Writings of an Amateur: Volume 3
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Dustin A. Benson
Dustin Benson is a reason to hope, the love to achieve, and the best man to call a friend. He is sincere and intelligent with a loving heart for those in need and a playful spirit that glows more when he smiles. He is like an exploding star that is forming a new universe; beautiful, strong but fragile and full of billions of complexities. He is self-motivated, highly dedicated and full of inspiration which brings out the light from those who enter his life.
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Writings of an Amateur - Dustin A. Benson
Copyright © 2018 by Dustin A. Benson. 772999
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Contents
Author’s Notes
Hese Eyes
E. P.
Letters to Him No.1
Letters to Him No.2
Letters to Him No.3
Stranger Within
A-Lone
LNK#
Post Script
The Kitchen
No One Answers Him
Obsessed
Thought Process
Broken Marble
My Bag of Marbles
After Math
Run
Post Script
Rape
Sleep the Soul
Maze of Moments
Storm of Vendetta
Seduction
48 Beads
Yellow Marble Gone
Birth Again
Untitled No.6
Untitled No.7
Untitled No.8
Untitled No.9
Untitled No.10
Untitled No.11
Untitled No.12
Untitled No.13
Untitled No.14
Untitled No.15
Untitled No.16
Bleeding Love
Not going to…Throw Away
Bleeding Love
P.S. I Love You…
Ramble
Over a Plate of Sushi
Table full of Papers and Pens
Bitter
Today, Yesterday-Tomorrow
Desirable Eyes; Kissable Lips
So Wrong; So Right
Erase
Lloro Por Ti
Statement
CTC
Cry for His Blood
N0@4 k31LeY
Fruit?
Reflect: Reflection: Realization
Motivated
CDC 8630
I10
Artemis
His Blessing
That Golden White Joy
My Jake
So many Lies
Sequoias
Kool-Aid Face Smile
Elimination
Mirror Confusion-Self Delusion
Oak-Acorn
Lost Soul; Wondering Spirit
Sleeping Spell
Just Talk
Guilt
Chronicles of ‘The Book’: Before the Damnation of Innocence
P-s a Book
Letters to Him No.A
Letters to Him No.B
Letters to Him No.C
Letters to Him No.D
Letters to Him No.E
Letters to Him No.F
Letters to Him No.G
Letters to Him No.H
Letters to Him No.I
Letters to Him No.J
Letters to Him No.K
Letters to Him No.L
Letters to Him No.M
Ending Eclipse
Chronicles of ‘The Book’: After the Damnation of Innocence
Esparza
Piano Duet
Transfer
Ancient History
Her Dark Eyes
Emerald Eyes
Broken Family
The Table
Turkey and Ham
Alice’s Diary
WBH- Gone and Broken
Murder
Black Widow
Lost Marbles
Shattered Marble
Abstraction
V’s Eyes
Gone Forever
Boiling
Blacker than Black
Fuel via Anger
Borris
Apollo Smile
Pride
Apollo
Grounded
Back to Underland
Lleyton Marcelo
Project Eveden
Still
Three Photos – Wesley Snow
TruthCA 1-4
TruthCA – Missing Marine….
