How I Created My Perfect Mate...and Married the Man of my Dreams!

By P.L. Hudson

How I Created My Perfect Mate...and married the man of my dreams! More than a How-to or self-help book in attracting one’s perfect partner, this book is about coming into alignment with who you truly are at the core of your being and with that, attracting all that is yours to you—relationships, wealth, career, and more, applying the law of attraction. Exercises included.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Parhudson Publishing
• Release date: Jan 31, 2018
• ISBN: 9781386357520

P.L. Hudson

About the author: P.L. “Priscilla” Hudson lives in the South with her husband Thomas whom she affectionately calls “Sweet” and their 2 cats, Suzi and Butters.  Priscilla loves the natural world and is an avid gardener as well as enjoys playing her ukulele and singing. Look for Priscilla's up and coming book Hart of the Revolution--Nancy Hart: American Patriot, Revolutionary and Spy https://www.facebook.com/hartoftherevolution/

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Acknowledgements

This book is written and has come to fruition from the teachings of and from standing on the shoulders of many souls whom I am both humbled and grateful to have learned from.

The First and Greatest Teacher, Jesus Christ, taught me of Love because he loved me first. Jesus showed me that God is Love in many ways. As in one of my first remembrances as a child: Jesus loves the little children, all the children of the world. Red and yellow black and white, they’re all precious in His sight. Jesus Loves the little children of the world.  Let me be an honoring of He; Love made manifest.

While having learned something from everyone who has crossed my path in some form or another, the teacher I have consistently looked to for understanding Jesus’ teachings and truly living in the world but not of it is Abraham-Hicks, the teachings and practices that The Secret and this book are based on.  Those teachings are:

The Law of Attraction— that which is like unto itself is drawn.

The Science of Deliberate Creation— that which I give thought to and that which I believe or expect, is.

The Art of Allowing— I am that which I am, and I am willing to allow all others to be that which they are.

Finally, but really first and foremost, I am thankful to God for my life. For all of my rich, wonderful blessings as well as lessons learned that brought me back round home. My life has truly been a blessing despite perceived and borne hardships. I am forever thankful and grateful for my dear, Sweet Thomas. Thank You God for the blessing of his presence and love in my life, he is truly a gift. May he be richly blessed; he has truly been a blessing to me. Let all who wish to know this kind of love and partnership obtain, cultivate, and cherish their own Sacred Union.

Thank you also to those of you who have purchased this book and have loved and supported me along the way. May your life be deeply blessed and overflowing with love, with plenty to share and spare!

Thank you, Thomas. My hope and prayer is to spend the next hundred+ years showing you in every way I can how much you are loved and appreciated. Atomic.

Table of Contents

Acknowledgements

Prologue

My Story

Exercise:  Who Am I?

ASK—Get Clear

Meditation

The List

Exercise:  That’s For Me!

Believe

Be Still and Know

Building Faith

Yeah, but...

Being Alone

Cultivating Wah

Receiving

Happily Ever After

EXERCISES

The List

That’s For Me!

Who Am I?

Be Still and Know That I Am God meditation

Yeah, but...practicing appreciation

Cultivating Wah

BONUS!  Receiving Your Christmas Miracle in 7 Days!

Prologue

Love. Everyone wants it. To love and be loved and to spend time in the company of those who do, so why is so elusive and seem so darned hard? We want love; we’re willing to give love, so why don’t we have Love in our life? It comes down to honesty and expectations.

We as humans have all been socialized within our own families and communities since before civilization began.

The acceptability of our thoughts, words, and deeds have been conditioned and improved upon by our caretakers from the start; how we were expressing ourselves and whether it went along with or fit in with people in our immediate surroundings. When it did not, we were socialized to do so.

For what we thought and were encouraged to think of as the right reasons for changing our original nature—we loved and trusted them, they were older and wiser, we wanted to make them happy and more, we of course went along with what they said even if it didn’t always feel right to us, and perhaps not always doing so graciously.

We still loved and trusted that they were there to lead, guide, and direct us in creating the best lives for ourselves even when doubt crept in.

Further down the scale from there and still legitimate,  going along for similar reasons although more from fear or out of obligation, fear of retribution for not going along with whatever program there was. Fear of daring to speak out, to have an opinion, to be different.

In ancient and not so olden times, people who didn’t fit in with society or the prescribed group were shunned.  People who were ostracized from the community rarely survived.

Being socialized has its good aspects other than not having to live alone as a hermit in the woods, unless that is preferred and a personal choice!

Using our words and not resorting to biting or hitting, or worse for that matter, is a good thing.

Besides safety and sharing in the work as well as the bounty, companionship is a wonderful aspect to the human experience and it is well worth cultivating all of our sensibilities to enjoy it to its fullest.

For any relationship to thrive a balance based on personal responsibility and mutual respect is a must. It requires the commitment of both parties to function well to serve the growth and wellbeing of both parties as well as others.

Relationships not based on personal responsibility and mutual respect are out of alignment with Love and doomed to failure. Save yourself the heartache and walk away if you do not receive the respect you deserve.

However, be willing to realize that everyone has bad habits and make mistakes. Or as Oscar Wilde said, every Saint has a past and every sinner has a future.

At times we all need to be reminded that respect begins and ends with ourselves.

If someone is truly willing to work to change any unloving ways, forgiveness is always a worthy track.

