TU 146: Behind the Scenes in Therapy with Lori Gottlieb

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TU 146: Behind the Scenes in Therapy with Lori Gottlieb

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May 17, 2021

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Lori Gottlieb & Sue Marriott share surprising insights about what therapy delivers and her NYT best-seller "Maybe You Should Talk to Someone." Surprisingly, people go to therapy to unlearn themselves.

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May 17, 2021

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Use the science of the mind and relationships to update your understanding of yourself and those you love – candid conversations with 2 Austin therapists and their guest experts.

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TU15: Decoding The Science Of Interpersonal Neurobiology: Explained in plain speak. Unpack the complicated science behind the brain the mind and secure relating. by Therapist Uncensored Podcast
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TU40: Meditation And Neuroplasticity Provide a Path To Healing: An Interview With Sarah Peyton: Learn how we can develop a compassionate inner voice to help us move toward self-love, emotional regulation and healing. by Therapist Uncensored Podcast
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TU48: Tensions Around #MeToo, Bridging Gender in This Conversation: Can healthy dialogue around the #MeToo phenomena cross genders? We explore the tensions felt by both men and women in their discussions around sexual harassment and assault and explore strategies for increasing understanding and connection. by Therapist Uncensored Podcast
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TU24: Grief And Our Body’s Wisdom On Surviving It With Candyce Ossefort-Russell: Demystifying what happens in our body and emotions when we experience grief and loss. Candyce Ossefort-Russell helps us explore how loss of an important person, relationship or role deregulates our nervous system and makes us feel like we are in danger... by Therapist Uncensored Podcast
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