It seems like every time you tell someone what you want in a relationship, you’re met with the same argument: you’re being too picky. Your friends, your family, even strangers(!) will all tell you that you need to lower your standards if you ever want to find a boyfriend. And with an abundance of dating apps and websites, there’s a never-ending pool of potential partners to choose from. So, if you’re holding out for someone who meets all of your criteria, it can feel like you’ll never find them.But the truth is, you’re not being “too picky” – you’re just being selective. And there’s nothing wrong with that. In fact, having high standards is a good thing. On this week's episode of The Single Girl's Guide to Life, Chantelle discusses how having standards shows that you know what you want and how to hold those high standards, despite the scepticism that might surround you!-------------If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of other single ladies at https://single-life-be-like.mn.co/ and you'll get access to monthly zoom meetings, The Single Girls Book Club and more!The Single Girl's Guide to Life was created by Chantelle Dyson. Please send your feedback and questions to Chantelle on Instagram,  join our online community for discussion and support, follow Chantelle on TikTok, keep up with the Single Life blog, and join us at a Single Girls Club event.And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE  to stay up to date for future, weekly episode of single life living. FOLLOW: Instagram // Facebook // TikTokSmells Like HumansLike spending time with funny friends talking about curious human behavior. Listen on: Apple Podcasts   Spotify