. What Is Humiliation Anyway?: First Lina delivers a hot take about how women who sleep with men can become marginalized within kink, then teases out the difference between humiliation and degradation kinks while making fun of dating app bing bongs (as usual). To support the pod... by ask a sub
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301. Dovetailing Purity Culture Into Kink: We’re back! And we’re kicking purity culture in the pants!! Get info about the Friday 1/26 Deep Dive ! To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, starting at $5/month! Subscribe to the subby... by ask a sub
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