Tempered Resilience Study Guide: 8 Sessions on Becoming an Adaptive Leader
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Tempered Resilience: How Leaders Are Formed in the Crucible of Change is about forming resilience so leaders can lead through the resistance that always accompanies change. Tod Bolsinger, an organizational and pastoral leader, writes that experiencing resistance leaves us feeling "exposed, unsure, and often discouraged." Honest and supportive relationships are key to flourishing in these moments of vulnerability. Thus the sessions in this guide are designed to lead to honest conversations for self-discovery as well as offering practices that leaders and their teams can take on together.
Following the structure of review, reflect, relate, and practice, this guide for both individuals and groups will help you to forge the kind of tempered and resilient leadership that the times demand.
Tod Bolsinger
Tod Bolsinger, MDiv, PhD, the co-founder and principal of AE Sloan Leadership, Inc, an executive coaching and consulting firm, an Associate Professor of Leadership Formation at Fuller Theological Seminary, and the author of the Outreach Magazine Resource of the Year in pastoral leadership, Canoeing the Mountains: Christian Leadership in Uncharted Territory, and the Christian Book Award Finalist, Tempered Resilience: How Leaders are Formed in the Crucible of Change. He and his wife, Beth, a professional artist, have two grown children and a big dog.
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Tempered Resilience Study Guide - Tod Bolsinger
Introduction
We will be able to hew out of the mountain of despair a stone of hope.
MARTIN LUTHER KING JR.
MANY OF MY FAVORITE PASTIMES required a guidebook of sorts to get me started. Because I was well into adulthood before YouTube and Google became the go-to source for how-to information, I have a love for guidebooks and cookbooks, for recipes and maps. If I was planning an adventure, I would get the latest Lonely Planet guidebook and the most up-to-date maps. My kitchen is filled with dog-eared cookbooks. But the rise of the digital just-in-time resources means that my smartphone has access to more maps and information than Neal Armstrong had at his disposal when he soared to the moon, or more recipes than Julia Child could translate in a lifetime. So what then of study guides like this?
My previous book, Canoeing the Mountains, was published, originally, without a study guide, and we added one later after people started requesting one. People who had the material in the book wanted more tools for processing the lessons and for conversation. Indeed, one of the most interesting things I heard was how many people were using these materials in groups or pairs or teams. Something about learning new material, developing new skills, and talking about what we are learning with people is enlivening, empowering, even inspiring. So, with Tempered Resilience: How Leaders Are Formed in the Crucible of Change, we are offering this study guide written specifically with leaders and their partners in mind.
Let me review, however, two assumptions at the heart of everything I write.
First, leadership is a skill that can be taught. Some, of course, have more natural skills or have had life experiences that lead to more quickly understanding the concepts or making the connections to what needs to be learned, but everyone can become a better leader. That shouldn’t be a surprise to anyone who knows that I am a seminary professor. We teach students other skills like writing, listening, counseling, interpreting, and preaching. Of course the same caveats about natural abilities apply, but we teach everyone who is admitted to the school. That doesn’t mean it is easy. In the book I tell the story of trying to become a better fly-fisher even though I have years of experience in the sport. It was, as I wrote, a humbling day.
Indeed, all learning is hard. Learning skills that do not come naturally to most of us (like staying calm when confronted, asking good questions, and honest self-reflection to the point of deep vulnerability) is even harder. But the book offers a formation process that can be learned by anyone who has the humility and tenacity (two key concepts in the book) to learn, and this study guide seeks to make that process more accessible by breaking down the concepts and the exercises into definable steps.
Second, we learn best in relationships. It shouldn’t be a surprise that we learn best with others. I’m a Christian, and the word for learner is disciple, and discipleship has always been—right back to Jesus himself—a deeply relational process. New York Times columnist and author David Brooks says that we learn from people we love.
¹ And as we discuss in the book, leadership leads to vulnerability that requires the security of relationships to endure. Leading in the face of resistance leaves us feeling exposed, unsure, and often discouraged, so tolerating and learning from the experience of vulnerability is only possible if we know that we are well held by our relationships. The book and this study guide are meant to be shared. They are meant to be read and discussed in relationships. I have structured the sessions in this guide to lead to honest conversations for self-discovery and to offer practices that leaders and their teams can take on together. For an online course covering content related to this book, go to formation.fuller.edu/courses/resilience.
And these two assumptions are even more critical to the subject matter of the particular book this study guide was written for. Tempered Resilience: How Leaders Are Formed in the Crucible of Change is about forming leaders to take on the challenge of leading in a changing