“The art of mothering is to teach the art of living to children." —Elaine Heffner In this episode, Jill shares her perspective and highlights: Awknowlegining the value of "choosing yourself" despite feelings of guilt and judgment from the outside Understanding generational patterns of parenting and breaking maladaptive patterns by being a role model to your child The importance of choosing yourself so that your children learn to choose themselves   Jill Valentine is a leading Transformative Travel and Social Legacy Coach pioneering the transformational travel arena. She leverages the power of travel and volunteerism as tools for creating profound personal and social change. Jill provides her clients with the clarity, confidence, and community to live the life they dream of full of purpose and meaning, while at the same time impacting communities in need around the world including Belize, Nepal, Tanzania, Costa Rica, and Puerto Rico. She is the creator of the UGO Triple Change Effect Model and author of Dare to be a Dandelion, an adventurer, and a passionate force for good. Jill lives by the words, “Let’s Make it Happen” and inspires her daughter to do the same.  Find out more about UGO Impact programs and services at ugoimpact.com  Continue the conversation on Instagram @heatherchauvin_  Take the ENERGY FINDER Quiz: https://heatherchauvin.com/lifequiz  To get my freebies, head over to: www.heatherchauvin.com/energy