#55: Practicing Gratitude (Even When It's Hard)

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#55: Practicing Gratitude (Even When It's Hard)

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Jun 18, 2020

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Jun 18, 2020

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Black Girls Heal helps women break out of cycles of unhealthy relationships with unavailable partners and feeling not enough by combining coaching, therapeutic support, and practical tools. Every episode, we will talk about intimacy, attachment, healing unresolved trauma, and growing in our self worth.

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#55: Practicing Gratitude (Even When It's Hard)

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