Truthca- Lost and Unfinished
Declared War
Bound
Masquerade
Monopoly
I.D.1.0.T
Adult Hood
Remembrance
Summoning
Pain Spell
Téa Green Marble
Window
Abandoned
Can’t Be Me
My Request
Last Drop
She
By Candle Light
Used
Remember-Remember
Just Rest – True Peace…Two Lost Souls…Center…
Three Flights Up
Dirty Little Secret
Alone or not: it’s time
Today for you; Tomorrow for me
Click
Darkened Slumber
Umbrella
She Reprise
An Eclipse’s Melody
Slumber Sweet
Sweet Slumber
Defeated
Yellow Brick Road
Defying Darkness
Still I Yearn for You
2³rd of December
Lies
Offended
EO Random
Tea
Matthew, Mark, Luke and John
Restless Soul
The Fairytale
Mitch
Fairy Twisted Tale
Key to Darkness
So close to me Your Whisper
Morning Call
Must Accept
Overflow
Hotel Bed
Hidden
Hat-Tenderness
K9 Cabin
Delusion
Vanity Mirror
37 Stitches
Invitation to Underland
Vision of the Reset
Reconstructed
February-Each Year
Dum Spiro Spero
Sandbox
My Yellow Marble
HHO
LTL
A. J. Love
Black Blood
Broken Heart
Andy Bandy Boo Bear
Troy Alexander Da’Crim-Du’Prii
Jake Benjamin
Thought Process
Díamont Rose
Letters of a True Confession…
Boil Anger
Pumpkin Carving
Carlos
His Penny
Carréon Spell
Carreon Fairytale
That Knife
The Box of Memories
Dark Soul
Gone Via OD
Jesters Comments
Creating a Virus
Mirror, my Dear-
Mythology
The Story in the Painting: The Gardens
Head-Ache
Water
Difference
Phan
My plea
Why so Curious
Fucking Cool
Un-Cut
His Black Beauty
His Rose
Her Rose
The Notebook
Now Out And Hold…
Nay Or Aye Hello…
D
Glossy Eyes
Execution of Death Row
MC Diary
GALL
Chained Chair
Omen via Sun
New Year
Malfunctioned
Underland, Returned
Wonderland
Kill thy Self
Hasty
Cove
Sun Rise
Captivity
Book
Jesters Creed
Noah
Justin’s Prayer
Decide
0300, Monday
Quiet
In a Room full of Men
Bath of Water
Reflection of Abandoned Attachment
Who can Say
Footprints and Tears
A walk with You
Dark Star
Alpha Juliet Golf Juliet
Fear with no Control
Simple
Unnamed No.2
Lost Halo
Him-
Frozen and Awake
Belong
Accidentally in Love
Living the Life
My Hero
Schizophrenia becomes Sanity
Plucked Flower
Falling Rain
Ripping Silence
Crowing Battle
Evening Tea
Chained
Mater of Web
Flying Cupcake
Thunder Feather
Played like a Game
Row Boat/Jeep Compass
Fukitol 1000mg
Soul Eyes
You’re still the one-Gravel Road: Blur
Operation Revelesis
Burning Candle
Veri Occhi
Nothing
Ave Maria
Engraved in Paper
Troy Alexander
Eclipse- Into the Gardens
Blackness
White Lust
Captain O.
Gay Charming
A Wild Way, an Answer
Her Picture
Pavement
Violent Tongue
Manners
iCris
D
Marcdon
Smiling
To be completed
Darkness against the flame
The Last Message
Dedications
-To my Syrian and my brother
-To my Queen and my sister
Author’s Notes
WARNING: This book contains strong language, graphic scenes and/or content that may be unsuitable for children and/or may be offensive and/or cause uncomfortable feelings. All pieces within are creative art and are not solely based on factual events.
The pieces Black Sin
and White Lust
have been blacked out in certain parts due to censorship requested by the publisher, as per their policies, not the author. The original versions of the pieces have been stored into the vault.
There are many pieces of art that have been destroyed, donated, lost, sold or stolen made by my hand. These art pieces can include, but are not limited to, drawings, paintings, photographs, sculptures, sketches, or writings. There are three pieces that were donated but an image was neither captured nor received by the party to which the piece was donated to. This also includes all pieces that were lost. These pieces can be signed by two names, both my legal and pseudo.
Hese Eyes
*Hese pronounced as ‘His’*
And for none shall know what lies behind those Emerald Eyes-
But shall quiver with fright and fear as the end will rise;
And be not dull to the Voice so Stern-
For it too, with Death be your turn,
But remember well who thou betrayed-
As those Emerald Eyes glare into your Soul as you eternally are laid
Because these trees are not bare nor full with crows
Though your infected minds will see them so
As the rain falls down to nourish the grounds
Birth from Death; new Life is found
Twitch our Eyes see the infinite beauty
Yet never are aware of the minds mutiny
For no secrets are known behind these Sapphire Eyes-
A twist on reality, a wicked disguise
So turn your back, and walk away-
And while you leave, you mumble and pray
"Dear Lord above, Almighty and True
Forgive me of these sins that I shall do"
Yet don’t hesitate once when you steal that Soul
A name forever written on that Ancient scroll
A punishment darker than Purgatory or Hell
When those Mahogany Eyes from Heaven Fell
Date-January 10, 2010
E. P.
He is free, He is free-
Low and behold;
He is free
His chains are gone
That held him down
The tape over his mouth
Not on his head, wrapped around
I see Him now;
I saw Him then
And my soul flutters
For nothing but him
But his eyes have found another
Twitch he doubts
And with me he’s afraid to loose
So I pout
I will never be His
Though I work hard to be
But with all said and Done
He’ll never see the me that makes me.
Date-August 12, 2010
Letters to Him No.1
This is for you.
I love you.
Please, be safe.
I need you to come home safely.
I don’t want to lose you.
No matter what, I always will have you.
Do not be afraid to let go,
Because you have my heart.
Date-August 18, 2010
Letters to Him No.2
You said that Love comes from the brain,
I disagree
You have my same rhythm,
My same heartbeat.
I cannot sleep because you’re on my mind
Te quiero.
I love everything about you
Just as you are,
You’re perfect.
So I’ll stay here and wait for your return
I’ll wait for when I can see your smile again
I’ll wait to hear your voice
And when I can feel your embrace
Date-August 19, 2010
Letters to Him No.3
Like a pyramid,
Which remains forever in my heart-
In this horrible storm we are constantly in,
I know nothing is going to take this.
I saw you last night while I ran…
You were in the breeze of the wind.
I smiled because you’re in my heart
And I know you are close.
And so I kept on running.
Date-August 20, 2010
Stranger Within
The Stranger within me,
Follows me like Death
And I am Alone-
-And He is on the prowl
The Fear in people, never touched me
Never seduced my skin;
Fear was for the weak…
…I was blinded
Because I could not stop for Time
He kindly stopped for me,
And on his Second, Hour and Minute;
He held No-Body
I saw No-Body, No-Body saw me
There’s no going back to that place
The aftermath of Fear
No going back…
The Stranger within me,
Follows me like Death
And I am Alone-
-No going back
Date-February 24, 2008
A-Lone
Though He sits a-lone
Staring outside the door
He sits in his chair
Playing it fair
And working all day long
He loses himself completely
Loses all sense of mind
He’s lost and confused
Beaten and bruised
And no one hears him cry
Though he lies a-lone
Staring out into space
He lies on his bed
Feeling all red
And wastes his time away
He loses himself entirely
Loses all sense of sane
He’s rapped and betrayed
Violated and not saved
And no one hears him cry
Though he stands a-lone
Staring outside the door
He stands on his feet
Feeling no heat
And knows his mind will lie
Passing the time
Rejecting the truth
Moving alone
Fake happiness…
…yet-smile
Date-March 25, 2008
LNK#
Find the order-
Blessed be
And scramble it up
So none shall see
But write it here so
We may not forget
Yet never remember
Where the numbers
Truly sit
Date-July 20, 2009
Post Script
September 12th, 1997 – 6:13AM
Leaning against the old weeping willow Elijah looked into Adrian’s eyes.
I love you…
Adrian smiled, giving a twinkle from his eyes.
I love you too…
The chilly morning air smelt of fresh dew on the lawns of people’s houses. Reaching in his pocket, Elijah grabbed a ring and pulled it out. Looking at it, he turned the ring, the silver reflecting the morning light. On the inside he had TnA engraved to symbolize their relationship. Grabbing Adrian’s hand, he slid the ring on. Once more he looked into Adrian’s eyes.
I love you…
Looking at the ring Adrian smiled and for a split second the world stopped in rotation.
I love you too…
September 12th, 2007 – 6:13PM
He grabbed her hand and gazed into her eyes.
I love you Alice Lynn Arrows.
She smiled at him as the wind blew through the branches of the weeping willow.
