Next of Kin: How to Pick a Compatible Mate.

By Hishiar Shamdin

From author’s own experience and observing other couples, he noticed one big source of conflict with couples who decide to hitch together, presumably for life.
Many relationships fall apart. The author noticed that a key reason for this conflict, is that a lot of these couples are incompatible to begin with. When such mates decide to commit themselves to a joint life, it is like trying to fit a square peg into a round hole. The author studied the problem and decided to help future couples select compatible mates, before they make a lifetime commitment. The selected mate would be “Next of Kin”, as the book title states. The subtitle would then be “How to Pick a Compatible Mate.”

• Language: English
• Publisher: AuthorHouse
• Release date: Apr 16, 2020
• ISBN: 9781728357768

Hishiar Shamdin

He had his academic training in England and the US. His background ran the gamut of science and technology, through medicine and pathology. He has worked in the US, as well as a stint in Japan. Author has done much traveling, and has lived in different parts of the world, including Iowa, California, Nevada, England as well as Japan. Author experienced different work backgrounds, ranging from pathology lab to Nevada casino.

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Next

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KIN

How to Pick a

Compatible Mate.

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Published by AuthorHouse 04/14/2020

ISBN: 978-1-7283-5777-5 (sc)

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Dedication

This book is dedicated to my brother, Qidar,

who was always there for me.

Contents

Chapter 1

What are The Things that are Important to You in A Woman?

Does She Feel the Same Way About You?

Chapter 2

Behavior—

A Compatible Woman Would Love You The Way You are

Even if You:

Personality Traits:

Who is the most favorable next of kin?

Professional Compatibility:

Chapter 3

Who is an Average American—

Chapter 4

Stick to Your Compatibility:

Signs of Compatibility for the man:

What Makes Social Life Unhappy in a Community?

What Makes A Woman (Wife) The Right Social Companion?

Chapter 5

Some Points in Compatibility—

Chapter 6

The Most Compatible:

The Most Incompatible:

Chapter 7

What Do Men and Women Think About Each Other? How

Do You Become The Most Compatible?

Chapter 8

Vital Points in Compatibility Between A Man & A Woman:

Chapter 9

Checking into Marriage or Dissolution:

Chapter 10

What are Your Mate’s Health Qualifications for Marriage?

Chapter 11

Health—Shelter—Compatibility—

The Truth Versus What is Exogenous:

Resting in Sexual Difficulties After Marriage:

Chapter 12

Why are You Hiding Things from Each Other?

Judgements and Decisions:

Registrations:

Chapter 13

The Difference Between Delusions and The Truth In Marriage—

Chapter 14

Signs of Maturity—

Man-Woman Reactions to Each Other—

The Visible and The Invisible—

Chapter 15

How Do You Know You are in Love?

Chapter 16

Is Love Blind?

Is Your First Impression Always True?

Why Pick a Lower I.Q. Mate?

Love—

Engagement and Marriage—

Chapter 17

Mind Wandering—

She Lost Interest—

Love and Marriage

Chapter 18

Erotic Zones of The Body—

Fertility—

Fertility and Sterility Studies—

Chapter 19

Contraception – Means Birth Control—

The Pill—for oral contraception (with control):

Chapter 20

Sexual Decline After Marriage:

Impotence:

Chapter 21

How Can You Make Mistakes in Finding A Compatible Woman?

Compatibility VS Incompatibility—

Signs of Incompatibility—

Some Basic Incompatible Points—

Chapter 22

Is This A Compatible Female Behavior?

Chapter 23

What is More Important You or Your Money?

Illustration 19

Her Reasons To Be With That Man – True or False:

Can You Explain What The Following Questions Mean To You?

What could happen if you are married to an incompatible (something is missing)—?

Compatibility-Incompatibility Situations-Diagramatic

Problems in Male-Female Compatibility—Diagramatic

Chapter 24

What Lacks in Incompatibility?

Clicking Into Destruction of Marriage—

Stalling—

Chapter 25

Sources of Troubles to Your Compatibility—

Acclamatization to Unreasonable Nuisance—

What Could Happen if for example a Doctor Marries an Incompatible Woman?

Chapter 26

She Is In To Compete With You and To Win Approval—

The Indifferent Woman Who Lacks Insight Into Her Status of Being Wife—

What Do You Inherit Through Marriage To an Incompatible Woman?

Invasion of Privacy Through Her.

Marriage counselling versus Marriage Quackery—

Chapter 27

The Jury—

Reactions to The Following—

Post Marriage Dissolution Period—

Chapter 28

What is an X-Ring?

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What makes the Husband and Wife the next of Kin to each other?

This relation is legal and true to the law. After you read this book, it would be obvious to you why it is true to law, that the wife or husband, in a compatible marriage are the closest Next of Kin to each other.

Therefore, the more compatible you get, the closet to law you get.

The more incompatible you get, the more legalizing arguments you would need to justify being nest of kin to each other.

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