Episode 204 - Kink And BDSM - An Interview with Allen Turner

Episode 316 - If You Love Me…: “If you love me…” I’ve been seeing this phrase thrown around quite a lot lately. My clients often tell me that their spouse has said, “If you love me, you’d have more sex with me.” I recently saw in a Facebook group that someone said to... by Sex for Saints

17 min listen

Episode 315 - The Burden of Initiating: Initiating sex is really important in your relationship, but it can also be really hard. Because of societal norms, we sometimes think that men should always initiate because women should be more passive in bed. This can lead to resentment, especially... by Sex for Saints

18 min listen

Episode 314 - Sexual Resentment: Sexual Resentment is a complex emotion where we feel our needs are not being met in one way or another. If we take a step back and look at the stories that we are telling ourselves about our spouse and their inability to meet our needs, we can see... by Sex for Saints

17 min listen

Episode 313 - Level 3 Sex: For the last couple of episodes, we’ve been talking about the different levels of sex. So, in this episode, we’re going to talk about the pinnacle of marital intimacy - Level 3 Sex. I’ll explain all about what Level 3 Sex is, why couples would... by Sex for Saints

25 min listen

Episode 312 - Level 2 Sex: In the last podcast, we talked about Level 1 Sex, what it is, and what we can do about it. So, in this podcast, we are talking about Level 2 Sex, what it is and why you’d want to level up your sex life. Level 2 Sex is not the end of your sexual... by Sex for Saints

20 min listen

Episode 311 - Level 1 Sex: In this episode, we’re diving into a topic that might resonate with many of you - Level 1 Sex. What is it? What isn’t it? And most importantly, how can we move towards a more fulfilling experience in our intimate relationships? I’ll answer these... by Sex for Saints

17 min listen

Episode 310 - Overcoming Sexual Disappointment: Sexual disappointment is a complex emotion. Whenever we have expectations and those expectations aren’t being met, it’s natural to be disappointed. But what really matters is how we deal with that disappointment. Do we pretend we’re fine? Do we... by Sex for Saints

16 min listen

Episode 309 - Are You Using Your Wife for Sex?: When asked, “Are you using your wife for sex?”, most men would say, "Absolutely not”! But is that true? Many men use their wives for sex without even realizing they are doing it. They don’t do it maliciously, but that doesn’t mean they... by Sex for Saints

17 min listen

Episode 308 - Relational Listening - An Essential Sexual Conversation Skill: In this episode, let’s talk about one of the most powerful tools in your relationship toolbox - relational listening. What is relational listening? It’s more than hearing, it’s understanding. So, how do you use it in conversations? Let’s talk... by Sex for Saints

22 min listen

Episode 307 - 3 Things That Affect Sexual Desire: Sexual desire is much more complex than many of us are led to believe. Desire is multifaceted and must be examined from a biological, psychological, and sociological standpoint. Why do I talk about desire so often? Because a lack of desire is the... by Sex for Saints

16 min listen

Episode 306 - The Four Things We All Want in our Sexual Relationship: I’ve been thinking a lot about what we all want in our relationships and what that means to our relationships. So, today I’m going to share with you the four things that we all want in our sexual relationships. We may call them different things,... by Sex for Saints

18 min listen

Episode 305 - What Every Couple Needs To Know About Women’s Hormones - An Interview with Dr. Kelly Casperson: I am so excited for you to hear this interview with Dr. Kelly Casperson. We talk about what you and your partner need to know about women’s hormones. We as women don’t get a lot of information about hormones in general but especially during... by Sex for Saints

56 min listen

Episode 304 - Female-Centric Sex: I know that some of us, both men and women, feel that female-centric sex is selfish. But it absolutely is not! Let’s talk about why women may not want to transition to a female-centric approach to sex and why men might not want to as well. But when... by Sex for Saints

19 min listen

Episode 303 - The Common Thread Between Money & Sex: At first thought, money and sex may not seem to have a lot in common. But if you think about it, when you improve something about your relationship, it often extends to all of your relationship. That’s why I asked Ruth Liebel to join me on the... by Sex for Saints

27 min listen

Episode 302 - When Your Partner Won’t Grow Sexually: Sex, intimacy, and personal growth are all tied together. And when your partner doesn’t want to grow sexually, but you do, it can cause a lot of conflict. It’s not uncommon to find yourself in a situation like this, so in this episode, I’m going... by Sex for Saints

