We often enter parenting a bit naive and elated at the idea of becoming a parent. And then it hits us! Parenthood is a massive life change and a massive personal growth journey. Kathleen shares with us today her view on this major life change and how we can improve how we care for parents.  What We Talked About: The massive shock and personal growth parenthood brings on How Finland can be described as a utopian society for families How we need to let go of the “Motherhood Mystique” The shock of parenthood is for everyone, not just mothers  How her husband had to put his foot down at work to have a work-life balance Getting help, especially in the early years The negative effects the US Educational System is having on our children Her IVF journey and what she recommends to others on that journey Things to Remember: “Growth and change come with losses and pain, and that’s okay.” “Allow children to be children for a longer period of time.” “The most intense years don’t go on forever.”  “Do not be afraid of needing support and try to get it any way you can.” “Children are born with this intense desire to learn and grow. It is within them” “It enriches our lives if we can connect with other parents and create our village.” - Kathleen Cawley   Click here for Show Notes and more from Jeanne-Marie, Your Parenting Mentor