How to Make Your Kids Mind With Positive Discipline: A Parenting Guide to Build Relationships And Reduce Conflict

By Alice Brock

Are you struggling to instill discipline in your child? When it comes to parenting, do you feel bad no matter what you do? If so, "How to Make Kids Mind with Positive Discipline" is the perfect parenting guide book for you!

I understand your pain. I too used to question myself constantly, which made my parenting style chaotic and ineffective. I felt unhappy no matter what I did, always worrying if I was too strict or too lenient. But then, I discovered positive discipline, and everything changed! I decided to publish a parenting guide to help families worldwide change their home life for the better.

 

In this book devoted to raising children, you'll learn how to raise well-behaved and cooperative children without tension and nervousness. How to Make Your Kids Mind With Positive Discipline will show you the steps and techniques you need in order to:

•     Understand your child's growth development and work with strong-willed children to instill pride and joy
•     Prevent and reduce power struggles in the parent-child dynamic
•     Use positive parenting methods to create a nurturing home environment
•     Use positive discipline, structure, and proven methods to support your child's emotional development

 

You can be both a loving parent and an authority figure! You don't have to choose between being the bad guy and being a doormat. You don't have to beat yourself up, worrying whether your parenting is spoiling or traumatizing your child. The key is using positive discipline. All of your questions are finally being answered in one of the simplest parenting books you'll ever find.
 

With this positive discipline parenting guide, you can start building a stronger relationship with your kid right now! Life with children is beautiful and fulfilling, and you can learn how to achieve success TODAY by ordering How to Make Kids Mind With Positive Discipline right NOW!

• Language: English
• Publisher: Alice Brock
• Release date: Jun 14, 2023
• ISBN: 9798223049203

Alice Brock

Alice Brock is an accomplished author with a deep-rooted passion for pedagogy and the holistic development of children. Armed with a degree in pedagogy, Alice has dedicated her professional career to working with children, empowering them to thrive and reach their full potential. With a wealth of experience in the field, she has honed her expertise in child psychology, education, and social-emotional development. Alice's commitment to helping families navigate the challenges of parenting and maintaining harmonious relationships has led her to specialize in family counseling and parent coaching. She possesses a profound understanding of the intricacies of family dynamics and the impact they have on a child's upbringing and overall well-being. Her compassionate and insightful approach has guided numerous families through difficult times, fostering healthier connections and promoting positive growth. As an author, Alice skillfully blends her vast knowledge and hands-on experience to create captivating and informative works that resonate with parents, educators, and anyone interested in nurturing children's potential. Her writing exudes warmth and empathy, offering practical guidance and evidence-based strategies to tackle common parenting hurdles and promote healthy child development. Alice's writing covers a wide range of topics, including early childhood education, fostering emotional intelligence, nurturing resilience, effective discipline techniques, and fostering positive relationships within families. She seamlessly combines research-backed insights with relatable anecdotes, making her work both informative and engaging. With a genuine desire to make a lasting impact on the lives of children and their families, Alice Brock continues to inspire and educate through her writing. Her books provide invaluable resources that empower readers to create nurturing environments and equip children with the tools they need to thrive emotionally, intellectually, and socially.

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Introduction

Are you torn between disciplining your child and letting them have their way out of fear of judgment? Do you feel guilty no matter what you do, always worrying that you're not parenting your child correctly? If so, you're not alone! It's never more difficult to be a parent. So many conflicting expectations, with even more ways to look at children's behavior; on the one hand, society still marginalizes children who misbehave, but on the other, parents are expected to get them to behave perfectly obedient without even using the word obedience. You are expected to secure that your child has a super healthy, organic diet, quality clothes, and a college fund before they even start daycare, yet you're made to feel guilty when taking time away from your family to work and provide. I've been there! Judged and exposed to all unsolicited opinions and advice under the Sun, my days were filled with frustration and regret. All up until one defining moment, and it was when my toddler told me that they loved it when they get sick because then I was happy and in a good mood, and we stay at home playing and cuddling. Wow... this really got me thinking. When I looked back at what our life looked like at home, I wasn't really happy with how things were going. My kids and I were getting up early and in a rush. I'd be nervous and underslept because I'd stay up late tidying. We would rush to the daycare, and our lives would be filled with tension when we got home after a long workday. I couldn't seem to catch a break! To me, it started to look like life with kids was impossible, and I wasn't sure how everyone else seemed to do just fine and look so normal. I later learned that it was a misconception, of course, that no one was as perfect as they presented themselves on the outside. I also learned how chaotic my parenting was for a time, and how ineffective for that matter.

