A variety of women answer whether or not they enjoy giving oral sex; host Leah goes more in-depth about her own personal experiences and preferences, and about how to engage in, negotiate, and enjoy the act. Then, the discussion turns to navigating a polyamorous relationship for someone new to the practice. Extra Bits: PSA—Beware of performative standards (what you see in porn), and always feel free to negotiate the specifics of a sex act according to what is both comfortable and pleasurable for you—like, if you have a sensitive gag reflex, or don’t want ejaculate in your mouth. And on the flip side, positive feedback is important!   Bookmark moments: 3:45 - Leah shares how her recent move with her partner into a two-bedroom apartment gives them the option to sleep solo, and why this is a good thing for the relationship and not a sign of deprivation or trouble. 5:41 - “Do you enjoy giving oral sex?” – the women answer. 12:51 - Leah answers: “I’m a bit agnostic about genitals.” 14:27 - Leah talks about her refusal to swallow ejaculate, and how she and her partner innovated around it. 17:01 - Her current partner communicates what he wants and likes, and guides her with positive feedback to hone in on what feels best that also feels good to her to provide. 18:05 - Leah discusses the myth of the home field advantage in oral sex. 21:17 - Am I Normal? – “Am I crazy to believe I might be ok with her sleeping with other people?” 22:14 – Leah answers: Is it possible for a mixed monogamous/polyamorous relationship to work? 28:09 – New podcast recommendation: Sistory Untold - join hosts Marva and Sabrina as they explore history through the eyes of sisterhood Website - https://www.sistoryuntold.com/ Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/sistoryuntold/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/sistoryuntold/ Twitter - https://twitter.com/SistoryUntold   Resources mentioned: Trustex Condoms – https://www.condomdepot.com/trustex-assorted-colors-non-lubricated/ (this is not an affiliate link)   Book a PJ Party!!!  All the info and registrations are at www.leahcarey.com/pjparty FACEBOOK GROUP: www.facebook.com/groups/goodgirlstalk AM I NORMAL?: Leave a message for Leah at 720-GOOD-SEX (720-466-3739) PATREON: Become a community supporter at www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex RATE THIS POD: Leave a rating and review at www.ratethispodcast.com/goodgirls BE A GUEST: Want to be on the show? Visit www.leahcarey.com/guest COACHING: Want to talk with Leah directly? Visit www.leahcarey.com/coaching Host – Leah Carey (website, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, email) Music – Nazar Rybak