Small Talk: It’S Only My Opinion

By John G.

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• Language: English
• Publisher: Xlibris US
• Release date: Aug 31, 2010
• ISBN: 9781453556238

John G.

My name is, John H. Grier aka John G. I was born in the year 1955, May 3, to my parents, Beatrice E. Grier and Father John, in Philadelphia, Pa. I care to think I am a gentlemen and one who cares about the old ways when conversing with the opposite sex. I found my affection for women and their security on-line a must after a few female friends have became caught up in scams and a couple of them being sexually taking advantage of, to write some of the pit falls of dating on-line and idea’s on tactical ways to manage their pre-relationships, relationships and post relationships matters. One of the purpose of ’Small Talk; It’s Only My Opinion’ is to give the women a look on relationships from this males perspective. I have been in many short and long term relationships and virtual encounters and have studied the effects on the emotions both before, during and after and although I am not a PhD or own a Doctorates degree, I feel that a view of such have never been written from a commoners perspective. Therefore this book is dedicated to such and I hope it to be a guide to women to help them understand those things that happens in a relationship and to know that when it ends, the pains of the event will not cause them to end as well. This book has 3 sections for knowledge, entertainment and words for the soul. I hope that you find it as fabulous as I did in writing it and hope that you make ’Small Talk; It’s Only My Opinion’ a must read for all women.

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‘Acknowledgement’s And Thank You To:’

The Lady, Jewel C. Warrington, PA.

For her Over all Inspiration.

The Lady, Deborah A. Brooks, MD.

For her time in Listening.

The Lady, Gretel Rogers, NY.

For her time in Listening.

Contents

‘90 Days Of Night’—A Sonnet. By: John G.—369.

‘Being Friends With Your Ex.’—

‘Do You Really Know Where You Stand?’—

‘Sex Object—Positive Or Negative?’—

‘The Awakening’—

‘A Long Time Coming’—

‘A Pathetic Love Prediction’—

‘A Stone In The Pond’—

‘And They Maybe Wolfs’—

‘As I Look Into Your Eyes’—

‘Because I Believe’—

‘Because They Know’—

‘Behind The Front Of Me’—

‘Behind The Scene’s’—

‘Cliff Hanging’—

‘Compassion’—

‘Confession’s Of Change’—

‘Dialing Out’—

‘Fate And Your Selection’—

‘Finite Nature’—

‘Ghost In The Grey Matter’—

‘Hiding In The Light’—

‘Honesty An Ideal Concept’—

‘I Heard The Noise’—

‘I Live In You’—

‘Idle Minds Of The Keepers’—

‘In The Eye’s Of Babes’—

‘Intentional Presuring’—

‘Keeping Your Image Up’—

‘Knowing The Cut Off Point’

‘Living With If’—

‘Loosing Focus’—

‘Love: A Crossword Puzzle?’—

Love And Nature—

‘Manipulation Of Sex In A Relationship’—

‘Moderation Of Feeling’s’—

‘My Mind On You’—

‘No!’—

‘Nobody Does The Right Thing’

‘Pressure Of The Heart’—

‘Relationship Low Point’s’—

‘Relationship Mathematics’—

‘Relationship Pandora’s Box’—

‘Relationship Stability’—

‘Rules For Getting Into A Relationship’—

‘Safe Relationships’—

‘Sharing Of A Heart’—

‘Silence Of A Roaring Heart’—

‘Solo In The Wind’—

‘Stepping Into The Light’—

‘Submission In The Bedroom?’—

‘Submitting Your Resignation’—

‘Tainted Love’—

‘Tea With A Ghost’—

‘The April-Fool’s Commentary’—.

‘The Cocoon Effect’—

‘The Dreams Still Comes’—

‘The Forgotten’—

‘The Hierocracy Of Love Making’—

‘The Infinity Of Her’—

‘The Love Matrix: Reality In Motion’—

‘The Mask And The Heart’—

‘The Playbook’—

‘The Raven’—

‘The Scarlet Message’—

‘The Signature’—

‘The Unspoken Ideals’—

‘The Virtual Honeymoon’—

‘The Virtual Husband’—

‘There Is Always Something Missing’ .

‘Time Won’t Heal This Broken Heart’

‘Trust, A Fearful Thing’—

‘Types Of Lovers’—

‘Un-Refundable Love’—

‘Walking Tall Again’—

‘When A Crow Sings A Love Song’—.

‘When A Tear Fall’s’—

‘When It’s Time’—

‘When Love Becomes A Commodity ‘

‘When The Day Is Done’—

‘When The Mirror Reflects None’—

‘When The Roses Cry’—

‘When We See The Light’—

‘Your Appointment’—

‘Depressed Love’—

Impulse Drive—

‘The Delegated Heart’—

‘The Rose Scented Trap’—

Relationships And The Ready Made Family.

Love Making And Sex, A Difference—

Waste Disposal—

Love Making And Sex, A Difference—

Elements Of Containment—

Walking In The Winds Of Love—

Impulse Drive—

Knots In The Line—

Warming The Bench—

Expectations—

Designer Relationships—

Seening Through The Sunlight—

Speaking In Tones—

A Lovely Disception—

Cream Of The Heart—

Love Can Be What You Want—

A Primary Factor—

Placing Your Self In Danger, Places All Who Loves You In The Same.—

It’s Because—

Checkmate Your Mate—

The Job Less Credited—

The Little Things—

Often Missed, But Never Forgotten—

Looking For Mr. Goodbar—

Just A Little Something—

Expectations—

Feeling Good—

Understanding The Language—

The Casting Off Of Shadows—

Unequal Love—

Unaware Pressure—

Dreadful Moments—

Changes In Life—

Consitution Of The United Hearts—

Basis For Love—

Love From Lovelessness—

Primary Instinct—

A Fly On The Wall—

The Winds Of Time

Lust And Love, A Paradox?

Liquid Fire, Watch What You Say—

The Winds Of Time

Oh How Delicate Life Is:

Now I Can See—

A Suprise Of Things::

A Love Letter:

A Moment In Time:

A Spirit Of Love—

Two Hearts As One::

A Stormy Love Affair::

File This Under Love:

It Only Takes A Moment::

Soft And Easy::

Cottage Of The Edge:

Water On The Deck—

The Sun Shines At Night Too—

Shower Of Love—

If I Give You My Heart, Will You Run?—

Blue Satin Moments—

Things Hidden In Love—

When A Dream Ends::

Once In A Blue Moon::

A Love Story::

A Unique Encounter:

A Heart Rained On—

Calm Waters:

A Sea Bound Romance:

A Love Lost So Deep—

One Wild Rose::

Awesome Love:

A Letter To Love:

‘A MEANS WITHOUT AN END’

‘A Road Most Traveled’.

‘Bad Start’s, Short Finish’

‘Doors’

‘Evil via, Evil’

‘First Date Concerns’

‘INTUITION’

‘Knowing Where You Stand’

‘Making the Grade’

‘MIND AFFAIRS’

‘Not Again’—

‘Of the Messenger Least Wanted.’

‘Oral or Not, That Is the Question’

‘Punany A World Of Its Own’—

‘Questions and Replies’

‘Setting Parameters’—

‘The Act Of Invisibility’

‘The Fundamentals’

‘The Group’

‘The Why’s In Life’

‘Understanding Relationship’s’

 ‘90 Days Of Night’—A Sonnet. By: John G.—369.

March 31St, 2010. Wednesday.

90 days of night and sleep I so long for escapes me. For what have I done to have such a raft place upon a me, so wounded in battles of love. Mercy I cry pity on this body I beg of you, an hour I plea just to taste the flavor of twilight for my mind a fog, thoughts now of confusion of clarity come no longer. I look about for things of comfort through eyes in much pain for rest they seek and can not find. Cry I can not for no tears comes to aid their soreness. Weak this body have become as the sound of time gets louder and this heart beats no more to the songs of life, but to that which awaits me in dreams of lost that nurses on pain so abundant which stalks me day and night in my mind refusing me the slumber I urgently seek. I drink to drown memories and leave the door open for sleep to enter, but this door is denied the gift of a peace of mind. In my home a prison I have made, fear to look upon that of my rib for reminders of that day of execution of my heart. I walk the floors steps of many covering steps of many past, trying to think of times of pleasantries to give my mind some ease. But faces I see of one I wish not to see, comes clear to me as it haunts me. Leave me I shout again and again for you have kill me once twice you shall not have, leave me now for I will face the embrace of death rather then to render the little of me there is. On trial for love violation they should be, of innocents I claim and proof there be, to no ears listen of my plea and sentence to agony is upon me. Try I have for many of days but the ghost of she still haunts me, with vision of joy that turns into pain, my heart have given it’s last and loneliness have moved in with songs from the past. I can see the fool I have been, but the sweetness of love just pulled me in. Promises of love ever lasting yet not to be seen, from the lip’s of that which once was my queen. Pleasure abundant she gave, but the face of an angel was covering the face of evil and her knife sharp removed my soul. Held in her web of pleasure I lay, as this dark surgeon removed and consumed the essences of me. Abandon and soulless left alone, bleeding from my compassion of trust runs red. Now sleep so dear no longer comes just memories that will not fade. I know much longer I shall not last, to where I’ll go I not know, for without a soul there’s no place to go. No help shall I expect, for no one knows of my terror and pain through sleepless night of many I have lived. With the energy I have left, I struggle to sit in my chair, to leave showing pride for this I do. With eyes in pain and the last of my breath, I see her image and I call out her name as I hear her calling mind. Darkness is the heart I once loved true.

 ‘Being Friends With Your Ex.’—

A Commentary Note.

THIS IS A STATEMENT THAT GENERALLY IS SAID BY A WOMEN AFTER SHE HAVE DELIVERED THE DEAR JOHN SPEECH. WELL HERE IT IS FROM THE MALE PERSPECTIVE. 9 OUT OF EVERY 10 MEN IS NOT TRULY INTERESTED IN BEING FRIENDS WITH THE ONE HE WAS AND STILL MAYBE IN LOVE WITH. THE VERY FEAR OF HEARING YOU EVER TALK ABOUT WHO YOU ARE CURRENTLY DATING OR WHO YOU WENT OUT WITH IS MORE THEN ENOUGH TO RE-TEAR HIS HEART APART PLACING HIS MIND IN A RE-LIVE SITUATION. WHEN A MAN AGREE WITH SUCH, HE MOST LIKELY IS HOPING THE LONG YOU STAY AROUND THAT THIS WILL TURN YOU BACK TO HIM OR GIVE HIM MORE TIME TO SEE AND EVEN TOUCH YOU. THE HOPES ARE TRULY UNLIMITED WHEN LOVE HAVE BEEN HURT IN A MAN. KEEPING OUR MANLY PRIDE UP IS VERY IMPORTANT AND THEREFORE YOU WILL NOT HEAR WHAT THEY ARE REALLY THINKING WHEN IT COMES TO TELLING YOU WHAT THEY FEEL AFTER YOU TELLING THEM IT’S OVER. YOU MAY WITNESS SOME ANGER AND THE VERY IDEA OF SUCH EMOTIONS BEING DISPLAYED, MAJORITY OF WOMEN DELIVER THEIR FINAL’S VIA PHONE INSTEAD OF A FACE TO FACE TALK. BECAUSE OF THIS ACTION, IN CONCLUDE’S THE IDEA THAT THE WOMEN INDEED KNOW THAT WHAT SHE IS DOING WILL NOT ONLY HURT HIM BUT ALSO INDICATE’S THAT SHE DON’T KNOW HIM AS WELL AS SHE SHOULD HAVE OR THAT HER REASON’S ARE NOT AS FOUNDED AS THAT SHE EXPLAINED TO HIM. FOR A WOMEN TO ASK THE VERY QUESTION OF BEING FRIENDS, MAYBE HER WAY OF TRYING TO SOFTEN THE BLOW HOWEVER IT IS NOT A GOOD IDEA EVEN IF THE BREAK UP WAS UNEVENTFUL. TIME IS THE FACTOR AND CAN NOT BE IGNORED IN CASES AS THIS. MOST MEN REBOUND FASTER THEN WOMEN IN CASES OF SUCH, HOWEVER THIS DOES NOT ALWAYS’S MEAN THAT THEY HAVE FORGIVING YOU FOR PUTTING THEM THROUGH SUCH. MEMORIES ARE NOT A EASY THING TO ERASE AND WHEN PAIN IS INCLUDED, THEN THE TERM FOREVER BECOMES MORE COMMON. I KNOW THAT I HAVE HEARD MORE TIMES THEN I CAN COUNT, A WOMEN SAYING THAT THERE ARE NO GOOD MEN OUT THERE. WELL THERE ARE, BUT THERE ARE JUST AS MANY WOMEN TURNING THOSE GOOD MEN INTO HATEFUL AND EVEN CHEATING MEN BECAUSE OF ACTIONS LIKE MENTIONED ABOVE. WHEN YOU USE A MAN THAT WANT TO BE TRUE, DON’T COMPLAIN OF THE OUTCOME AFTER HE DISCOVERS THAT HE HAS BEEN. MEN ARE NOTT BORN CHEATER’S NO MATTER WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN TOLD. IT IS DEVELOPED OVER TIME IN MANY CASES AS A EMOTIONAL SECURITY FROM THE WOMEN THEY HAVE ALREADY ENCOUNTERED. RECEIVING TRUST FROM SUCH MEN IS A WORK IN PROGRESS AND A THING YOU MAY NEVER GET IN FULL BECAUSE OF OTHER WOMEN. BECAUSE MEN ARE MEN, DON’T MEAN THAT THEY DO NOT HAVE FEELING’S, BECAUSE THEY DO AND SOME ARE VERY INTENSE. (FINAL:: TREAT THOSE THE WAY YOU WANT TO BE TREATED, EVEN MEN.) BUT THIS IS ONLY MY OPINION.