In fact, living in a rush and going through the day with unrealistic expectations reflected poorly on my parenting. My entire day with children consisted of scolding, issuing demands, arguing, and feeling frustrated. Yet, that would all change when they got sick. I'd take a couple of days off work and would have extreme patience with my children. I would cook them homemade meals and make smoothies. We'd spend hours cuddling on the bed, reading books, and watching cartoons. It dawned on me that my children picked up the positive change in my behavior, which made them want to complain about feeling ill every other day. That was when I decided it was enough In the years that passed, I started a career in education, where I worked with kids of various ages. Over time, I collected knowledge about how to raise your children to be well-behaved and cooperative without tension and nervousness. I got to exercise that knowledge not only with my children but also with my students and their parents. This valuable experience helped me create the life that I wanted with my children, plus get to build a parenting style that made me feel secure and confident in my parenting skills.

Eventually, I started to wish that more parents felt this way. For that reason, I decided to offer you this practical guide. How to Make Your Kids Mind With Positive Discipline will show you:

How to understand your child's development and track their progress

During the time I felt the most frustrated with my own parenting skills, I wasn't paying a lot of attention to whether or not I was setting realistic expectations for my children. In fact, I was expecting a lot more than they were able to do, so the children felt severely pressured and insecure. Once I started to learn more about development stages, managing their behavior became a lot easier! I began to understand them better, and I had a better feeling about how to talk to them to support their development and manage their behavior.

How to work around power struggles and better manage your child's frustration

Isn't arguing with kids just the worst? You can't always reason with them, and they seem to push your buttons just for the sake of it; yet, what if constant irritation and nerve-wracking arguments weren't written in your stars to begin with? What if there's a reason for why your child behaves the way they do, and more importantly, a solution for that behavior? Understanding what power struggles truly are (and aren't) provided me with valuable insight into what I needed to do to empower both myself and my children. If you follow the advice in this book, you won't only reduce power struggles; you'll learn how to better facilitate children's emotional self-control and resilience, as well as teach them important decision-making skills! Where you once quarreled to exhaustion, you'll now sit back and watch your little one keeping themselves busy with creative activities and chores.

How to create a nurturing, calming home environment

Had I known how interior design, home layout, and interactions between family members affected children, I'd paid more attention to their environment long ago. Beyond that, I would also focus more on the relationships within the family and everything else that creates a child's home environment. This manual will show you how to create the kind of safe, warm, nurturing environment that calms children down and promotes rules and cooperation.

How to use positive discipline and teach your child consequences to instill consistent rules and balanced behavior

While I wasn't one to blame the child for misbehaving, for a long time, I didn't have a clear idea about why my discipline techniques didn't work; I tried to talk to my children and explain the importance of good behavior and risks of misbehavior, but I was going about discipline all wrong. After I started using the principles of positive discipline, I found a lot easier way to keep kids in line. It was all about promoting the behavior I wanted to see and discouraging what I didn't want to see my children doing.

How to support your child's emotional development

Parenting is far more than just discipline; it is about everyone's happiness, providing a mutually supportive, warm, and happy environment for everyone to thrive. The true moment I felt fulfilled as a parent was when I realized that I was genuinely enjoying the time spent with my children. While times of frustration did still happen and will continue to for a very long time, they didn't color our lives completely. I largely attribute that to the understanding of children's emotional development and its importance. One of the best parenting insights I gained was that, with children, all progress begins with emotional care. From there, I learned the simple things I needed to do each day to get my kids to feel and act calm and happy. Guess what? They all felt wonderful!

But, why keep you in the dark any longer? Hop on to Chapter 1, and start learning more about where your child is in terms of growth and development, and how you should adapt your parenting for a stronger relationship with your child.

Chapter 1: Understanding Your Child's Developmental Stage

Is your child growing healthy? Are they alright? New parents often feel like their little one is falling behind when compared to other children. If you feel this way on occasion, you're not alone! You might be going through an emotional rollercoaster every day, at times feeling proud of your child and everything they learned so far, and then soon after they might not be doing so well in terms of their development. Being a confident parent has a learning curve, which is why you'll start this journey by learning exactly how to tell where your child is at regarding their development, and more importantly, what you should do to help them thrive in your specific situation.