This week we’re naming and confronting the pessimism that makes us think all potential sex partners are trash, then discussing what good, real Doms are actually like! They’re out there! Upcoming Deep Dive: Real Stories From The Kink World on 5/17 at 5 pacific Mindful Masculinity Deep Dive The Bisexual Ghost | Wife Swapping with Christopher Walken To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month!  Miss the Friday Q&As? They live on here & are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to podcast@askasub.com  Go here for information on how to record a voice memo   Subscribe to the subby substack here. Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0 CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by Kayleigh Denner Music by Dan Molad