CODE OF THE SEXES

By Everton Elliott

As for those who are seeking a mating, dating, and lovemaking strategy and are looking towards a long-term companionship, these strategies are perfectly well sorted and are extremely useful. These strategies can even help those who are dating to better understand how to use the postponement of sexuality d

• Language: English
• Publisher: Global Summit House
• Release date: Oct 26, 2021
• ISBN: 9781956736878

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CODE OF THE SEXES

IS YOUR STRATEGIES FOR:

MATING, DATING AND LOVEMAKING SCENARIOS,

IN EPISODES OF FRIENDS FOR FRIENDS

SOUR, SWEET, BITTER LOVING

Everton Elliott

Copyright © 2021 Everton Elliott.

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CODE OF THE SEXES

Author: Everton Elliott

Everton Elliott is an Author, Entrepreneur and a leader, one who likes all the skills he performs. I would like to say he is extremely smart, self-motivated, and creative; a man with a personality of lots of golds, dreams, and aspirations.

Although he has lived more than half his life here in the United States of America, living abroad for such a long time he has often tried to give a listening ear to the public at large. Trying to gain some knowledge of any major brand that might be missing from their marketplace. Obviously, if there is one thing he would like to promote to the international market would be to supply a product with natural value.

After a marriage that went through rigorous years of struggles, he has been divorced for over the past sixteen year and has been living alone since then. However, he is a two times father of three sons and one daughter from two different mothers. From his three sons he is now the survivor of ten Grand-children, three boys and seven girls.

Everton has also operated in the transportation industry for over 18 years, as an experienced class A Chauffeur around the Tri-state area, until the year 2017 when he gave up his Chauffeuring operating permit. He was one who had a strong ability to perform his duties in this area, with the experience of navigating to any uncovered location as long as it was on the ground. Meanwhile, maintaining a good relationship with the many classy patron of Celebrities, Sports-personnel, Cooperate Business-people and the like he has driven during that time. He’s one who also had great knowledge of using the roadways anywhere around the tri-state area, as well as many expressways and roadways regionally.

Over the years, Everton has developed himself with the skill set of being an author, with his first book Interaction Of The Sexes already on the market. He is now introducing his second book Code Of The Sexes which is his first book of a four series package in the works and into the marketplace. Code of the sexes is based on the subject interaction of the sexes, and so he is now overly excited about his performance doing just that!

Although the story was developed  based on two young people mating, dating and the like, this story is in fact based on partially some of his own lifetime experiences. He is now anticipating all his friends and family to get excited about his work and wants to hear more about that in the near future.

Everton is also an inventor, with the expectation of seeing his first product rolling out to hit the marketplace any time soon.

So, with that said and done. Everton is one of those who with no doubt work extremely hard every day and night and do have a lot to thank God for.

THE PREFACE

This story was written immensely as one of those long-term, short-term, romantic interaction in a relationship! Many of us have this dream of a happy, fulfilling, faithful and until death do us part sort of a relationship that never last. These are the types of relationship seem to be the ultimate gold for most people.

Let us consider this storyline, which is far from being a fairy tale, yet it is still close to be the reality. Overcoming various complicated circumstances, rejoicing a committed relationship, living happily ever after, until death do us part.

Have you ever wondered what it will feel like when you finally think you meet The One? I’m not talking about fairytales, where we watch princess meeting prince kind of an experience, but the real raw emotions and feelings you have when you meet someone that you know you want to spend the rest of your life with. The feelings you experience when you’re in love can be intense. From the super highs to the down lows and everything in between, here are feelings that will be familiar to those who have finally found the right person.

You’ve just met the love of your life, and even though things are only just beginning, you know this one is different. You feel happy in a way you can only remember feeling as a child, and the whole world seems like the magical place it did back then. Now you’re feeling like you have lost control and have no choice but to letting yourself go.

How often have you found yourself squealing on the phone with your friends and family, dancing around your home without a care in the world, and acting just a little bit silly as childish? Some of the things you’ll do when you’re falling in love are a little embarrassing, but you just can’t help yourself!

They’ll help you through complicated and difficult love situations like deciphering mixed signals, getting over a breakup, or anything else you’re worried about.

Not everyone will feel the nerves creep in when they finally meet their soulmate, but many of us do. Falling in love also means becoming vulnerable, and this isn’t always an easy thing to do. Plus, what if you do something to mess it up? What if he doesn’t feel the same about you anymore?

