Tell Her She Is Old and Fat, and Walk Away!: A Treatise of Love, Hope, and Victory for Both the Woman and the Man

By Bruce D. Hugg

The truth about men and women remains the same as it has from the fall of humanity in the garden of Eden: men and women are above all things selfish. This is the single, best explanation as to why we are ever at odds with another at any time.

In Tell Her She is Old and Fat, and Walk Away!, author Bruce D. Hugg discusses the relationship between men and women, encouraging them to seek sincere fellowship in joyfully fulfilling their God-given responsibilities.

He inspires both men and women to examine themselves individually in the deepest regions of their souls honestly every day. In faithfully performing this act, we discover what we already know to be true: we are solely responsible for the battles currently raging in our lives. We must defeat our personal, self-seeking lusts and desires; serve God; and live peaceably with each other.

• Language: English
• Publisher: LifeRich Publishing
• Release date: Sep 10, 2021
• ISBN: 9781489737373

Bruce D. Hugg

Bruce D. Hugg knows what a precious gift family is. After watching the decline of family life over the past forty years, Hugg decided to write this book to uplift and preserve the blessed structure that is the united household to help engender sincere peace, security, and joy in the hearts and minds of each family member. Families, Please Talk Today! is Hugg’s second book.

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Scripture taken from the King James Version of the Bible.

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LifeRich Publishing rev. date: 09/08/2021

CONTENTS

Introduction

Chapter 1: Man’s Stupidity

Chapter 2: Man’s Heart

Chapter 3: The Woman’s Heart

Chapter 4: The Battle

Chapter 5: Battle Conclusion

Chapter 6: The War Is Not Necessary

Chapter 7: Responsibilities of the Man

Chapter 8: Responsibilities of the Woman

Chapter 9: The Conclusion

INTRODUCTION

Men, this is an easy three-step plan created specifically for you as a necessary plan of attack should you decide to venture out into the world of women and drink. I fully understand this is a temptation for all men. I also completely comprehend that the vast majority of men have given into this impulse and that, without a doubt, future generations of men will both continue to possess this desire as well as succumb to this urge. As such, it is my design not merely to grant you a guide with a list of tips to which you might refer in order to build your confidence or encourage you before you decide to go out to a tavern, bar, party, or club. Rather, it is my purpose to narrow your focus precisely to the only three objectives you need to achieve ultimate success in the event you determine it essential to embark upon this endeavor.

Let me be clear from the outset that there is only one reason why both men and women make their way to parties or such establishments as taverns, bars, or clubs. The sole motivation for doing so is selfishness. Each man and each woman who proceeds to enter such a location is unsatisfied with his or her life. He or she is unfulfilled in his or her particular calling or station in which they live. They are unhappy with their own present situation. Thus they deliberately choose to seek an alternative manner of temporal satisfaction in order to procure for themselves a momentary futile sense of pleasure in the company of the opposite sex while attempting to numb the reality of the dissatisfaction they experience in their own lives through the means of alcohol consumption. We each know this to be true. In fact, many of the establishments we visit have signage with the words Food and Spirits in large bold print for us and all to see.

These words are not hidden, as it were, so that we are indeed surprised to find alcohol within the business premises once we have entered. On the contrary, these words are intently positioned in order not to be missed by either those passing or patrons entering. Suffice it to say we are keenly aware that spirits are present in beverages served at any bar we enter, whether signage expressly advertises such or not. Likewise, we attend festivities and celebrations most certainly knowing full well what type of activities will transpire, the character of those orchestrating the event, the reputations of those who will be present, and what will be served to eat and drink once we arrive. We each know, too, that the opposite sex will most assuredly be present in these circumstances. Of course, it is not enough for us to fill ourselves with the spirits of alcohol to experience carnal freedom entirely. No, we must also indulge in the earthly lusts of craving and desiring attention from the opposite sex to acquire secular bliss. Succinctly put, we drink in these settings wanting to forget and ignore our problems in this life, and we pursue sex with others in these situations for our own gratification. Let’s be honest; if we were truly content with our lives, we would without a doubt be home in the company and comfort of those whom we love. We would be with our spouses and kids happily. We would not want to be with any other anywhere else. Period. This is the truth regarding us as men and women. Let’s acknowledge this as such, for continuing to knowingly create false versions of this truth only prolongs such behavior, thus leading to further certain turmoil, pain, and our inescapable unpleasant demise.

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MAN’S STUPIDITY

W ELL THEN, MEN, LET US PROCEED. REMEMBER: we have decided to go out for the night to enjoy the companionship of women as well as the sweet intoxication of booze in its every form. While we are yet at home preparing for the night’s events, we consider what and how much we will drink. We tell ourselves not to drink too much. Yet we plan for the worst, for we know we will most probably exceed our limits and become drunk to some extent or another. As we begin to ponder the ladies and how it is the evening will transpire regarding them, an eerie feeling overtakes us. This is because we thoroughly recognize our undeniable disadvantage to the woman in any worldly social gathering. We know how she will treat us. We know she will not respect us. We are fully aware that we have empowered the woman to take advantage of us in this environment in every respect. We have given her the upper hand. We have allowed her to believe she alone is able to determine for us how our evening will both materialize and end. This is no secret to us. Unfortunately, we simply accept this as unquestioned truth. Hence, we finish getting ready, step out our door, get into our