 ‘Do You Really Know Where You Stand?’—

A Commentary Note

WHEN YOU MEET SOMEONE THE VERY FACT OF WHERE YOU STAND WITH THEM IS NOT IN QUESTION BECAUSE YOU DON’T KNOW OF THEM AS OF YET. BUT AFTER A GIVEN AMOUNT OF TIME, YOU AS MOST PEOPLE BELIEVE THAT YOU ARE OF FULL KNOWLEDGE OF THE PERSON YOU HAVE DEVOTED A NUMEROUS AMOUNT OF TIME WITH. THIS IS BECAUSE YOU NOW KNOW A BIT ABOUT THEIR HABBIT’S, LIKES AND DISLIKE’S WHICH OFFER’S A FALSE SENSE OF AWARENESS. DON’T FEEL BAD, THE MAJORITY OF US CAN BE FOOLED IN THIS MANNER BECAUSE WE ALLOW WHAT WE SEE OF THEM ON A DAILY BASIS TO DIVERT OUR SENSE’S FROM FULL AWARENESS TO A VERY LOW SETTING, WHICH WE COMMONLY KNOW AS TRUST. THIS ERROR IN OUR JUDGEMENT IS A BIG REASON WHY THERE ARE SO MANY AFFAIR’S THAT DON’T EVEN LAST FAR PAST A YEAR. WE CAN NOT LOOK INTO THE FUTURE, HOWEVER WE DO HAVE ANOTHER METHOD THAT CAN BE ALMOST AS GOOD. THAT METHOD IS USING 3 OF YOU 5 SENSE’S, COMMUNICATION’S, OBSERVATION AND YOUR INNER ABILITY TO DETECT BULL-SHIT. KEEP IN MIND THAT ONCE A PERSON KNOW ENOUGH ABOUT YOUR WAY’S, THEY NOW HAVE THE BASIC KEY TO ALL THAT HURT’S YOU. DON’T GET CONFUSE BY HEARING ‘ I DIDN’T OR DON’T WANT OR MEAN TO HURT YOU’. PLEASE IF THAT WAS THE CASE, THEN YOU WOULD NOT BE HURTING AT THE TIME THEY ARE TELLING SUCH. LOVE IS A WONDERFUL THING WHEN THE BOTH ARE ON THE SAME PAGE, HOWEVER THAT IS MORE IDEAL THEN REAL. WHEN TWO PEOPLE MEET IN SOME CASES, ONE OR BOTH IS NOT THINKING ABOUT ‘A TOMARROW’ BUT AT THAT POINT THEY ARE NOT SUPPOSE TOO. HOWEVER AFTER THE FIRST 6 TO 8 MONTHS, THEY SHOULD KNOW HOW THEY WANT TO PROCEED, BUT IN CASES OF SUCH GENERALLY ONLY ONE IS AWARE OF WHERE THEY WANT TO TAKE THE AFFAIR. THIS CAUSES A PROBLEM BECAUSE THE OTHER IS NOT OR NEVER WAS ON THAT SAME PAGE. YOU SEE THE HEART WANT’S TO HEAR ALL THE GOOD THING’S AND IS MORE TIMES PLACED IN SHOCK WHEN THE EARS HEAR THE REAL DEAL. YOU MAY HAVE ALL THE GREAT INTENTIONS BUT IF YOUR PARTNER DON’T FEEL THE SAME, THEN ANYTHING YOU DO WILL ONLY BE TAKEN IN WAY’S LESS THEN WHAT YOU DESIRE IT TO BE. LISTEN OUT FOR SMALL BUT DIRECT HINTS FROM YOUR OTHER THAT ARE CLUES TO THEIR NEXT STEP’S WITH YOU. IT MAY GIVE YOU THE EDGE YOU NEED TO READ THE FUTURE AND ALLOW YOU TO GET OUT BEFORE YOU GET HURT. I LIKE YOU BUT I DON’T LOVE YOU, IS A STATEMENT THAT COULD HAVE BEEN GIVEN BEFORE THINGS GET TOO ENVOLVED. WHY PEOPLE DO THIS, WELL THAT IS THE MILLION DOLLAR QUESTION. I CAN TELL YOU THAT THE BODY DON’T LIE, KEEP AN EYE ON WHAT THEIR BODY IS SAYING, IT MIGHT SAVE YOU A BROKEN HEART IN THE LONG RUN. (FINAL:: YOU LOSE 2 OF YOUR SENSE’S WHEN YOU ARE IN LOVE, YOUR SIGHT AND YOUR HEARING. REMEMBER, KNOW WHERE YOU STAND.) BUT THIS IS ONLY MY OPINION.

 ‘Sex Object—Positive Or Negative?’—

A Commentary Note.

OK HERE IT IS LADIES. MANY WOMEN TAKE OFFENCE WHEN MEN AND IN SOME CASES OTHER WOMEN LOOK WITH A CONSTAINT GAZE AT THEM. MANY TIME’S OVER, WOMEN LIKE TO MAKE IT LOUD AND CLEAR THAT THEY ARE NOT ANYONE’S ‘SEX OBJECT’ AND THERE IS WHERE THE CONTRADICTION ARRIVE’S. WELL YOU SEE FROM MY POINT OF VIEW AND I AM CERTAIN THAT MANY OF MEN WOULD AGREE, THAT IF THE WOMEN IN THEIR LIVES CURRENT OR DURING THE MATE SEARCH IS IN THEIR EYE SIGHT THEN THE WOMEN IS SEEN AS A SEX OBJECT. THIS IS AND WAS THE PAST AND CURRENT MOTIVATION THAT POWERED THE URGE TO PROCEED WITH MAKING AND CONTINUING CONTACT WITH THAT PARTICULAR WOMEN. KEEP IN MIND THAT THE SEEKER CAN NOT READ A MIND AND THEREFORE KNOW HOW SMART YOU ARE. SO USING THE TERM THEY SHOULD GET TO KNOW ME FIRST, DON’T HOLD WATER. IT IS SIGHT THAT MAKE’S THE FIRST IMPRESSION NOT YOUR BRAIN, SO VISUALIZING IS THE TOOL THAT IS USED AND IF IN MANY CASES, YOU ARE FOUND TO BE SEXUALY A TURN ON, THEN I GUESS YOU MIGHT SAY THAT YOU ARE THE SEXUAL OBJECT IN THERE EYE’ S AT THE TIME AND IF ALL TURN OUT SUSESSFUL THEN A NEW RELATIONSHIP HAVE JUST BEEN MADE. OR, AN OLD ONE IS RENEWING IT SELF EVERY DAY. BEING A SEX OBJECT FOR THE ONE YOU ARE WITH IS NOT A BAD THING AND IF THEY WANT TO TALK ABOUT EVERY PART OF YOUR BODY PRAISING IT, THEN TELL ME WHAT IS THE PROBLEM WITH THAT. NOT UNLESS YOU WANT THEM TO TELL SOME OTHER WOMEN? BECAUSE OF MANY BAD SEXUAL HISTORY IN THE MINDS OF SOME WOMEN, SUCH TALK MAY ANOY OR EVEN CAUSE FLASHBACK’S BUT IF THIS THE CASE YOU MIGHT WISH TO GET HELP ABOUT IT AS SOON AS YOU CAN, BECAUSE INSECURITIES, HIDDEN SEXUAL MATTER’S AND ETC, WILL TRULY EFFECT YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND IT WILL BE A NEGATIVE EFFECT. (FINAL:: IF HE THINK’S YOUR BODY IS THE BOMB, THEN INDULGE HIM AFTER ALL IT’S NOT EVERYDAY ONE GET PUT UP ON A PEDISTAL BY A TRUE FAN . . . IS IT?) BUT THIS IS ONLY MY OPINION. (JHG369)

