The Pangs of Bella: The Family's Cycle of Life
By Lauren Ross
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The Pangs of Bella - Lauren Ross
Copyright © 2023 Lauren Ross.
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ISBN: 978-1-6657-4317-4 (sc)
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Library of Congress Control Number: 2023908108
Archway Publishing rev. date: 05/25/2023
Contents
The Introduction
The Summary
About the Author
Acknowledgements
Chapter 1 The Root
Chapter 2 The Break Down
Chapter 3 Three Monsters One Knight
Chapter 4 The Mister
Chapter 5 The Knight
Chapter 6 Tragedy Strikes Twice
Chapter 7 Transitioning
Chapter 8 Till Death Do Us Part
Chapter 9 The Wolf
Chapter 10 The Mountains
The Introduction
This book is about a girl named (Bella), her mom Cindy, and their struggles. A story of how even though they avoided certain mistakes and events they both still endured the same pain Their parents endured if not worst. This is based on factual events and how I perceive things.
The Summary
We all go through things in life that will forever affect us one way or another. We just do not think about how they affect others. We blame the ones we love for what we have endured and end up doing the same things to the people we love. This book is about abuse as a child, blaming the ones we love for what we have endured, and allowing the same things to happen to the people we love. As we revisit the pain Cindy felt with in the pages of this book, you will realize it took her entire lifetime to understand the reasons why her loved ones did what they did. A Lifetime to realize things were not done maliciously. It was just The Family’s Cycle of Life. We all have one. We do what we have been taught even when we do not want to. We look back and if we are fortunate, we can adjust our lives accordingly and be able to stay afloat without drowning. This is a story about Cindy & Bella’s family cycle of Life.
About the Author
The writer grew up in an era that strongly believed that what goes on in the home stays in the home. It was believed that a reputation is more important than a person’s physical, emotional, and mental health. She has managed to raise three healthy children, stay married for over 25 years, obtain a BS degree, and stay mentally sane after being amist abuse most of her life. This book reflects a change in those views. She is the voice that speaks out to encourage all readers to break the cycle of abuse and the acceptance of mistreatment.
Acknowledgements
I would like to thank my son for referring me to Simon & Schuster Publishing Co. Thank you my dear coworker/friend Ms. Dumas for reading my rough drafts. I want to thank my husband for his love and support. I thank everyone at Archway Publishing from Simon & Schuster.
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The Root
Pam came from a large, prominent, well-known family. She was always soft spoken and never confrontational. Bill was a good ole country boy. He came from a family of diligent teachers and farmers. He loved his cars, dogs, and hunting. He did not play games with people. People might call him a mean man, but it was just his personality. Bill was older than Pam. She was eighteen years old when they were married. He was her first and would be her last. They have now been married for fifty-four years. It was just Cindy the first seven years, and then came Lily. Four years after that, baby sister Monet was born. Three girls! They were country girls who climbed trees, made mud pies, rode bikes, and had pets. Lily was always the brave and outspoken one. She was pretty and could run fast. She would beat the person she was running against in the relay race. She was something else. Monet got what she wanted. She did not think so, but she did. Bill worked as a supervisor. Pam worked part-time as a lab technician, and she drove the school bus. They were not rich. It is funny how a child