Thoughts and Promises for Single Mothers

By Sochel Thomas

My workday began like any other: nonstop calls, deadlines to be met, and constant demands. As I was drowning in all my paperwork, my cell phone rang; it was my son. I immediately thought to ignore the call, assuming it was something trivial, but instead, gave in and answered. Nothing in a million years could have prepared me for the things that would transpire in those short minutes. I could hear my oldest son's voice shaking and begging me to come home, all the while my daughter screaming and crying as my youngest son was also shouting words over them all. I was finally able to decipher what was going on. There was an accident in the house, and my daughter was on fire. A single mother, three children, no father, nonstop work, living paycheck to paycheck. Does it ever end? The devil is busy doing what he does best. His job is to keep us so bombarded with the pressures and stresses of everyday life that we make no time to consult God. "In the multitude of my anxieties within me, your comforts delight my soul" (Psalms 94:19, NKJV). When life hurls obstacles in your path, are you reflecting on the thoughts and promises that our Heavenly Father has given? The ubiquitous journey of a single mother is challenging, to say the least. Each story, though taken from my very own experiences, are ones that I know will resonate with many of you. Tales of heartbreak, accounts of trials, and lessons of persevering and trusting Him no matter what comes your way. Thoughts and Promises for Single Mothers is a compilation of relatable topics that single mothers face with recommendations and Bible promises of ways to have victory over any circumstance that you are faced with.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Christian Faith Publishing, Inc.
• Release date: Jan 28, 2020
• ISBN: 9781645694205

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Thoughts and Promises for Single Mothers

Sochel Thomas

ISBN 978-1-64569-419-9 (paperback)

ISBN 978-1-64569-420-5 (digital)

Copyright © 2019 by Sochel Thomas

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Table of Contents

Acknowledgment

Prelude

Trusting God and his Timing

Worrying That You Can’t Do This Alone? You Can’t, But with God, You Can!

Could the Lord Use Me, a Single Mother?

Would I Ever Get Married?

Balancing and Coping with Life’s Stresses

Sometimes, I Feel Like a Failure

Single, in School, Working, and Taking Care of Kids

Eating Cheers Me Up (Okay, Maybe This Is Just Me, But Here I Go Anyway)

Don’t Compare Yourself to Anyone

Me Time!

Parenting

My Son Needs a Father

I Wish I Didn’t Have to Yell at My Kids

Why wouldn’t These Kids Listen?

Can a Mother Talk to Her Son About the Birds and the Bees?

Make Time for Your Children

Will My Children Repeat the Same Mistakes I Made?

Your Frustrations Have Nothing to Do with Your Children

Single Mom Equals Unruly Kids

Stuck in Cradle Roll (Infant Classroom)

Finances

It’s Hard to Pay Tithes as a Single Mother

Daniel’s Birthday: Single Parents Sure Can Stretch a Penny

I Would Never Be Able to Send My Child to a Christian School like a Regular Family

Dating & Relationships

Marriage to Cover the Shame

Men Make Advances toward You Because You Are a Single Mom

Food for thought: Cracked Vessel

GRACEFULLY CARRY YOUR FLAWS

Would Anyone I Date Ever Accept My Kids?

Forgiveness

Forgiving Your child Who Has Totally Messed Up!

How Can I Ever Forgive Myself for Messing Up My Children’s Family Structure?

The Nay-Sayers and Wolves in Sheep’s Clothing

Beware of the Prodigal Son’s Brother

People and Their Gossip about Your Situation

People Make Me Feel Like a Harlot

Baby Room Hideout

Keep Your Circle Small

Moving Forward, God’s Got This Queen

Keep a Smile on Your Face, a Song in Your Heart

Change Your Mind-set, Change Your Life

Give Praise and Thanks in All Circumstances

Epilogue

Testimonials

Let me tell you, I have learned some things that I never thought of and decided that when my child is born, my husband and I will be implementing some things in place ASAP.

—Ramona, Engineer

I’m not married, and I don’t have any children yet, but I was touched by the section about not comparing yourself to others. I think it’s something everyone can learn from.

—Anyssa, Copy Editor

It’s so weird. Even though I have decided to not have children and I am married, this book was very informative, and I enjoyed every moment of it. It was as if you were having a conversation.

—Shauntel, Registered Nurse

This book is so intimate. It is as if you’re having a conversation. It is relatable and uplifting at the same time.

—Maxine, Masseuse, Nurses Aid

This book actually had questions that I have wondered about: what if my fiancé were to leave me? Would anyone still want me seeing that I have a baby already?

—Anonymous

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