Can We Handle Relapse?

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Can We Handle Relapse?

FromThe Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert

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Oct 15, 2019

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Relapse is a part of recovery and a painful one at that. What happens when relapse does take place and what is the right course of action? Listen as Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby walk through the ins and outs of this topic.

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Oct 15, 2019

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Have you been through an affair, or struggle with healing a shattered or disconnected relationship? Each week we will share our 3 different perspectives on topics dealing with relationships, recovery, betrayal & addiction leaving you with HOPE for change no matter your circumstance.

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What If My Story Is Different?: What if I feel unique in my story to everyone else? by The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
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Is Connecting Through Chaos a Thing?: Addiction fosters chaos in all aspects of life. Listen to how Coby and Ashlynn unknowingly connected with chaos. by The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
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Why Can't I Build Trust?: Speaking truth of all kinds can be hard but trust demands it. by The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
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Can Recovery Be a Drag?: Recovery is exhausting but is it always that way? by The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
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What if the Betrayal Trauma Experts Have it Wrong?: Are well-intended specialized therapists have it wrong about the treatment of those betrayed? by The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
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How Long is it Gonna Take?: This recovery thing is hard so how long will it take? by The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
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What are Appropriate Boundaries at Work?: What is and what is not ok behavior at work? by The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
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From Hopeless to Hope: What is the quickest way to hope when your relationship is shattered? by The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
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Having Eyes to See Success: Recovery is so hard. How do you see the actual successes along the way? by The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
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Why Does It Hurt When the Addict Says I'm Beautiful?: Kind words can be scary when trust and safety are compromised but why? by The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
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I'm Doing All the Right Things But Something Is Missing: What do you do when you feel like things look good on paper but you gut is saying something different? by The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
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Making Relationships Work: What are the simple things that make relationships work? by The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
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Why I Can't Stop White Knuckling?: Is it really a thing to constantly white knuckle and feel good? by The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
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Mastering Healthy Connection: How does a couple connect in a healthy way? by The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
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Am I in a Passive-Aggressive Relationship?: What does it mean to be in a passive aggressive relationship? How do I know if I am in one? by The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
30 min listen
You Are Not Loving Me Right: What do you do when you need love a certain way and you feel like you are getting it? by The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
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How do I set Boundaries in my Relationship vs Ultimatums?: What is a healthy boundary and how do they work in a healthy relationship? by The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
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How Can I Overcome the Way I Was Raised?: How do we deal with the way we were raised and its effects on us as adults? by The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
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What Makes A Good Therapist?: How can you find a therapist who best help you and what makes them good? by The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
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What If I Want to Reach Out to the Affair Partner?: Is it a good idea to reach out to the affair partner? Am I crazy or just crazy mad? by The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
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6 Steps That Changed Our Relationship: This is a look at Ashlynn and Coby's story and the 6 steps that created the change. by The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
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Why Do I Get Rejected So Much?: Rejection is hard in any relationship. But why does it seem to happen so much with me? by The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
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Why Is It So Hard To Talk About Sex?: What makes the conversation about sex so challenging? What is that about? by The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
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Dating and That Porn Convo: Having a conversation about porn use or experience can be tricky but one that must take place. So what does that look like? by The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
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Why Does It Feel Right To Watch Their Every Move But It Is Not Helpful?: I want to make sure that they don't fall off the wagon but how do I not watch every move they make? by The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
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How Do I Know If My Partner Is Cheating?: What are the indicators that my partner is cheating on me? by The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
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What If My Partner Is Pressuring Me But I'm Just Not Ready?: When one partner is ready to move forward and the other isn't, what do you do? by The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
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If You Could Ask Us Any Question What Would it Be?: Listening to podcast is one thing but what would you ask Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby if you had the chance? by The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
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What If My Relationship Sucks? Try This.: Relationships are hard but have you tried this one thing? by The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
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What If She's the One Who Had the Affair?: When we think of those who cheated we typically think of men. However women betray their partners too and when that happens what do you do? by The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
31 min listen

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Can We Handle Relapse?

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