Command Respect From the Woman You Want: Quick Guide For Men

By Danielle DeVita

Danielle DeVita's, "Command Respect from the Woman You Want," is an enticing, insightful, read with interactive exercises and reflective scenarios, to help you seek and understand your forever love. This is the ultimate dating guide for men, with the best perk of all, a woman's perspective. This book encourages masculine energy and confidence, without the "demand" for respect through fear and threats. The book is for men of all races, backgrounds, income status, and age; who values traditional style relationships.

• Language: English
• Publisher: BookBaby
• Release date: Feb 14, 2023
• ISBN: 9781667888705

Book preview

Preface

I once heard someone say that fear is forced, while respect is influenced. Respect involves holding someone in high regard with a feeling of deep admiration based on their abilities, qualities, or achievements. The goal of this book is for the woman you want to hold you in high regard and admire you, not fear you. This requires a positive influence on your part.

Now that you understand this book is not intended to create a dictator-style relationship, we can discuss the women you want. Most men, if not all, want attractive women with a personality that compliments their own appeal. This is not a woman you settle for or whom you lust after temporarily. The relationship will not work, considering that you will lack the effort to make the relationship work in the long run.

This book is for men who are either serious about dating a woman of interest, currently dating a woman of interest, or married. Maybe you are or have, in the past dated a woman that made you feel disrespected, dismissed, ignored, or that often over-talk you. Many men fear marriage because they witness other men become emasculated and accept disrespect from their partner —after marriage.

This book will address common issues most men in this position have and how to fix them.

This quick read will help you quickly reach your desired goal, commanding respect. It also serves as a guide to finding the right woman for you, as the process will have you weed women out of your life that are undeserving of you and what you have to offer. I’ve been married for twelve years and have much respect for my husband. I want to give you insight into reasons a woman will effortlessly hold a man in high regard.

Some modern men today use the term submit; however, I’d like to think of that word as a form of respect. Contrary to what many men think, you do not have to be the most attractive or wealthiest to be respected. Before reading further, please remove any desperation you have for finding a woman. Consider being the best version of yourself emotionally, mentally, financially, educationally (formal education not required), and physically as you follow the steps in this book.

Chapter 1:

Handcuffs

Have you ever been told that you are too controlling or over-protective? Maybe you have been told that you are overly jealous. No one likes the handcuffs on them unless you are into that sort of thing, wink-wink. Okay now, let’s focus. We’re talking about the relationship here. Quick question, do women leave when you come off as too clingy or strike fear in them by purposely controlling every move or decision they make? Mm-hmm, I’ll wait!

First, ask yourself why. Sadly, as humans we subconsciously carry traumatic experiences with us in our relationships that prevent us from thriving. Maybe you have dealt with abandonment from a parent, parent-like figure, or even a past romantic partner; you think if you hold them tight and close, they won’t slip through your fingers. Maybe you grew up where others would strike fear in you or someone you loved, and you mirror those behaviors as if they are the only learned behaviors you know. It could be that you feel insecure without the person, so you keep them close. You may even think you know what’s best for them, and that you are steering them in the correct direction because they are incapable of doing it on their own. It’s also quite possible that you are trying to mold the woman you want only to be rejected by her unwillingness to change, so you bring out the handcuffs, figuratively.

The goal here is to see if you have this issue and address it head-on. Explore and resolve your need to be controlling, overly protective, or extremely jealous. Confer with yourself the emotion behind what you are feeling, seek therapy, and coaching if necessary to properly heal.