This week, the girl’s are back with a solo Thought to discuss the dynamics of having people in your life who are uninterested in personal development when you’re on your self growth game. Spoiler alert: it’s all about nuance, grace, + empath with boundaries. Thoughts range from: watching people you love make shitty decisions + how to know if you’re being helpful or a burdenwhat to do when you don’t like your friend’s partner how to help someone who doesn’t want to help themselvesthe balance between energetic access and boundaries Much of today’s themes were in response to questions from y’all! Send us a question or theme request on IG or Patreon for future episodes <3 Find Us Herehttps://www.instagram.com/thoughtsmayvarypodhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thoughtsmayvarypodMeadow: https://www.instagram.com/itsmeadowlarkGaby: https://www.instagram.com/gabyulloa_Patreon <3 https://www.patreon.com/thoughtsmayvaryWatch episodes: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXwFvKTN7i7kr_xjsKsr5PA DISCLAIMER: We are not licensed professionals. If you are seeking licensed and professional mental health support, please reach out to 741-741 (The Crisis Text Line) or The NAMI Helpline or The Trevor Project or reach out to us for more resources.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy