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When childcare help from your family isn't actually much help
When childcare help from your family isn't actually much help
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Length:
20 minutes
Released:
Jun 13, 2019
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Podcast episode
Description
This week Frankie Tortora and Steve Folland have a chat in response to a question submitted anonymously. Let's call the person... Gemma. She says:
"If I'd gone back to my librarian job, my M-I-L was going to babysit for a full day every week to ease the financial burden and get baby cuddles in. However, now that I am fully self-employed, she 'pops down to visit' for 2-5 hours every other week, of which 1 hour is lunch that I am expected to cook, and eat with her.
It's lovely of course, but it's hardly letting me get any work done.... It's obviously a favour so I struggle with the guilt of pushing it beyond being family time to being work time.”
What would your advice be? Let us know your thoughts using #DIFTKpodcast on Twitter and Instagram, and join in the conversation via the DIFTK Community on Facebook.
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This episode is supported by the lovely people at IPSE, the Association of Independent Professionals and the Self Employed.
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Frankie Tortora's website
Steve Folland's website
Steve's podcast - Being Freelance*
Doing It For The Kids website
DIFTK Facebook Community
DIFTK Instagram
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"If I'd gone back to my librarian job, my M-I-L was going to babysit for a full day every week to ease the financial burden and get baby cuddles in. However, now that I am fully self-employed, she 'pops down to visit' for 2-5 hours every other week, of which 1 hour is lunch that I am expected to cook, and eat with her.
It's lovely of course, but it's hardly letting me get any work done.... It's obviously a favour so I struggle with the guilt of pushing it beyond being family time to being work time.”
What would your advice be? Let us know your thoughts using #DIFTKpodcast on Twitter and Instagram, and join in the conversation via the DIFTK Community on Facebook.
•••
This episode is supported by the lovely people at IPSE, the Association of Independent Professionals and the Self Employed.
•••
Frankie Tortora's website
Steve Folland's website
Steve's podcast - Being Freelance*
Doing It For The Kids website
DIFTK Facebook Community
DIFTK Instagram
DIFTK Twitter
Released:
Jun 13, 2019
Format:
Podcast episode
Titles in the series (100)
When people seem to think your job is a "hobby": This week Frankie Tortora and Steve Folland have a chat in response to a question from Jo Breeze. Jo is a crowdfunding consultant and writer, she says: “My work makes a genuine contribution to paying the bills in our house. It’s not quite 50/50 but some months it’s pretty close. But when I tell people what I do, I sometimes find there’s an assumption that it’s a hobby that I’ve taken on to keep me busy (HAAA) around children. I feel especially awkward when people tell me about their wife or their friend who’s ‘self-employed like you’ when it turns out what they mean is sells things on eBay sometimes, or similar. How do I assert that actually my job is a ‘real’ job, without doing down the choices of other women?” by Doing It For The Kids