Simple Pleasures of Friendship: Celebrating the Ones We Love
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Friends are there for us. They join our life's adventures and play with us. They bring us comfort, sometimes the only small pleasure we have, in troubled times. They bring us the gift--and the pleasure--of understanding. Susannah Seton sent out a call for stories about friendship and these are the themes that emerged. They form the backbone of this newest addition to her Simple Pleasures series.
Dipping into this book is like dunking cookies in milk with your best friend. You'll share stories from childhood. Take a walk together and then enjoy a peppermint footbath--recipe herein! From shopping trips to poker parties--these stories will inspire you. And make you laugh and make you cry and make you want to call an old friend just because. Or make a play date for an at-home movie night--complete with Parmesan popcorn, recipe within.
Dubbed the "antidote to Martha Stewart" by Booklist, Seton delights with her uniquely heartwarming approach to simplifying and slowing down to enjoy each day. Here, she has lovingly organized a guidebook to the joys of "friending" with stories, heirloom recipes, gift ideas, and inspirational quotes. Be inspired to give a friend a handmade cookbook, with room for a growing collection of recipes shared together. Or start an Eyelash Club of your own. Create handmade gifts. Cry--and then laugh--over missing wedding dresses and a St. Joseph statue buried upside down to sell a house. Share spa recipes for scrubs, soaps, and salts.
Uncomplicated and eloquent, Susannah Seton has written a touching reminder that friendships are one of the prime ingredients in a life well lived.
Susannah Seton
Susannah Seton is the author of the Simple Pleasures series, which includes titles such as Simple Pleasures of the Home, Simple Pleasures for the Holidays and 365 Simple Pleasures. When Seton was young, she would listen to her grandparents tell stories of when they were young, and the fun they would have even though all the stories were based around the simplest actions: new recipes they would make in a new house, road trips, early mornings by the water, and so much more. This made Seton realize that it wasn’t what we had, but our mindsets that made life enjoyable. Seton began writing the Simple Pleasures series with one goal in mind: to remind her readers that even the smallest things in life can bring us immense joy. She currently lives in Berkeley, California, with her husband and daughter.
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Simple Pleasures of Friendship - Susannah Seton
FUN AND FROLIC
Grief can take care of itself, but to get the full value of joy you must have somebody to divide it with.
—MARK TWAIN
Friends are the folks we play with, as kids and as adults. Our adventures together give life its zest, even if we are doing nothing more than sitting around together sharing a meal or a movie. And watch out when we really get going!
Shop'til We Drop
What is it about shopping that cements a friendship between women? Perhaps it's the shared time browsing together, enjoying the splash of colors, fingering the smooth silk or the nubby tweed, while the scents of perfume from the exotic to the floral drift through the stores. Maybe it's the idea of the quest, the search for the perfect black dress or the pursuit of a bargain, with the malls and stores becoming giant treasure chests filled with wonderful and exotic discoveries.
As a teenager, I'd hit the mall with my friends. We were a giggling pack of self-conscious hormones. We tried on dresses, then outrageous, floppy hats that we'd never buy, always keeping an eye out for any cute boys.
Now I'm a mom. I park my stroller at the mall playground and catch up with my friends in between shopping forays. We compare childhood developmental notes, trade discipline strategies, and laugh over silly things our kids say, while the mall fountain ripples in the background.
More than anything, I think we shop together because it mirrors our relationships. Men play golf; they compete. Women stroll between crowded racks and weave in and out among display cases, with conversations meandering with their steps. Our casual chitchat can dip unexpectedly into private pain and confidences over a rack of shirts or in front of the three-way dr essing room mirror. Our conversations crisscross, our paths wind through unexpected turns, while our lives intertwine in deeper friendship.
—Sara E. Rosett
And in the sweetness of friendship let there be laughter, and sharing of pleasures. For in the dew of little things the heart finds its morning and is refreshed.
—KAHLIL GIBRAN
Personalized Wrapping Paper
After you've shopped your heart out for a gift for a friend, consider adding a special touch with your very own wrapping paper. Or give the paper itself as a gift. You'll need solid color wrapping paper, small cookie cutters, and heavy-body acrylic paint (available at art supply stores). Lay out the wrapping paper. Dip the cutting edge of the cookie cutter into the paint and stamp onto the paper, beginning at the top left-hand corner. Thin the paint with water if it's too lumpy. Continue until you've covered all the paper. Shapes can line up or overlap, depending on the design you've chosen. Allow to dry thoroughly before using.
