In this Episode: Whose rules are you playing by? Resources for kicking comparison Does what you’re worrying about really matter? Trust the timeline of your path Girl, I am SO excited you are here today because today’s topic was sparked by the feeling of getting engaged after dating for a decade and some of the responses that I got about it. I’ve heard from a lot of women about their anxiousness in regards to milestones in their life, whether it’s engagement, or wedding, or buying a house, or having kids and I just really wanted to talk about this topic because I want to give you some TANGIBLE action steps & mindset approaches that have worked for me. In this short gut check style episode I am breaking down 3 components that I think you’re really going to vibe with! Can’t wait to hear what you think!   Quotes: “Am I building a life that I want? Or what society is telling me I SHOULD want?” “When you know what you actually want, you find that you’re not as anxious about what other people are telling you to do.” “If you’re letting someone else’s opinion of your timeline dictate what you’re doing with your life, you’re going to end up with a crap ton of resentment towards them.” “WHY matters so much more than WHAT.” “You don’t get a prize for getting to a milestone faster.”   Resources: Hey girl, have you joined our email list yet? Subscribe now SELF-AWARENESS & COMMUNICATION tips for Relationships that Last w/ Rachel & Kyle Wright RESILIENCY & Life After Miscarriage w/ Shelly Mettling Self-Awareness, Conflict Resolution & Real Talk to How We Built a Thriving Relationship w/ Seena Ghetmiri SQUASHING the COMPARISON Game Check out ALL my favorite things on Amazon (trampolines, books, & more!) If we aren't connected yet be sure to come hang with me on Instagram @kaciafitzgerald and @empowerHERpodcast or online at www.kaciafitzgerald.com Topic or speaker suggestions? Shoot us an email: hello@kaciafitzgerald.com  Follow our EMPOWERHER PUMP-UP JAMS playlist on Spotify!