 ‘The Awakening’—

A Commentary Note

After the initial break-up and you have for the most part, removed the self blame, regrets and self imposed humiliation and you feel that you have regain your self from sleepless night and the memories. You are now ready to start thinking about moves that will place you back in true form with life and your self. I am not going to tell you that the days and nights a head of you is going to be as if nothing had happen, however I will say that rebuilding your self confidents is more important and focusing on what’s in front of you will prove to be the hand that will close the door on your past. Although the door is closed, the room will have windows and you will be able to see where you were only it can no longer touch you. So with that said and done, let’s absorb the following as a set of rules for setting of your awakening. Like anything else, it will work for you if you work at it.

1.) Don’t worry about finding someone to replace the one gone, because doing this will just transfer any negative feelings in you onto them. Resulting in damages towards an innocent person. Give it as much time as it takes before inviting someone else into your life.

2.) Change things in your presents that will remind you of the past relationship such as photo’s and video’s, clothing items, gifts received, affectionate letters even bedding set’s if they contain scent’s even after washing because these things will make healing a much slower event.

3.) Try not to go where you both ventured and spent a lot of time at. Going to places like that is not a help to you and you are not strong enough to handle such. Doing that will take more time and self confidents.

4.) Don’t hide your self in the house or within your job, church or family because doing this will not help your social life and in effect will set you back further then you want to be. You must be in the mix of things in order to reassimulate your self, so hold your head up high knowing you are beautiful. Although you may or do still have trust issue’s which is not an uncommon thing. You must not get into your head that everyone is alike because they are not. (final: For everything that ends within your life, a new beginning is truly promised.) But this is only my opinion.

 ‘A Long Time Coming’—

A Sonnet.