What happens when nerves and joy coincide? Butterflies! You feel a happy kind of nervousness when you think of him, when you go to meet him for dinner, when you talk to him on the phone. It makes you feel alive, and thankful to be the one he’s in love with.

When you’ve finally met The One, your confidence skyrockets. You’ll lose, at least during the honeymoon period, all those negative thoughts that used to occupy in your mind. No more, I’ll never find someone who loves me as much as I love them kind of prank. You’ve got this on lock, and nothing can stop you this time.

I don’t want to sound too corny, but blessed is just the right kind of ways to say it for this feeling that you’ll experience when you’re finally in the arms of the right one. You know a lot of people search for years to find the right one, and many never do. The fact that you have makes you wonder what you did to deserve this. You don’t know, but you’re glad it has happened.

So that’s where your sex drive had gotten you.

Your work will become more creative, and your ideas will start flowing. Suddenly, you start seeing aspects of the world around you that you never had before and it’s a beautiful thing.

It’s like an unknown weight has been lifted from your shoulders. Life somehow just doesn’t feel as hard anymore or maybe because you know that you’ll have someone by your side now.

Unlike this couple in this scenario, they were young, attractive, and healthy people at the peak of their reproductive age; they both were eagerly ready to commit themselves to each other for the rest of their lives.

Having grown up with such a plot, they would often time wonder why is it that their own love-path resembles’ more like what you could call, an uncomfortable stumbling path through life. It would seem like all the way through their confusing, mating, dating and lovemaking path of things, followed up with dead ends with all the wrong choices made.

Occasionally, they mismatch between the plot throughout their fairy tale scenario and real life setup; which could make it be more than ever complicated, for newly-weds, especially, she’s at such an early age of her life. Has been expose to the imagery love action of a tremendously handsome gentle man. Who is prosperous, in good shape, adequately clever, and is able to face up to any of life’s rigorous challenges it has to offer. To be the victor of captivating her heart and moreover, inhibiting all possible wishes. Then to hasten himself off to some other princess whose heart could eventually become conquered.

Many young men grow up, believing in finding an attractive young woman, who would want to turn a blind eye, to other outstanding men, and give birth, to his only sons or daughters.

Keeping all the prince and princess everlastingly, together, stories in mind, any falling apart can be tragic. As you later will come to discover, that he or she was not the individual, and that all this time and asset went down the drain.

The ironic path here is, for many people investing in maintaining, such as an enduring faithful relationship; may not having more advantageous premeditated plans for something with such an ordeal as this plan, it is at least not during their entire life’s’ span.

THE INTRODUCTION

CODE OF THE SEXES

YOUR STRATEGIES FOR:

MATING, DATING & LOVEMAKING SCENARIOS,

IN EPISODES OF FRIENDS FOR FRIENDS,

SOUR, SWEET, BITTER LOVING.

At the moment, this scenario will provide an example of short-term mating and dating to show the trade-off commitments these two lovers are willing to create.

In this illustration we will come to the grips as to whether they were evolved to be the individuals who will participate in the practice of having one single sexual partner, during a period of time they were not together. Or whether if they will be the type of human who practice of having more than one sexual partner at the same time and the differences that could set them to be apart?

The facts here could be remarkably diverse:

Some report indicated that most relationships in the world around us today are within society having one sexual partner. While others are shown indication of being in the multi-mating systems. But there are yet some people who are typically having more than one sexual partner at the same time.

The evidence here is clearly that humans possess a neurophysiologic system for pair bonding, and affection speaks for the case. Wherein we as human, having one single sexual partner during the period of our lifetime has proven to be impossible. However, there are abundant facts to proof this status, showing those people with a higher status of having multiple partners, with having a higher reproductive success.

In a foraging society with cross cultures, similar to other people having more than one primate partner, human males compete for mates and can be shown physically aggressive. While females benefited largely from genetically fitting short-term mates, as it will eventually increases’ the fitness of her offspring.

The Facts Here Could Be Extremely Diverse

Since this story is based on for the most part some of my own life’s experience, I am sure if you stick with me I’ll be able to walk you through this easily. It is of no doubt that whether we were evolved to be the people who practice of having one single intimate sexual partner, during the period of our lifetime. Or individuals who having more than one sexual partner at the same time?

This story plot is set to eventually help us to conclude a statement of why we have adaptations for short term, as well as long term mating strategies. This story in its fullest is really presented and based on two people, a young man named Nate and a young lady named Rhea. It is set to prove a point as well as to help readers transform their intimate personal relationships into good quality conduct of a monogamous relationship.

Here we can see Nate as fully matured young man at the time was in his late twenties and following up with an intense female inmate. She was one of his Spanish Language Classmate, in a socializing event at New York University. After the first class, he gets to talk to this young student by the name Rhea.

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Readers knowledge begins with every turn of page through an extremely comprehensive content guide. Which will help them to achieve a more in-depth path, toward a more thoughtful illustration of how we were evolved to be the people who practice of having one single intimate sexual partner, during the period of our lifetime or individuals who having more than one sexual partner at the same time.

Code of the sexes:

Although the story was developed  based on two young people mating, dating and the like, this story is in fact based partially on some of my own lifetime experiences.

Now, are we evolved to be the people who practice of having one single intermate sexual partner, during the period of our lifetime? Or are we individuals who having more than one sexual partner at the same time?

And why do we have adaptations for short term, as well as long term mating strategies?

This story in its fullest is really based on a young man named Nate; Nate is following up with an intense female inmate, who is one of his Spanish Language Classmate, in a socializing event at New York University. After the first class, he gets to talk to a young student named Rhea. Nate is not the most ambitious, or affluent young man around.

Neither is he looking for a long-standing partner with whom to snuggle down with. He is probably too daring and immature, at this point and time of his life, to be considered a good prospective father figure for her offspring’s to be.

On the other hand, Nate is a very nice-looking, tall and in a good contour kind of guy, with a good looking masculine facial feature, smooth skin, shiny hair and broad shoulders. He just seems so brisk, lively, and full of energy, it doesn’t go without being seen by any other women!

It is despite the fact that Rhea has been encouraged by her relatives, that whenever seeking friendship with a male figure to at least look for a type of person, with the intention of a serious male friend material. If at all possible, husband-like material, and now she gets very attracted to Nate. They have engaged in such passionate relationship; during the few weeks that the course took place between them. Once out of sight they do not pursue seeing each other often enough.

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MAKING THE CONNECTION

In the opening of this story, we come realize where a young man named Nate, is following up with a passionate female inmate by the name Rhea, who is one of his Spanish Language Classmate in a socializing event, where they both attend at New York University. However, they both fell in love during that period, while studying there together.

Challenging Evil Dates Could Be Made Useful

Not long ago, while Nate was doing his early morning tracks, around the track-field by the campus where he was doing a study on his socializing Spanish Course. He soon after beginning to notice the moves of numerous females, as they come out early in the morning to get their work out done.

This causes Nate to have peculiar thoughts flashing through his mind. For anyone to keep things happening and ready for action in the dating game, it requires mandatory preservation of their mind, body and soul. Perhaps this is why I am so bad at making the choice to finding the right young lady and dating in general. The truth is that’s the real reason why I dislike maintenance and I am not fond of having to deal with all the gears to remain staying fit for those actions.

However, I have come up with at least a catalog of essential evils that, I have obligated to perform, to remain good-looking and aggressively ready for any action within the dating civilized world. The heartbreaking craze though, is, if I didn’t have to get engage with the opposite sex, I doubt if I’d even be able to keep up with all those paraphernalia.

Visiting the fitness center

I’ve got hatred for each and every minute spent in a fitness center. Let’s face it, start from the locker room, which is of course always full of nobody else but undressed matured guys. Next are the treadmills where I most of all feels like I’m going to keel over. Then after all that, when I think about the weights, where it makes me feel weaker than all the giant meatheads around. Their head are so thick, seem like they have no neck at all.

Despite the fact that I am there torturing this body of mine. My thoughts are also focused on all of the superior detrimental things I could be doing, I could be just eating up some fast food, or even partying in a tavern along with my other comrades.

Of course, I may as well just lie nearby watching the television, this is one of my favorite activities anyway. Although, if I don’t go to the fitness center, I’ll get sort of spongy and later turning saggy besides, it would very soon make me feel disgusting.

In any event, this is why by no means I have come to realize, why those people who do their exercise at the fitness center, are really dedicated with their working-outs. To me, it seems to be a chastisement to the body. Even though, it is a chastisement that is a good thing to help our body keep in good health, as well as helping us to gain more Physical power.

Sanitary mental hygiene is very important

I would not at all want to be lying to you; whenever time I am all alone by myself, at least for a few days, I would always let myself go. This means, I do not trim the hair on my body, I would scarcely even take a bathe, I have to say, I just get drunk in my own funky body aroma.

According to the grapevine, it sounds as if my mother doesn’t like it, but that doesn’t goes to say I’m nasty, it’s just a matter of being comfortable with yourself. I am sure we all could attest to that statement. Right!

Once I allow myself to become rancid that way, she gets very aggravated with me. On this my 21st birthday, along with my gifts, I also noticed an accidental container of germicidal product. It was my mom delivered it and she explained to me while handing me a container of cotton swabs: she goes; just dip a cotton swabs in the chemical and cleanse your body part wherever necessary.

For the most part, it’s disgusting enough to say you’re all alone as well as feeling handicapped when your mother is still instructing you concerning these issues that you ought to already know for yourself since you were in your teen years. My dear friends I can only guess, this is why it is a good thing when mothers’ can still be there for you.

Use your brainpower

Knowing I’m a smart guy, it gives me all the reasons to glance around while looking for smart young ladies whom I think I could date with. Even if it takes some analyzing as well as making some inquiries. Currently, I’d rather to explore some of their positive effects on the web, such as: factual crime, nature, sports and some random tidbits about them.

I’d rather to have my sequential information done into little snippet segments, and I prefer to be capable of getting off it when I think I’ve had enough. Nevertheless, I presume it would be even smarter if I study more smart-sounding manuscripts. Sadly enough, reading more than one-third of a volume is crucial and evil enough.

Having an income is necessary

It’s always a pleasure to get myself a job. Since, I know it is essential to have some cash, to take my sweetheart out to nice places where we can have some enjoyment together.

Consequently, I have to take care of my job, I have to make sure I can become more successful at what I do at work. Therefore, I’ll have to make an effort to take pleasure in my work and be able to keep it. Even though, my desire would be, better off if I were still in college.

Make the effort today, see the results later

My associate at work, Megan, has invented a product. Not like most inventors, I don’t have something useful and cool named after me. I know I have a cynical take at my lack of following through as my namesake. Oh yes, I’ve had spectacular ideas: I was about to offer my friend’s fiancée an album with just him and myself.

However, I was about to grant Megan an affluent idea of a lifetime. Hew, an agenda, to help her get better at what she liked best. I made up this amazing idea called Use-Di-Flo: This would cover all hygienic, lavish lavatories to facilitate users all over the metropolitan. I’d do this with the aim of charging a fee, of sixty cents per use, to allow everyone such an affordable right to use it. This is especially for anxious crappers, such as me.

However, as for me, I have many ideas, all of which never leave my thought. But hold for a bit! How about if we get back and stick with some mating and dating ideas: dating requires lots of effort and pursue. Yeah! I am still effectively working on that one too. This catalog may probably as well be a listing of crucial evil of self-worthiness. 

Anyway, if successful dating relies on positioning yourself with one foot in front the other, then maybe I ought to apply the essential evils to get myself nice-looking and get equipped for dating and the rest will immediately plunge into place. As a result, maybe we should work on ourselves initially, and then worry about dating afterwards. Then again, as guys we should try our best to keep our behavior like a gentleman would.

Grasping The Attention Of A Lady

I’ve got my car all fired up and glittering, my muscles flexing and a stockpile of pick-up lines ready to go. I think that I’ll attract a multitude of female with this tried and true approach of mine. Then I found out, I’d better think twice. See, this is what I later found out: it was not what I thought a female wanted, what really interest her and what she wanted, were completely different things. Nowadays, if your plans are to get together with a lady who will be appreciative for you, for who you are, you must be very conscious of the impression that you construct.

As for me personally, I would use to gear up in flashy, stylish garments on every occasion. I would pull up at the splashiest clubs, let’s say, looking as if I am an easy-going software engineer. I really thought that was all it takes to attract the young ladies inside, but then I learnt, it isn’t really about me or what I think. Don’t get me wrong, I did get some attention, but from some phony baloney crumbling gal. The ones I by no means would not want to date more than once or twice behind the bushes and away from my friends.

Guys just bear this in mind for yourselves; if you’d like to be dressed in jeans or pullovers, don’t try to show off in your suits to each occasion you attend. If downing beers and burgers thrills you, then just stick with that. Don’t pretend to be what you can’t even afford. Ladies prefer you when you are more comfortable with yourself, than when you’re trying to show off into the things you can hardly afford.

Even if all the ladies appear to be paying attention in simply a certain manner, there will always be someone who will like you just for who you are. One thing I came to realize is that ladies are likely to fall for aggressive guys so I’m always very direct when I meet one. All I do is, to make sure I take the conversation to the right place. This way it does not attract them, it repels them.

As a chatty kind of guy, whenever I get around where lots of ladies are, I would try to date very few. For the reason that, I would never allow them to get a word in. It’s great to be positive and sociable but keep in mind that it takes more than one individual for a conversation. Inquire of her, concerning herself and get as much information about her point of view. Pay attention to her as soon as she responds, don’t shift your attention, give thoughts concerning to what you will say afterwards.

They love men who are good listeners. Good listening skills can also help you develop an eye for forthcoming details. It does matter if she’s always sing along to a certain singer on the radio. Then get her the CD with the songs she likes. Has she spoken about having concerns in Asian traditions? Then you should take her to see a show about the Far East where the Asian tradition arrived from. This will give attention to detail and recognition of her happiness; it will enlighten her that you are paying much consideration and the significance of her outlook.

Most ladies tend to be more grateful for simple things such as that, more than any luxurious ornament or of a flashy jaunt. I always got lots of female because I drive a fancy car and have a massive pricey bank account, says my friend Luther, a thirty-two million record industrial director. It was great for a while, until I realized that they weren’t paying attention to me, but instead, only what I could give them. Now I don’t tell them what I do or let them see my car until I’ve gotten to know them better. This is a very significant point.

Guys let me advise you, never have you in any way used your profession or wealth to try make an impression to these females. If you want them to be intimidated by you, make known your character, strength of mind and wellbeing, but not what you have. This will take you a lot further in terms of meeting a genuine honest lady than any fast car could ever willpower them.

Making Good Friend From A Bad Date Is A Tough Chore

Here we are back to find Rhea is with good company

Well, Okay! Here I am, on an isle just off the Gorgeous Northeastern American Coastline. This is where I felt lucky, when this cottage fell right into these lucky hands of mine. I got it from a friendly source last Tuesday. Along with me was a pregnant pal of mine, she borrowed the cottage by means of her husband’s brother-in-law Sam. While we were on our way, driving up to spend some time there, along the way she started feeling weird pregnancy sickness.

She and her gentleman Mr. Duran promptly decided to turn their coupé around, just about making an urgent voyage to see her medical doctor. Afterwards, the doctor promptly told my friend she should be spending her last three months of her pregnancy on bed rest. It was just the right time and the plans shall work out handy there at this beautiful cottage. From what I’ve seen, my pal is one of the most cheerful little lady ever. I am very well acquainted with her, and she’s already managing the entire situation like a campaigner.

As soon as I got the message from my expectant pal concerning the unexpectedly complimentary cottage offer, I was standing alongside my college acquaintance Nate. I was just sharing with him on the subject of, turning the offer down. Immediately, Nate jumped right in with a thought that influenced me to take a second thought and go for a little vacation away from studying. He also suggested that I should take him along for the ride!

He replied, he would like to come along for the long car ride, as well as to read to me the routing instructions while I drove along. He jokingly also said that would help protect me from ravines along the way or at least the mosquitoes around. So, I began to see the trip, as an incredibly interesting thought. Furthermore, since both Nate and I can study from almost anywhere, as a result we both agreed to join the Duran’s and go for the ride.

Incidentally, it was not long after we were here on this Island, I have already almost burned the house down. Who would have thought someone would be out of their mind to place decorative covers on an electric stove top? Sorry, but I’ve already forgotten my bathing suit. Other than that, we’re having an excellent time. We giggled the entire journey on the trip, investigated each other last night, just before we decide to take a leisurely walk along the shoreline.

Other than that! I have to say!! We’re just doing peachy!!!

The other thing I must say is I am really enjoying this friendship, with my college acquaintance. He is very smart looking and seem quite appealing. In addition, he’s also showing himself responsibly, doing cool things professionally. I’d rather keep friendly with him, but it wasn’t clear in my mind how to steer around that territory as yet.

During the earlier phase of my life, when I’ve gone on dates with some other guys who were great in all aspect of dating; except that I didn’t want to unbutton their pants, I frequently found myself in the position of trying to have control. They would always ask me out on a second date, and I’d say no, as nicely as I possibly could. Unless I’d truly wanted