15 min listen

Episode 301 - Mature Feminine Sexuality: I recently was a guest on the Live Your Why podcast with Tammy Hill. I thought the episode was so good, I asked Tammy if I could share it with you as well. She was excited to share what we talked about with you too! So listen in as I share some parts... by Sex for Saints

38 min listen

Episode 300 - Celebrating 300 Episodes!: Wow! Episode 300! I can hardly believe it! I remember nearly six years ago when I started this podcast that I could hardly imagine what 100 episodes would look like, let alone 300. So today's episode is a little different. I asked people to call or... by Sex for Saints

26 min listen

Episode 299 - Focus On The Journey, Not The Destination: Have you ever been on a road trip and heard the words, “Are we there yet?” That person is just focused on the destination, not the journey itself. The same thing happens in our sexual relationships when we just focus on climax. Our world places so... by Sex for Saints

15 min listen

Episode 298 - How To Have Anal Sex Safely: I have had a lot of questions lately about how to safely have anal sex so I’m going to answer those questions here. Anal sex is often intriguing for many couples, and while there seems to be quite a bit of desire to do it from one or both partners,... by Sex for Saints

24 min listen

Episode 297 - Prioritizing Sex in the New Year: I want you to prioritize sex in the new year. I hear from clients all the time that they just don’t have time to have sex. That’s because you’re not making it a priority. Why have more sex? Because it helps you have a healthier and more... by Sex for Saints

24 min listen

Episode 296 - Sexual Responsibility for Those with Responsive Desire: We have often talked about spontaneous desire vs responsive desire on my podcast. But today, I want to go a little deeper into the responsibility you have if you happen to have responsive desire. Often women, and some men, have responsive desire, but... by Sex for Saints

13 min listen

Episode 295 - Why You Should Be Using Lube: Clients will often tell me that they don’t need to use lube because there isn’t anything wrong with them. This could not be further from the truth! There are many things that will affect your natural lubrication, including stress or dehydration,... by Sex for Saints

24 min listen

Episode 294 - Sexy Holiday Gift Guide: This holiday season, can I suggest a new tradition? Giving, and receiving, sexy holiday gifts! When we’re thinking about gifts for our spouse, we often think about what they need or want, and while that’s great, I think as a couple, it’s... by Sex for Saints

11 min listen

Episode 293 - Increasing the Sexual Connection During the Holidays: I have a friend who has 7 kids, all born in September. That means that they were all conceived around Christmas. We’ve often joked about this with her, but it turns out that they aren’t the only ones who get especially horny during the holiday... by Sex for Saints

9 min listen

Episode 292 - Embracing All Parts of Us: I’m speaking with therapist Jeff Lundgren, again, today about internal family systems. It’s a therapeutic modality that he uses in his practice that I find fascinating. If you’ve ever seen the movie Inside Out, you’ve had an introduction to... by Sex for Saints

35 min listen

Episode 291 - Using Psychedelics in Sex Therapy: At times in my coaching career, I’ve been asked by clients about the use of psychedelics in sex therapy. I know that this may be a controversial topic, but I think it’s important to be given all of the information so you can make the decision for... by Sex for Saints

41 min listen

Episode 290 - What Makes A Marriage Thrive: Most of us will say that our marriage is our most important relationship. Yet we often let things get in the way of making it great and our marriage gets put on the back burner. Whether that is kids, work, hobbies, or church callings, we... by Sex for Saints

21 min listen

Episode 289 - Consequences of Sexual Accommodation: I think we all want to have an intimate marriage, but we often miss one important step in achieving that. To have an intimate marriage, we must understand and make room for both partners’ wants and desires, without judgment or shame. But what I... by Sex for Saints

14 min listen

Episode 288 - How Your Eating Can Affect Your Sex Life: Have you ever thought about how food can affect your sex life? That’s what I’m discussing today with my guest and fellow life coach Lisa Salisbury. Thinking about what you put in your body and what you want from your body are important. But, let... by Sex for Saints

31 min listen

Episode 287 - Overcoming Boredom in Sex: Many women tell me that sex is boring for them, which is one of the reasons why they don’t have a strong desire for it. No one craves boredom. We crave pleasure, excitement, novelty, and fun. And if sex is boring, you are probably... by Sex for Saints

12 min listen

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