Why do successful women stay alone?

By Fernando Fernandez

Successful women suffer the hardships of being empowered. They don't settle for a man who's less than they are. That leaves them with just a few options. Intelligent women discriminate against partners who are not up to their intelligence. While beautiful women do not necessarily seek handsome guys, they don't mingle with ugly or less attractive guys unless they are successful. What do women seek? Is there any clear pattern? Some case studies are used as examples, and recommendations are also provided. There are options that will undoubtedly assist you in your love life success.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Fernando Fernandez
• Release date: Mar 17, 2022
• ISBN: 9798201289577

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Introduction

Beauty is an asset in today’s society. It opens the door to many opportunities, and believe it or not, people still discriminate against others based on looks and physical appearance. It is said that beautiful women and handsome men have an easier life. However, many beautiful women have a hard time finding Mr. Right.

Intelligence is a much desired trait in our world. Intelligent people, in one way or another, lead us forward. Sapiophilia is a rare form of love for the intellect, a smart person. It is wrongly believed that intelligent people are successful in life. They are prone to issues with socializing and establishing romantic relationships. It is timely to clarify that intelligence per se is not enough to have good relationships. Emotional intelligence is vital to achieve that. Interpersonal relationships are driven by many other factors not related to your IQ.

Successful women are supposed to have many men in line waiting for them. That standby list doesn’t exist at all. On the contrary, successful women suffer the hardships of being empowered; money can buy you sex. However, it cannot buy you love.

A strong personality that usually accompanies successful women is a dismissal note to any potential suitor.

It would be a good exercise for us to build a simple model that reflects the reality of our society today. However, life is not that easy. There are too many irregular patterns of human behavior. It may vary according to different lifestyles in  a particular society. Here, we share useful information based on  psychological knowledge and interviews. We gathered the most important information regarding this fascinating topic: why do beautiful and successful women struggle to find a long-lasting couple?

A clinical study conducted by Jordan Peterson explains that women like men who are older than themselves by 5. Furthermore, successful and beautiful women would like to marry men who are equally successful or prettier than they are.

This is not a disclaimer whatsoever. I don’t try to present an academic document or psychological jargon in detail on this topic. It is intended to be a recollection of ideas, thoughts, interviews, and experience to talk about a topic that has been neglected and that women usually don’t like to face. It is motivational and, at times, inspirational, trying to provide help rather than criticism.

I. Intelligent Women and Couples

What do women’s IQ numbers have to do with being alone? A higher IQ may make them more selective, not just in terms of romantic relationships, but also when it comes to friendship. They tend to have fewer friends and, as a result, less social interaction, which has a negative effect on the field of relationships. It is detrimental to other prosperous and intelligent prospects. Intelligent women have problems finding a man who looks handsome and intelligent at the same time. Although beautiful and intelligent women may find the potential candidates attractive, they may not want to get involved with them. These men may prefer to go for a less intelligent or attractive girl, one that may be more outgoing, caring, or funnier. Most intelligent women want to marry a colleague or a successful man.

What’s your experience? I do not know about you. However, I have successful friends and relatives, and they still have problems with finding a partial partner because they are very demanding. When their biological clock is tickling, they might surrender and settle for whomever comes to them. Due to family pressure, even though the new generation cares little about what others say or what their family expectations are, because they are more successful and gorgeous, they are also scary and frightening to men. Moreover, men tend to skip on those kinds of women. We instinctively think that they are going to reject us right away, partly because they operate at a higher level and we believe that they are not going to lower the bar. It is not a wrong assumption. Most of them look down on less fortunate men.

We all have prejudices when it comes to relationships. Some people would never marry a person with children from previous relationships. It may have to do with some traumatic experiences in their childhood. They may share that characteristic in common, being part of a dysfunctional family. Although that’s their reason for such a rejection, that’s not enough. It is prejudice, and it harms others. It separates you from a potentially wonderful couple and family. Other people turn down possible couples based on physical traits. It doesn’t matter the ground, physical or intelligence, it is a discriminatory practice. Height, weight, skin color, intelligence, curvy, thin, thick, or not so smart.

An intelligent woman is a powerful one, and more so if she has a great physique of exceptional beauty and is able to exploit it. If she doesn't have it, she will always manage to find ways of enhancing her beauty and exploiting it. They have  a very keen instinct for detecting good men. Although many people are unaware of it, women with above-average intelligence know that the best men are not the prettiest, but the most attentive.  Their sense of taste  goes beyond their superfluous fashion looks. They are able to spot who they like. They usually find themselves in the midst of many men. You won't see them competing or drawing attention to themselves; they are refined, tactful, and don’t have to use any vulgar tactics. They know that quality overrides competition.

Some women are genuinely uninhibited and extroverted. They almost always have a shrewd response to critical comments and make a fool of anyone they ridicule. They don't need a name to give them added value or a woman to serve as a contrast to them. They are the center of attention wherever they stand, and they ignore people who do not recognize their worth. They will leave you talking only if you deserve it. However, if you really love them, they won't let you leave for anything in the world.

If you really want to know what an intelligent woman is telling you, you must observe her carefully and analyze her facts. Listening to her can help you understand her. Nevertheless, there is nothing better than knowing her actions to reveal the intentions that lie deep in her heart. It is said that you have to go through hundreds of average women to be able to forget a single intelligent woman.

Every word stays in our memory like an ingot of gold, giving value to her presence. They build a better world around them, and in the quiet moments, they are interested in their side. Their beauty lies more in the way they act as masters and not as servants, assuming that everything created is available to them. Limits are a kind of challenge for a woman. Her perceptive, enterprising instinct always leads her to conquer new spheres and fight against the obstacles that the world puts in front of her. She knows that there are no barriers, they are the product of denial, and will not hesitate to try to transcend the barriers. The intelligent woman makes herself up. She also beautifies herself by reading.

The more intelligent she is, the more beautiful she will become. There is no woman more intelligent than one who shows respect for morals. Speaking with restraint tends to attract criticism. However, they do it from a constructive angle, putting love first. Their manner of speaking invites conciliation. In addition, they are good at debating because they manage to unify criteria, and in conflicts they show themselves to be peacemakers.

Intelligence could also be a real problem for women

because the more intelligent they are,  the harder it is for them to get a good name. Every guy who  likes them will inexorably go through their  judgment. They will quickly evaluate him in many aspects: self-confidence, kindness, dynamism, intelligence, resilience, constancy, and joy, not to mention the many lines with which he must fill his shoes before his body and soul. The past is yesterday's newspaper for women with mental ability. However, make no mistake, because they never forget a bad move. Although they will live in the present without complexes or quarrels, they will leave behind sentimental ties with great ease, dedicating themselves to living the gift that the present means for them. Life is a race that will only stop when it comes to an end.  These women prepare themselves by studying and seeking all kinds of training and education to improve themselves  and build themselves up every day. Education is their main goal. They will never prefer a party to a symposium.

If you don't use your talents, you will lose where you are always appreciated. You must be in the right place with the right company. They know what they want and they are constantly choosing. Don’t stay tied to any group if it denigrates them or makes