Today, I Choose To Be Happy
By Luz Pino
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It means a lot to me to have the privilege of sharing this book's message with my readers, it is what I have experienced since I began to be my own observer and since I understood what positively impacta the life of a human, awakening this spirituality and changing the way you see and perceive your life.
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Today, I Choose To Be Happy - Luz Pino
Today, I choose to be
Happy
"Get to know your inner self
and start building a happy life."
Luz Pino
All rights reserved. No part of this work may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted, in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording, or otherwise, without prior permission in writing from the copyright holders. The infringement of such rights may constitute an intellectual property offense.
The content of this work is the responsibility of the author and does not necessarily reflect the views of the publisher.
Published by Ibukku
www.ibukku.com
Graphic design: Índigo Estudio Gráfico
Cover photo: Makoto Seimori en Pixabay
Copyright © 2020 Luz Pino
ichoosetobehappy2020@gmail.com
ISBN Paperback: 978-1-64086-756-7
ISBN eBook: 978-1-64086-757-4
ÍNDICE
PROLOGUE
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
INTRODUCTION
CHAPTER ONE
Getting to know myself
CHAPTER TWO
Weaknesses and Strengths
CHAPTER THREE
Security and Self-Confidence
CHAPTER FOUR
Identity and Character
CHAPTER FIVE
Meeting my life’s purpose
CHAPTER SIX
Projections and goals
CHAPTER SEVEN
Longing for life
CHAPTER EIGHT
Building a New World
CHAPTER NINE
Silence and Wisdom
CHAPTER TEN
Foundation of my life
CHAPTER ELEVEN
Happiness and Success
Through humility, I want to express my thoughts through this book. It is the first one I have written and I feel as though it is part of my life’s purpose to help other people grow spiritually and encourage them to move towards their dreams. I am thankful to God and to the universal laws that allowed me to make a positive contribution to everyone who reads this book.
I, myself, continue to discover virtues and talents that motivate me to grow and be a better version of myself...
But I dare to promote change and the discovery of your inner self, because that is where you will find all the answers.
Finding my happiness... walking in a constant awakening.
Luz A. Pino
Thank you, my husband, for your effort and dedication, thank you for all you did to help me make this dream a reality...
Thank you for your valuable contributions and for believing that we could make it...
Once again we did it and we did it together...
Because as far as our mind can reach, that’s as far as we’ll go.
All of our lives together!
I love you...
PROLOGUE
This book aims to provide ideas that are useful in motivating the reader’s journey to his or her inner world. That unexplored world that has immense undiscovered riches for every person. An inner world so vast that it holds everything a person requires to live a successful and happy life. None of this is a secret; it is within the reach of everyone who wants to fully benefit from this earth and who truly longs to be happy. Even though the word happy , may have many connotations, in the end happiness is only a state of tranquility that motivates and drives us to live fully.
It is a positive concept of life in all its forms. To achieve true happiness is to reach the place where we can live peacefully in spite of the difficult moments and ups and downs to which all human beings are exposed to on a daily basis. I would be lying if I said that happiness is reached when all the suffering or difficulties are over, but let us be aware that life is made up of good and unpleasant moments, with the latter being where we become truly strong. So we need to learn to be happy with our life and its circumstances. I am convinced that as we delve into the content of this book, we will be able to acquire new ways of thinking and behaving, enabling us to experience different results and an improved quality of life.
This book is suitable for all kinds of people. It contains concepts for personal development and improving interpersonal relationships. If you read it and put some of the ideas presented here into practice, you will perceive notable and important changes within yourself and your environment.
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
To my husband Carlos who has been my partner, my great support, my unconditional friend and my strength. A beautiful rainbow that puts the most beautiful colors in my days; the man I respect, admire and love deeply. For my mother Asseneth who brought the fundamental principles of life to me; whom I love and admire for her effort and dedication. For my father Juan who, although not physically present anymore, is in my heart and I continue to love him. For my beloved sister Victoria, admirable woman of strength, courage and love. To my brother Helmer, an inspiring and respectable being who leaves traces of blessing wherever he goes. To my nieces and nephews Luisa, Santiago, Juan Jacobo, Emmanuel, Laura Sofia and Dulce Maria; who have filled my life with blessings, joy and love. To Dr. Carlos E. Cuero, from whom I acquired very pertinent knowledge for my life. To John Jairo Soto, who has taught me through his wisdom and whom I admire for his valuable contributions to the lives of so many people. To my friends and all the people who have passed through my life, who in one way or another have brought great blessings and from which I have learned to grow and evolve.
Special acknowledgment to Dr. Elizabeth C.W Jones for her dedication and support while on proofreading for English translation.
INTRODUCTION
Who hasn’t dreamed of being happy, succeeding and achieving their dreams? Who hasn’t daydreamed of those places and times so longed for, but when awoken , they realize those are just thoughts that crossed their minds and vanished in an instant as fast as they came?
Many of us have felt the frustration of watching the days, months and perhaps years go by feeling that we have not reached our goals; with the bitter taste of what could have been and was not. With the nostalgia of not having given our best, of not having risked doing something we wanted to do, or simply with the inability to face a hermetic and increasingly materialistic system that tries to limit and firmly point out everything beyond its parameters.
Regardless of your age, in this book you will have the opportunity to discover different ways of seeing life and to understand that we are unlimited beings who can learn to give our best and receive the best that life has to offer; how to get better results in everything you undertake. You will know that you can be part of the change, that nothing happens by chance; that everything has a purpose, because even the adverse moments bring great teachings and make us get all the strength and courage that we never thought we had inside.
Any age is suitable to care for one’s happiness. The best time to feel fulfilled and live a life of purpose is now.
Human beings are formed in a womb by the union of two lives. We had a time of gestation and then we were given birth. It was there that we manifested our first strengths and without knowing it, fought our first battle at the time of birth. This is the encounter with the outside world and everything around us is new, impressive and wonderful. Seeing mom and dad for the first time, maybe also our brothers and friends, the doctors and nurses, who give us a special welcome. Our adventure outside the womb begins. We begin to live according to the teachings of each family; we are given the knowledge with which we will live from that moment on. Like a sponge we absorb every word, every gesture, every behavior from our environment. We learn the way we will treat others and how we believe we will be treated. We are instilled with self-determination or fear and a way of doing things. If we are lucky we are taught values and discipline,a love of work, nature and life. We learn that there are times to talk and times to listen. It is the principles fostered at home that will definitely make us, the reflection of our parents. These fundamentals will be the foundation on which our life will be built, which will later be externalized through our actions.
Parents are our first teachers, our heroes and our refuge. They are the ones who provide us with security, who correct us, motivate us and make our lives happy. In them we find a model to follow and with their help we face the first obstacles.
A new stage begins in which for the first time we separate from our parents to start being independent; it is the school phase where different people begin to arrive, bringing new things to our existence. There are the teachers who will be our guides and through whom we will learn, according to what they have to teach us; both in knowledge and in values. It is there where we practically initiate new relationships with other people and make ourselves known to a completely strange world; each one with a different essence. Those who will occupy important places in our hearts arrive, as well as those with whom we will live undesirable moments. Each day is a constant growth in knowledge and stature. We are developing our capacities and showing the potential that each one of us has. Situations begin to arise that allow us to assume responsibilities and acquire rights that little by little give us, in one way or another, a direction for our lives. It is there in that growth, both physical and emotional, where our first challenges arise; either in the academic part or in our personal life. They initiate changes in our body and in our way of being. Our first strong emotional experiences occur. We cannot ignore the fact that childhood and adolescence have their own difficulties, creating fears and affecting our emotions. In the adolescent stage, we experience very strong emotions, because we have responsibilities, but also a number of dreams and goals to achieve or often the opposite; we do not even know what direction to take in our life. Regardless of all of this, we wake up every morning ready to live a new day without thinking about what will happen next, but there is in our heart a longing to do something else; unreasonable and daring ideas arise to undertake a journey, a business, to give our life a complete makeover and many times, they remain just that, ideas without action. By the time we realize this, we are adults and that is when we stop to analyze the state of our lives, coming to the conclusion that we are stuck. It seems that we find ourselves going around in the same place. As much as we yearn and strive to change things, everything remains the same. We see other people succeeding, reaching their goals, and we ask ourselves: Why can’t I get everything I’ve dreamed of?
That’s when many people make wrong decisions and in the midst of that desperation to find what they think will bring them happiness, they commit misguided acts guided by emotion and anxiety.