You've Got Mail
When I was younger, I thought friendship meant constantly being together, doing each other's hair and nails, and talking about boys on the phone. I'm twenty-five now and have moved around a lot in the past years because of my job. As a result, deep and lasting relationships have been scarce. Thanks to the modern technology of e-mail, however, I have friendships all over the world.
My friend in Germany sends me recipes she thinks even I would be able to follow. My friend in Brazil can find anything about anyone on the net, which comes in handy when I'm looking for the latest news on my favorite French actor. An artist buddy scans all her work and mails it to me before putting it forward to the various galleries, so that I can have my say—which is always good, of course. If I lived in New York, I would be the first in line to her show, to say so.
I reply with news about my day, about the comings and goings of life in South Africa, and the status of my seemingly never-to-be-finished novel, which I don't have time for. I scour the Sunday papers for interesting tidbits of information that any of them might find remotely useful.
Thanks to that little voice crying, You have mail,
I live in a city with millions of people that I don't know, yet I never feel lonely. There's one other advantage. No matter how many times you move, one address remains the same. Your e-mail address.
—Liana van Niekerk
The world is so empty if one thinks only of mountains, rivers and cities; but to know someone who thinks and feels with us, and who, though distant is close to us in spirit, this makes the earth for us an inhabited garden.
—GOETHE
The Girls on the Second Floor
Everyone in the apartment complex knew us, the girls on the second floor, by the sounds of rolling luggage at all hours of the day and night, by the slamming of trunks and car doors echoing off the buildings, by a car starting and then speeding off toward the Baltimore / Washington International Airport.
The four of us were in our twenties, just starting out as flight attendants. We all had pagers on our hips and an ear out for the phone. Bored and restless, we would wait for scheduling to call, passing books from one to another to help the reserve days go by quickly. Scary movies were another favorite pastime. We would sit on our futon couch, scrunched up together in the dark, eating popcorn. At some point one of us would always scream, causing a chain reaction. But we always ended up doubled over in laughter.
When one of us finally received the call,
we would scurry around the two-bedroom apartment, throwing makeup, hairspray, and travel necessities in the chosen one's suitcase. She'd put her uniform on, touch up her makeup, and pin on her wings. With a final look in the mirror, she would be out the door.
Whoever was left behind was responsible for making sure the Friday night parties happened. The music started out soft, with just a few friends present. As the evening progressed, however, the music grew louder and the apartment teemed with people. Finally a broomstick would pound on our living-room floor from the apartment below, which led to a formal apology the next day.
On weekend mornings, we received a wakeup call from Navy planes flying over our apartment. The planes appeared so close that it seemed as if we could touch them if we stood on a ladder. We would climb out of bed, drink our coffee, and talk about the night before. Eventually, we would get ready for the day. By late afternoon we were found wandering the brick str eets of Annapolis, admiring the old homes that graced the historical area. We attended Navy football games when it was a home game, and made our presence known at the local pubs later on.
On mellow evenings, we would gather with a bottle of white zinfandel and chat on our apartment balcony, Tracy Chapman's song The Promise
playing in the background. Sometimes we resolved an argument. Other times, we dreamed about our weddings, having babies, whether or not the guys in our lives were the one.
We talked about the rude passenger that yelled at us, or the man who passed out in our galley. Sometimes we shared a pack of cigarettes, at other times a box of Kleenex.
Now, years later, the idea of having roommates makes me cringe. Still, I treasure the memories of dancing in the living room and the pictures of us in downtown Annapolis. Every fall I search for a certain candle that smells like the candy corn we burned in those days. It never fails to bring me back to the living room in that second-floor apartment.
—Elizabeth L. Blair
A joy shared is a joy doubled.
—GOETHE
Parmesan Popcorn
You don't have to live together to have a movie night. Why not call a few friends, pick a theme (scary, romantic, top favorites), rent a few videos or DVDs, and try this popcorn recipe? It's much tastier than the packaged kind, and unbelievably easy to make. The flavored salt gives it even more of a distinctive flavor.
2 teaspoons cooking oil
¼ cup unpopped popcorn
¼ cup melted butter
½ cup grated Parmesan cheese
salt, garlic salt, or celery salt, to taste
Put the oil and popcorn in a popcorn popper and pop until done. Combine remaining ingredients in a mixing cup and pour over popcorn. Stir well and serve. Makes 2 quarts.
Divine Intervention
Our house had been on the market for six