One of the biggest barriers to attracting what you really want in your love life is expectations. When you have expectations, or fantasies about how something will go, or how things should go, then you're not going to be present with what's actually happening in that moment. And when we can't be present, things don't tend to go well.You sit and wonder about the "what ifs" and the "maybes" when the power of being able to let go can help you break free from the pain of holding onto something that never was, except for in your mind.This week, Chantelle discusses her recent experiences in dating and how learning to let go over time has allowed her to enjoy the dating process more, to stop worrying about what might happen and instead, live for the moment of enjoying getting to meet new people along the way.Like the show? I'd love to hear your review here! - Just a few words can make all the difference!-------------If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of other single ladies at https://single-life-be-like.mn.co/ and you'll get access to monthly zoom meetings, The Single Girls Book Club and more!The Single Girl's Guide to Life was created by Chantelle Dyson. Please send your feedback and questions to Chantelle on Instagram,  join our online community for discussion and support, follow Chantelle on TikTok, keep up with the Single Life blog, and join us at a Single Girls Club event.And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE  to stay up to date for future, weekly episode of single life living. FOLLOW: Instagram // Facebook // TikTokSmells Like HumansLike spending time with funny friends talking about curious human behavior. Listen on: Apple Podcasts   Spotify