Couples Theory

By Isaac Moerane

This exciting educational love theory is about:

Journey about lovers who had to navigate through their love maze. Time caught with them and forgot what was important between self and seed of love. In most events, couples are caught up doing mistakes, arguably intentional or not. Couples have to come up with the suitable theories to make a relationship a success.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Isaac Moerane
• Release date: Jun 26, 2023
• ISBN: 9798223409168

Isaac Moerane

I grew up in a small shack with my beautiful family of many siblings and my parents. I went to schools that taught me values about life and understanding on humanity. I hold a college qualification(Tourism) filed that is not near ever literature or creative writting. It taught me more on meeting different people from different countries and their human behavior. I decided to write this book to challenge my writting skills which i am still perfecting and challenge the world to critise, guide me and hopefully learn from the topic. 

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TABLE OF CONTENTS

❖  INTRODUCTION         3

❖  PRIDE      5– 12

❖  COMMITMENT             13 – 14

❖  THEORIES OF LOVE                15 – 16

Attachment Theory

Social Exchange Theory

Evolutionary Theory

Cognitive Theory

❖  BENEFITS OF BELIEVING IN YOUR OWN LOVE  17 - 18

Increased Self-esteem

Emotional wellbeing

Improved Relationship

Increased Self-awareness

Greater Self-Acceptance

❖  WHY ARE THEORIES OF LOVE IMPORTANT  19 – 21

Couple Theories

❖  HIGH MORAL WOMEN  22 – 23

❖  COMMUNICATION  24 – 29

Comprehension Communication Theories

Interpersonal Communication Theories

Radical Communication Theories

❖  PASSION  30 – 44

Intentional Persuasion

Include God

Rejuvenation

❖  MINES  45 – 68

Theories of Mine

Four Aspects of Couples Theory

(Social Appearance, Family, Finance & Sexual Energy)

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COUPLES THEORY

JOURNEY ABOUT LOVERS WHO HAD TO NAVIGATE THROUGH THEIR LOVE MAZE. TIME CAUGHT WITH THEM AND

FORGOT WHAT WAS IMPORTANT BETWEEN SELF AND SEED

OF LOVE. IN MOST EVENTS, COUPLES ARE CAUGHT UP DOING

MISTAKES, ARGUABLY INTENTIONAL OR NOT.

COUPLES HAVE TO COME UP WITH THE SUITABLE THEORIES

TO MAKE A RELATIONSHIP A SUCCESS.

UNFORTUNATELY, WE CAN NOT ENGINEER LOVE. PROGRAM HEARTS TO LOVE US. NEVER FOOL US. CONTROL HOW SAFE WE WANT TO FEEL. NOT TO CONVERSE WITH EX-PARTNERS OR POTENTIAL FUTURE PARTNERS. 

NORMALISE THE LOVING NATURE WITHIN YOURSELF BEFORE GIVING IN TO ANY RELATIONSHIP OR COMMITMENT. IT'S EASIER TO FEEL SECURE AND SAFER WITH YOURSELF WHEN YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE WITH THE REALITY OF FAVOURING SELF-LOVE; IT SETS YOU BETTER TO MAKE UP A GOOD PARTNER.

IF ANYBODY IN THE UNIVERSE HAD A FAIR CHANCE AND TOOLS TO BE IN THE LOVE SCIENTIFICAL LAB TO ENGINEER THE PERFECT PARTNER THEY WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF THEIR LIVES WITH, LOVE WOULD BE MORE BEAUTIFUL, ACCORDING TO INDIVIDUALS. BUT LOVE WOULD LOSE THAT SPARK, EXPERIENCING WHICH BRIGHTENS UP THE WHOLE REASON TO BE IN IT. THINK ABOUT THE ADRENALIN IT COMES WITH IT.

WE LET LOVE TAKE OVER BECAUSE IT IS BEAUTIFUL AND MIGHT BREAK HEARTS AND FUTURE SOULS THOUGH LOVE IS STILL THE MOST SERIES OF ADVANTAGES EVERYONE IN THIS UNIVERSE HAVE TO EXPERIENCE.

FIND YOUR THEORY OF LOVE AND WORK WITH IT UNTIL YOU FIND THE BEAUTIFUL PUZZLE. IT GUARANTEES EVERLASTING HAPPINESS.

PRIDE

"THE QUALITY OR STATE OF BEING PROUD, INORDINATE SELF-ESTEEM;

UNREASONABLE CONCEIT OF ONE'S SUPERIORITY"

Sad how Pride messes up the genuine feeling, order, and power of friendship. While communication is always crucial: Are you willing to take out factors contributing to the relationship's failure or pride yourself in defense of your actions?

Love is said to be patient with a flow of joint companionship, selflessness, nurture, and whatever formula individuals make to survive. I base my relationship on compassion and communication most of the time. Working on it has its shaky balances more often, but the matter is dealt with firsthand.

I will stick out to make it work whenever any challenge comes about. Make it a point that you learn from the occurrences because that is the most fun part. Take it as Pride you have for one another, which both are unwilling to drop, as it will shame your efforts.

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Pride forms the creation of doubt and weakness in any commitment. In a sense that in any stage of a relationship, if one prides themselves on not being open or honest in events taking place in their lives, Pride can discover in a person lying about their occupation, salary, home, or feelings and having real conversations.

Conversation piles lie to the extent that one becomes two shaky personalities in a relationship and must keep up with it until one feels cornered and concerned. Being realistic about life development with your partner creates a sustainable bond. Still, if one prides themselves on being pressured by the esteem, it ends with self-sabotage.

In any creation of a healthy friendship, there must be zero self-pride inflected and less ego-driven commitment. Either person should not have superiority over the relationship or feel more contributor.

If any individual reflects less Trust and shame, then the relationship in that case, might be more secretive on the background to the point it never be a great form of a beautiful union ship. And the reflection of Pride speaks louder than the person could not even maintain, protect