Victimization: Victory over the Victim Mentality
By June Hunt
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About this ebook
- Overcome the pain, anger, and fear
- Discover your true value in Christ
- Heal the pain of the past
- Foster positive relationships
This mini-book covers:
- Common forms of victimization
- Emotional, mental, and physical side effects of trauma
- How to identify self-defeating "survival" skills that keep victims trapped
Does a crisis from your past still affect you? Do you want to move on, but you don't know how? Experiences from our past can leave lasting scars that can deteriorate our self-worth, and ultimately leave us feeling powerless, victimized, and even paralyzed from moving forward. June Hunt understands. As an abuse survivor and as someone who has been helping abuse victims for decades, she knows firsthand that healing is a process. Let June Hunt guide you through the process of healing as she points you to the true source of freedom, Jesus Christ.
You didn't think anyone could hurt you like this, but now that it has happened, what do you do?
The pain that comes from being victimized is real—whether it was from growing up with alcoholic parents, being forced into an unwanted divorce, or being verbally, emotionally, or even physically abused. We often carry those wounds with us for a lifetime—but we don't have to.
June Hunt has a message for you: It is possible to overcome pain.
Hope and healing is possible. God wants to see you free from the past with his transforming power to become all he created you to be, as he shows you how to go from victim to victor!
This mini-book also shares practical ways that pastors, church leaders, parents, professionals, and even friends can support survivors on the road to recovery.
June Hunt
June Hunt is the founder of Hope for the Heart, a worldwide biblical counseling ministry that provides numerous resources for people seeking help. She hosts a live, two-hour call-in counseling program called Hope in the Night, and is the author of Counseling Through Your Bible Handbook and How to Handle Your Emotions.
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Victimization - June Hunt
VICTIMIZATION
Victory Over the Victim Mentality
Here they come again—those painful memories that permeate your heart and pummel your thoughts and emotions. You feel caught like a frightened bird in a cage with no way to freedom. Yet it happened so long ago.
Do you live your life coping with a crippling crisis from your past, hoping to somehow get beyond it, to forget it? Well, the good news is that God wants so much more for you than just to cope. He wants to help you overcome your painful past and conquer the destructive patterns that have developed in your life as a result of your past victimization. He wants you to grow in maturity through His grace and to reach out and help others in similar pain.
Feeling powerless doesn’t have to be permanent. God wants to set you free from the cage that has far too long held you captive and robbed you of peace! He offers you His power for healing and for changing. And when you experience true healing and personal transformation, you also receive true freedom. Like a bird out of a cage, you can experience freedom today and have bright hope for tomorrow! All because of the fact that ...
It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery.
(Galatians 5:1)
DEFINITIONS
She is the daughter of a king, but she becomes a desolate woman. Her position guarantees a lifetime of honor and recognition, but instead she spends most of her life in seclusion and disgrace.
Tamar’s earlier years are characterized by beauty and innocence, which both captivate and torture a certain young man, her half brother, Amnon. Amnon became so obsessed with his sister Tamar that he made himself ill. She was a virgin, and it seemed impossible for him to do anything to her
(2 Samuel 13:2).
But Amnon’s shrewd cousin comes up with a plan that makes the impossible possible.
For your ways are in full view of the LORD, and he examines all your paths. The evil deeds of the wicked ensnare them; the cords of their sins hold them fast. For lack of discipline they will die, led astray by their own great folly.
(Proverbs