Forgiving Your Husband

By Tuniscia Okeke

Discover How to Thrive in Your Marriage!

 

Do you feel distant from your husband? Are you suffering in silence to keep your relationship intact? Do you feel anxious when trust is broken?

In "Forgiving Your Husband," writer and forgiveness coach Tuniscia Okeke clarifies why forgiveness is the key to unlocking love, rebuilding trust, and strengthening your bond.

 

Tuniscia invites you on a transformative journey of self-discovery to mend your relationship and discover the depths of your love. 

This 21-day journal will inspire you to release past grievances and take action to rebuild trust and strengthen your connection.

 

In these pages, you'll discover:

• Strategies to heal wounds and rebuild trust in your marriage.
• Effective communication techniques for resolving conflicts.
• The power of forgiveness in rekindling love.
• Steps to embrace a future filled with a stronger, more loving bond.

Buy Today! If you are ready to restore love and become a stronger, more connected couple, this book is for you.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Blending Our Love
• Release date: Jan 26, 2024
• ISBN: 9781962748391

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FORGIVING YOUR HUSBAND

21 Day Journey To Unlocking Love, Rebuilding Trust, And Strengthening Your Bond

Blending Our Love, Maryland

Copyright © 2023 by Tuniscia Okeke

All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, distributed, or transmitted in any way, for,m or by any means, including photocopying, recording, or other electronic or mechanical methods, nor may it be stored in a retrieval system or otherwise be copied for public or private use, other than for fair use as brief quotations embodied in articles and reviews without the prior written permission of the author.

Neither the publisher nor author assumes any responsibility for errors, omissions, or contrary interpretations of the subject matter herein. Any perceived slight of any organization or individual is solely unintentional.

Published 2023

Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data

ISBN: 978-1-962748-38-4 (Print)

ISBN: 978-1-962748-39-1 (eBook)

Printed in the United States of America

FORGIVING YOUR HUSBAND

21 Day Journey To Unlocking Love, Rebuilding Trust, And Strengthening Your Bond

TUNISCIA OKEKE

BLENDING OUR LOVE, INC.

DEDICATION

Mi Amor,

This dedication is a heartfelt tribute to you, my rock and anchor.

Your love has been a guiding light, encouragement, a gentle push toward my dreams, patience, a source of strength and understanding, and an oasis of solace.

Through the trials and triumphs, we’ve learned, grown, and become more resilient together.

Your lessons have been profound, and I cherish each as a testament to our enduring love and commitment.

Thank you for being my partner in this beautiful, sometimes messy, but always extraordinary life.

With you, I’ve found a love that transcends words, a bond that deepens with time, and a journey that I’m grateful to walk hand in hand.

With all my love and gratitude,

Your North Star

Table Of Contents

Paying It Forward

Foreword

Healing Hearts

Introduction

Your Tongue & Tone

Accepting Your Emotional Limitations

Unlocking Your Healing Through Journaling

Finding Moments Of Stillness

Day 1: Using Forgiveness To Face Emotional Limitations In Marriage

Day 2: Welcoming Forgiveness During Uncomfortable Situations

Day 3: Forgiving My Mind For The Jaded Judgments Towards My Husband

Day 4: Forgiving My Husband For Allowing People To Overstep Our Boundaries

Day 5: Welcoming Healing Energy As I Forgive My Husband While Parenting

Day 6: Welcoming Forgiveness During Life-Altering Events

Day 7: Welcoming Forgiveness When My Husband Doesn’t Prioritize Quality Time Together

Day 8: I Offer The Gift Of Forgiveness To My Husband

Day 9: Welcoming Forgiveness When Setting Healthy Boundaries With My Husband

Day 10: Embracing Forgiveness To Help Silence The Noise

Day 11: Forgiving My Husband When I Have Unmet Expectations

Day 12: Welcoming Forgiveness Towards My Husband During Private Internal Struggles

Day 13: Forgiving The Harsh Words Spoken By My Husband

Day 14: The Art Of Un-Limiting Your Limitations

Day 15: Building Self-Forgiveness Through A Healthy Lens

Day 16: Welcoming Forgiveness To Unleash Unlimited Happiness

Day 17: Creating New Traditions With My Husband Using Forgiveness

Day 18: Be Grateful For My Husband

Day 19: Learn to Receive More Love From My Husband

Day 20: Expect Financial Abundance With My Husband

Day 21: Create A Legacy With My Husband

Embodying Love

Paying It Forward

I’m sharing this message as the author of this 21-day journal on forgiveness, not just with words on these pages but with a story that has shaped my life’s purpose. As I embark on this journey with you, I want to share the deeply personal and transformative experiences that led me to write, edit, and self-publish 35 journals on forgiveness in less than a year.

My forgiveness journey began when I was 24, a pivotal age when life often feels like an open book, brimming with hope and dreams. Then, my mother called me on a seemingly ordinary Monday morning, and with those words, she unraveled the narrative of my life. She revealed that the man I had believed to be my father for all those years was, in fact, not my biological father.

The weight of that revelation was crushing. It was as if the ground beneath me had shifted, leaving me unsteady and disoriented. But what shook me to my core was not the revelation itself but the sudden rupture of trust in my mother—the person I had always looked up to as a paragon of love, trustworthiness, and honesty.

In the wake of this revelation, I spiraled into a bottomless pit of resentment, anger, and pain. I grappled with a sense of betrayal and felt adrift in a sea of unanswered questions. It was a turbulent period in my life, and for 17 long years, I carried the heavy burden of unforgiveness.

Then, something remarkable happened that would alter the course of my life forever. I noticed a pattern in my relationship with my children. They treated me with a lack of respect and love, leaving me bewildered and hurt. In desperation, I turned to prayer one day, seeking answers from a higher source.

God’s voice whispered into my heart in that sacred space of prayer and introspection, revealing a truth: I taught them how to love me by the way I loved my mother.

Those words struck me like lightning, piercing through the fog of my confusion. It was an awakening—a profound realization that, in my quest for revenge against my mother, I had unwittingly passed on the energy of resentment to my children. I had normalized my hurtful behaviors as the way we should treat our mothers.

On my 40th birthday, I consciously confronted my soul’s deepest and darkest corners. I embarked on a journey of healing, self-forgiveness, and forgiveness of my mother. My primary motivation was to restore my relationship with my children and teach them how to pass on healing, love, and forgiveness to their children.

That six-year odyssey of healing was transformative beyond measure. It led me to write 35 journals, each addressing a facet of forgiveness and healing I encountered on my journey. These journals became my way of reaching out to others grappling with their