And awakening of essences I witness as my mind, not to be held in darkness no longer by my jailer of self pity. I come forward and let slip behind a self that want not to taste the fruits of advancement within I. No longer shall I not bask in the gentleness of love for love calls to me ever so loudly with a voice sweet as nectar it self. My eyes have seen the last of clouds and darkness as I step into the light of the universe and with pride empty awaiting to be filled with the newness of compassion, love and desire. A heart once again that feels the youth of days gone bye and desires deep of urge and want. I hear the songs of the wind singing of loves past and the greatest love within, has yet to appear in my heart. I can see the path clear which is before me as I travel in hopes to find that half that shall complete me as I am now but one as that I was when despair brought me here. Many tears have been lost to open the way and now I can see the purpose of my being with joy and pain emanating from a soul renewed from ill task gone bye as a reminder of lessons learned shall not go by the waste side as life renews none and time lost to things not of importance like anger. I walk alone now and in rhythm with my heart for once again I can heart it speak to me of a fool I have been and I listen with my soul to understand that it will never leave me as that of things and people who love me. I am not alone, I am not a dream I am that which love seeks, for I now understand that she could no longer exist without me as I can without her. I shout to love, ‘Come get me for you are as lonely as I and can not be complete without me, so come and not let things of pain and hate separate us no longer. Hear me love, it you who is lost for I am found and await your touch. Silence once your home, no longer can hold you from that where you belong, in the heart of this one who needs you. Be not afraid as hurt awaits us again, this time we shall defeat it because lessons many have made this heart strong, but without love it can only beat. Come to me love as you once did before, come to me love for it has been a long time coming. Do not forsake me love, for I need your comfort and you need my soul!’ Time her self is jealous of you and taunts me with words that you will never return. Beg gone lady time for you are no lady and I fear not you for love is as old as you and stop her you can’t from coming home to my heart. Love is forever welcomed here, Taunt no more because together we are strong, together we are one, and its been a long time coming.

 ‘A Pathetic Love Prediction’—

A Commentary Note.

If we ignore the fact that we need one another and continue to replace such with things, task and duties unbecoming of what is natural as human to do, we will eventually create a schisms of what we are design to do. In about 200 or less years from our current date, what we now know as the ‘Man and Women’ union will be no long. Population explosion will seem to have reverse on it’s self as the natural flow of things shall be extremely changed. Marriage between man and women, has fallen blow half and have been declining since 1979, although the number of births did increase during the 1980’s, it to have falling by a significant percentage throughout the 1990’s until present. We seem to be loosing out, we are having more sex with fewer results and a lot of this can be blamed on past and current states of the economy, but there is another reason. Some experts in human sexual behavior studies believe that within the next 100 years will a dramatic change in human sexuality occur. Observing certain insect’s and fish which in a few species have become single sex organisms which need not another to reproduce it self. The same is being predicted for humans as a pattern of the sexual brain have been changing, ever so slight as not to be notice however I see it as not to be paid attention too. Because it is very apparent if you only look you will see that the newest generation have become even more into bi-sexuality and women who have taken the complete change is having children through artificial means of conception rather as one would call The Old Fashion Way, thus starts the mental alteration of future relationships. But this is about how one day in the future women will be able to impregnate on their own. Simple things of nature leans towards the human change as in all things such as the control center, (I.e. The Brain) much be re-configured, this will cause all the DNA material to re-write it self for this new breed of human. Already changes have begun in emotional needs, such as the practice of holding off sex for long periods of time, simply in effect becoming a ‘Born Again Virgin’ . You may think that this have nothing to do with what I am saying or how your are, but it does behind the fact that what you do will effect all that is connected to you. You see your selfishness do matter to all. IT TAKES A VILLAGE, remember hearing that, well it don’t stop there. All things take all people no matter how you look at it, we are connected and what one do, will effect the masses and your opinion on it is not of concern because your opinion nature do not hear.(Final: The future is not set, until you start.)But this is only my opinion.

 ‘A Stone In The Pond’—

A Commentary Note.

(When Your Treated Like Just Another.)

