Justin Lehmiller is a Science-Backed Sex Researcher, Social Psychologist, Author of the Blog "Sex & Psychology", as well as his most recent book "Tell Me What You Want", which offers an unprecedented look at sexual fantasy based on the most comprehensive study ever conducted.
"It's interesting when we say that 15 min a week of porn is an addiction, but the 3 hours of T.V. that the average American watches per day is not"
The Book "Tell Me What You Want":
Amazon - https://amzn.to/2Z19lxa
Website (which provides extra features) - https://www.lehmiller.com/tell-me-what-you-want
Today, Justin discusses the reality of Sex research. Namely, that public commentators of sex and the associated psychology tend to be from a place of personal experience – not evidence and facts – and we discuss some of the issues that this brings.
Konner and Justin also delve into the anxiety around deciding your long term lover or partners that many young people tend to face nowadays due to the huge success and choice of online dating. However, Justin attempts to break the very common negativity surrounding new technologies and dating, and instead raises some very clear positives – such as the increased diversity within relationships.
Justin also talks on a subject that is clouded with misinformation and fear – porn usage and addiction. We uncover some of the realities of this topic and how that could effect porn users.