I love you too David Aaron Bleen.
She laid her head against his shoulder as they sat together underneath the weeping willow. Enjoying her time with him, she spoke.
I want this to be our spot…
He looked at her.
It is, always.
As the hours passed and the setting sun turned to a rising moon, the new couple fell asleep under the weeping willow. –Their first time there.
September 13th, 2007 – 6:13AM
The clouds let loose with the relaxing and warm sun as her eyes opened. They had slept there under the tree the entire night. Tears feel from her eyes as she looked at him looking back at her; love aching in her heart.
Why are you crying?
She gave him a soft kiss
I love you.
The sun grew warmer, drying their tears but the sun could not stop what would happen. David grabbed her hand and gazed into her eyes.
I love you too.
Reaching into his pocket he pulled out a ring and looked at it as it shimmered in the sun. Slipping it on her hand he looked deep into her eyes.
Forever…
She smiled.
…Forever.
Her eyes drifted to the dirt looking at what was shining in her eyes. Reaching into the dirt, she pulled the ring out and looked at it.
TnA…
His face changed to curiosity.
TnA?
Yeah, why?
He took off her ring and showed her the engraved letters on the ring he gave her.
DnA
September 13th, 1997 – 6:13PM
The clouds let loose with a bitter and cold rain as they stood there underneath the weeping willow for the last time. –Sun setting in the west. Tears fell from his eyes as he looked at Adrian, pain aching in his heart.
I’m sorry Adrian…
The rain grew heavier, hiding their tears but the rain could not stop what would happen. Elijah’s hand drew near his head, flesh upon metal. Only two clicks, then silence would follow.
Elijah, don’t…please…
Adrian’s plea broke into a high pitch but soft sound. Then Elijah turned the gun. As the rain grew stronger and pounded the ground as a shot fired into the air, the sound of the rain sounding it out. Adrian fell to the wet grass motionless and not breathing. As his blood mixed into the rain and mud Elijah turned the gun one last time. The blood doubled that day as the sound of the rain echoed into the evening. Two shots fired – 6:23.
Date-January 2008
The Kitchen
Unlocking the door and walking into the kitchen my arms were crossed not wanting to listen to him at the moment. My pride and emotions were bruised, but I think his were just as well…if not even his love. His voice came loudly from behind as he entered, a sound of hurt and not wanting to let go.
You fucking suck you know that. You hear shit and you start assuming right away… Look I don’t care because I don’t look at that, I don’t care about that, I look at you as a very great friend…more than that…my best friend; my better half sometimes… If you are getting information from other places get it straight. I fucking think you are a great guy, one of the few best men I’ve met and it would be incredible if you could remain in my life…
The kitchen was quit with the exception of the clock ticking away on the wall. His hands were on each counter with his legs crossed, eyes looking down. His thin white long sleeve shirt matching the light blue jeans he wore. His short Marine hair was gelled to a style and the silver ring on his left hand caught the sun light shining in my eyes. Standing behind the island counter I traced my fingers up and down the fork that was left a strayed on the counter top. The red shirt I wore counter acted with the dark blue jeans; a cliché as to what would happen. It wasn’t odd for us to have little fights like this…not odd at all. He spoke in a soft but tone voice.
I move on with my life but it stays with me; I’ll carry the weight of my burden until I die.
Smirking I rolled my eyes while pushing the fork away from me.
Then I too sit in the same row boat as you- but you can either sit there helpless and lost or you can pick up the paddles and row to find your way…
My voice and attitude changed with the pleading to an understanding as to why. Why do you do this to yourself? Stop being negative…
He looked up at me as if I should have already known his entire life story.
That’s all I ever knew how to be. I grew up hating life always staying to the shadows of life and the only thing in life that I understand was never let anyone in or I’d end up hurting them when the time comes.
Rebutting to his comeback I glared into his bright clear blue eyes.
Feel free to hurt me- for there is nothing left to hurt…I’m serious; there is nothing there. My heart is pure stone, steel and ice.
His eyes looked to the left and then to the right before settling back on me. His question came quick as if he was changing the subject, but I knew that there was a significant meaning relating to this topic.
What do you care about the most?
Seeing people happy and smile- because I never got to have it…never will have it.
Changing the subject right back on him trying to defeat him at his own game, I quickly spoke again. If I said I loved you, would you believe me?
His eyes looked down and I knew he was thinking. Then his focus met mine once more; his blue eyes meeting my luscious clear green eyes.
No, because how can you love someone you don’t really know?
He was right in a sense- there was some logic there. But being stubborn I kept at my argument.
If I told you I love you because when I see those eyes I see something you don’t see and something you don’t expect that I do…Because I can love a person; anyone can love a person just off of the small details that are often over looked on or about a person- things you take for granted…but then- with that said would you believe me if I said that I don’t believe in love?
He didn’t speak; as if he was thinking of what to say next…the wheels in his head were turning; as were mine. I still have your hat. If you’d like it back I can give it to you…
Still looking down he shook his head.
It’s just a hat, there’s always more.
Cocking my head with curiosity I once more spoke.
Why do you think I took your hat? The fact that there’s more is not the point. But you are trying to pick a fight and you are not going to get one from me…I care to much about you to lose you…what little of you I have that is…
Then he turned the question back on me.
As you, I don’t want a fight; I truly don’t care who wins nor loses; all it is, is a game. What would you say if I told you the person you see now is really not the person who he really is…
I looked back at him, eye to eye.
Then let me keep the rose colored glasses on. Let me take them off in my own time, when I’m ready to see the truth. …Either that or be brave enough to take them off and walk with me to the truth… See you’re pushing me away again. It’s okay though, I’m used to it.
He shook his head like the point was not being seen yet.
I’m not pushing you or anyone away…I just keep them where they should be…like a dog.
I smirked. Now the feelings inside me were slightly bruised.
I’m not a dog and I’d rather you not treat me like one. …But then- you are a free man and may do as you choose; who am I to stop you?
I did not mean to say it like that. A dog does what it’s told; you just follow your heart even if you don’t even think or want to. If you take a step, then so shall I.
Yes I am taking a step-even if I have to step all the way. Push me all you want, keep me at a distance and lie to me to keep me away, but I’m not going anywhere. Through all the bullshit you may put me through, I’m still going to be here…waiting on you to let me in- keep that in mind because that’s a promise.
His focus left the floor but didn’t meet mine, instead lying on the door. It was about time for that bundle of energy and joy to come through- was only a matter of time.
I don’t make promises when people come and they go.
Looking at the door with him, I knew what he was waiting for.
Neither do I, but I just made you one. I don’t give up. When I want someone in my life there is a reason…just wish you would accept that someone can care…
He looked at me briefly before returning his focus back at the door. Through the glass he saw him running up to the front door.
I know you care but I would rather not hurt such a great friend…
The door opened quickly as he ran into the kitchen. I looked at him and his smile then back at Him as if to please be happy around the little one. He picked up and then tension was temporarily delayed.
Look at what I made!
I squatted and looked at the piece of paper with glitter, buttons and feathers glued on. A smile came a crossed my face.
That’s pretty! You did this?
He shook his head with excitement.
Well, then I think this has a spot on the fridge…
Date-February 10, 2008
No One Answers Him
He looks at me
Curious but hiding
His broken heart and lost soul…
A cliché
But I smile and love it
When he has no clue why I’m staring at him…
He makes me smile
So today
I shall smile.
He grabs my hands,
Placing them between his;
His warm body taking the bitter chill from me
His lips brush against mine
He is unknown to your world
But every night in my dreams
I see him…feel him…
Far from my distance,
He makes me happy
My heart yearns for you
Wants to be beside you
To walk with you
To rise and fall down
Knowing that you are here to help me up
You brought me back from the dark shadows
You freed me from the shallow and ruthless rules
I placed on myself
I’m in love with you
My heart is crippled by this pain
I had been closed off
Gave up and didn’t believe
Everyone around me thinks I am going crazy