Only you know what is correct for you. Listen to your soul. Be willing to forgive but also be willing to draw boundary lines as need be.

As Jesus said, Be as wise as a serpent but as gentle as a dove. (Matthew 10:16)

We have it hard-wired into our systems to go along to get along and sometimes we do so to the detriment of all.

When we are not fully honest with others we are withholding information that could cause them to make a different decision had they known the truth.

We are not only distorting the outcome, which continues to reverberate out into the future affecting and infecting everything it comes into contact with, but because it’s a lie we are taking their free will from them by controlling the information they receive.

Who are we to assert ourselves and our will into the lives of others if God won’t even do it?!

Wherever we are trying to control or manipulate information other than being fully truthful, we are inserting darkness into the situation or relationship. This is where darkness resides, in our own hearts and minds.

By withholding information, we are withholding Light. You know where you are doing this in your own life. Heal the divide. Let light be manifested here and now.

Free will is our greatest gift from our Maker and it is not up to anyone else to take or manipulate that away from us in any way. That is truly sin, or missing the mark.

Don’t mess up your good by trying to control someone else’s.

It’s not about manipulating others or situations to get what we want, it’s about aligning ourselves with God Force Energy to be all that we came here to be and to be in partnership with others who are doing the same.

Wherever two or more are gathered in my name, there I am in the midst.—Matthew 18:20

And so we know and rely on the love God has for us. God Is Love. Whoever lives in Love lives in God, and God in them. 1 John 4:16

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There are good things about compromise. It’s where harmony comes from.

What I am referring to is recognizing where we have compromised ourselves for the sake of another or others when in doing so we compromised the integrity of everyone by not being honest, not just our own integrity for failing to stand firm on our convictions and true expression, but the integrity of all involved and connected.

We have wronged everyone with our dishonesty because we are being manipulative.

Being fully honest with who we are allows for deeper, more intimate connections because as we dare to be authentic, we give others the permission and freedom to do so as well.

We must know ourselves deeply and be willing to stand up and say this is who I am and to live from there. To do otherwise is compromising ourselves and not being fully honest with who we are so we cannot expect to have truly loving relationships with others because a lie(s) stands in the way.

If you want a truly authentic relationship with yourself, with others, a significant other, and most importantly, that Life Force that moves in and gives life to us all, keep reading.

If you’re just here to score a trophy mate, this isn’t the guide for you. That’s not to say that when you do come together with your right and True mate you won’t feel like you have won a prize, you most certainly will. Whether it will seem so to others is irrelevant.

We’re talking YOUR right and perfect mate, not someone to please everyone else. Even if they were cake, which seems to universally please people, not everyone likes cake or at least they have their own preferences and tastes.

Be genuine and aligned with your true nature and be willing to be honest with others about that.

This book is not an easy guide on how to have someone go from your dreams to being on your arm or in your bed with no effort on your part. It’s about connecting and relating deeply and authentically with another person.

It’s about knowing yourself, knowing what you want and being willing to be that yourself and for yourself.

It’s about embodying and living personally what you are looking for *out there.*

It’s about being intimately connected with the Source Of All Being so that your whole life is a love affair, a singing of praises to your beloved because you are so enraptured with the energy of Love.

It’s about moving, living, acting and recognizing that you are part of something much larger than yourself that Knows you intimately and loves you deeply. It is about living and acting with this awareness.

Knowing that this Life Force Energy that sustains your very Being also does the same for everything and everyone that ever was, is, or shall be.

It’s about being fully enmeshed in Life Force Energy and living consciously from there.

Being in the Presence of Love and becoming that through conscious choice.

Being the Love that we wish to see in the world and attracting that back.

Know that Love will demand everything of you.

With joy comes sadness, pain will accompany pleasure. You will know the highs, lows, and breadth of life that only love brings.

Be forewarned, it is not easy and you will not remain unscathed. In fact, you will be forever changed.

If you are not willing to go to the depths that Love will demand of you and take you to, be willing to admit that to yourself and be honest with others with who you are and what works for you.

Be honest with your intention and clearly state your boundaries. Go find nice people to date and keep it light. Enjoy the company of another person or other people but don’t make it more than that.

Be sure of the signals that you are sending others so you don’t give someone false hope or the wrong idea. Be aware of creating negative karma— repercussions for your words/actions or, what goes around comes around.

Unless you are willing to give everything for Love, don’t even bother reading this book because your world will be rocked and your life totally changed. The highest and best possible outcome requires full participation from you.

To have the life you prefer you must put forth the effort to make the requisite changes that will put you in alignment with what you want.

Making half-hearted attempts in a haphazard fashion will set forth a chain of events that would have been better left alone and undisturbed, both for you and others.

Every action has an equal and opposite reaction so unless you’re willing to deal with the repercussions of your actions, don’t pull that string. It’s what some call karma.

Whatever you do, there are consequences. The more you take action with awareness, the more you are able to mold this energy to your liking, i.e., attract your right and True mate as well as health, wealth, and all of the things that we think will give us pleasure. To align with and live the life that we know we came here to live.

Learn how to see. Realize that everything connects to everything else.—Leonardo DaVinci

Everything is energetic and has a certain tone that reverberates out into the Universe that is magnetic, attracting back what is being put out.

If you are lazy and aimless with the energy—thought,