You asked, we’re answering. If you want to ask a question for our next Q&A episode, ask us on Instagram @thoughtsmayvarypod! Today’s Thoughts include:Masturbation after SA on SSRIsHow to forgive an ex with substance use challenges Giving yourself validation vs seeking it externally Public speaking tips + tricksPet peeves of each other + our partners Second puberties Learning to trust your intuition & more! Mentioned: “Why Does My ‘For You Page’ Want Me to Practice Post-Sex Aftercare?” By Gaby Ulloa — https://www.thecut.com/2022/08/post-sex-aftercare-what-is-it-how-to.html  Find Us Herehttps://www.instagram.com/thoughtsmayvarypodhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thoughtsmayvarypodMeadow: https://www.instagram.com/itsmeadowlarkGaby: https://www.instagram.com/gabyulloa_Patreon ?https://www.patreon.com/thoughtsmayvary ?Watch episodes: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXwFvKTN7i7kr_xjsKsr5PA DISCLAIMER: We are not licensed professionals. If you are seeking licensed and professional mental health support, please reach out to 741-741 (The Crisis Text Line) or The NAMI Helpline or The Trevor Project or reach out to us for more resources.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy