After you've worked on the first 3 pillars, it's time to formulate your non-negotiables and understand the process for change that your partner must go through in order to truly change. During this phase i's a good idea to start building your solid exit plan and start planning for this, just in case he doesn't make the necessary changes you have identified you need in order to remain in the relationship.  Get instant access to my free Own Your Power Bootcamp  Join End the Cycle 12 week Coaching Program