Depression on set by the way you are being looked upon from your partner is a small indicator that what you see happening have been going on for quite a while. Just like everything else, the way someone feel’s about you changes, some for the best, and other’s for the worse but in any case a change will occur. As we all want is that the best would be in our favor, but if we could all have what we want as such then there would be no need for dreams any longer. We know that we can’t have it our way and we often settle for the next best and deal with it from there. Not always a bad thing being that if you take a good look at your life, most of it is filled with secondary moves behind that simple fact that we can’t always get exactly what it is that we desire. Hence the word ‘Desire’, which is another way of saying, ‘Wishful Thinking’ which we all seem to do rather it’s the lottery or buying a house, we become very much a slave to our desire’s. Well the seething happens when we select a person to be our, we feel as if it’s an automatic process of nature when in fact it is not, because what or who we select is a thing that can be directly blamed on our urges and often our desire’s not to be alone. Both are not a direct of nature but of choice, so we choose and get upset if we happened to choose wrongly, so we with all of your safeguards down because trust have taken over, your are now in a position for getting really hurt. It is not your fault because it still takes 2, no matter how you stack it, someone to deliver the hurt and someone t receive it and that have not changed in centuries or at least the idea of it only the actor involved. So don’t try looking for a solution because there is none except for common sense and a sack full of good luck. Don’t concern your self with ‘Why’ because the odd’s are that you will never find the answer or get the truth, just know that whatever the reason was or is, that the door is now close or closing fast and you need to get on the other side in order to start rebuilding you. We are all no more then a stone and when they are finish with us, then we will be tossed either in the pond or thrown across that pond and you would rather be thrown then dropped. This way they may just throw you in a god direction. So you have to ask your selves, are you more upset about the break up or that you didn’t think of it first? In a lot of cases it’s the latter that really hurts the hell out of us, because if we was the one to do the dropping, then we would not be feeling so bad and thoughts of getting them back is like a burning rage but however you desire to think of it, you are doing the right thing not too. (Final: Stay COOL!) My Opinion.

 ‘And They Maybe Wolfs’—

A Sonnet.

(Checking the hen house.)

Day’s night’s of joy you settle in with your heart close up on the warmth makes you feel that you desire of the one. As you sleep dreams of pleasure things abundant tomorrow comes not soon enough for your day to pill edge those things desire most you do. Middle of the night a sound you think is present but past it has moments ago. You feel with your hand of evidence of a body no long there and your mind not yet understand, that they maybe wolfs. You think of lost in terms of numbers not accepting the fear of your heart solo in the dark of a place you know as your bedroom but shadows of truth warns you of things and blind you become from sleeping with it, and they maybe wolfs. Images in your mind and of no clarity you see cause blindness of color green has reset your soul, and they maybe wolfs. Days gone by and smiles you get from that which is not what you think, as they whisper in your ear the trap of sweet nothings and nothing shall be you destiny if you ignore much more the warnings of the heart trying hard to tell you, and they maybe wolfs. To is given all desire’s you can eat and stuffed of things understand you not for the sweetness in you replaced by greed cause it taste better but not for long, and they maybe wolfs. Open your eyes and gaze around the room you lay your head, surprise you find you are now alone, as things that is embraced by dishonesty walks among those in the darkest of nights to do those things you can not see for green have blind you love false by that which love is forbidden to enter, that which you lay with, that which uses and give only to keep you as dancing wood of strings deeply tied to that which is not real, and they maybe wolfs. From the times of the great pyramids this darkness has walked in the foot steps of man not blessed of things sacred but of things most fowl but time and things so shinny has blinded your minds eye to things once feared now of myths. Be not certain as you lay in the arms of that you maybe drugged by, and they maybe wolfs. Cold the spot of bed they did lay upon only hours ago and your hand feels truth as your mind accept not. You believe they wonder the house as you know no longer they are, and they maybe wolfs. With another they lay while you caress the now cold spot not to see the truth you heard a the door closed, and they maybe wolfs. A spell cast upon your heart of greed and things only your wants desire not of need, so see not that you know them to be. Your heart like confetti to the wind it flies away bit by bit much pain little tears but a soul stoned of feelings as if by crack intoxicated to the dream of things over love as the fangs close on you, and they maybe wolfs.

 ‘As I Look Into Your Eyes’—

A Sonnet. 3-30-2010.

As I look into your eyes, there is no surprise of what I feel, the time with you is all that desire. I awaken with you in my arms, such beauty only graced by your charm. I know that I am blessed as I hold you to my chest, with loving you I have grown and just for you I am always at my best. Your walk, your talk a symphony to me for any song written of love can not compare to the love you have given me. At the edge of night as it becomes day, I look into your eyes and see the wonders of a future just with you. When we wed, that day will shine upon you my love and I with you now as mind. Comfort you always I shall, until the day we must let each other go. We dance as we did on that day, forever bound two hearts shall forever sing. As we bowel to time and our hair turn grey, I will tell you I love even more each day. When the